If you don’t have the ambition to be motivated, you need to cultivate the ambition yourself, instead of always thinking about living life like this, living day by day, planning things, but always pushing them to tomorrow or the day after tomorrow. , If you do it the day after tomorrow, it will never be realized.

Now that you have realized that you are an unmotivated person, you must make changes yourself. First, you must know what you want, what kind of life you want to live, and what you want to achieve. If you develop a plan around these goals, it is definitely not possible to get what you want from the beginning. You have to take your time step by step. The process may be difficult, but it is better than doing nothing all your life.

My friend is now a mother of two children. She is only 27 years old and has already started to fail. Her husband only earns five to six thousand yuan a month. She is at home with her two children. Dabao is already in kindergarten, and Erbao is only 8 months old. It is equivalent to her husband's fixed salary to support three or four people. However, she and her husband are completely content with the status quo. They think that the money they have now is enough, and they don't want to think about it. How can I increase my income? When my child is sick, I don’t have any extra money to spend. Sometimes I have to ask us for a loan.

I asked her why she didn’t let your husband find a job with a higher salary. She said that her husband now thinks this job is quite good, and she only wants to bring up her two children. , maybe the child will be very promising in the future, and I put all my hopes on my two children. I am really speechless. At such a young age, I have no ambition at all. If I don’t work hard myself, do I think I can rely on my children? The key is how old this child is, it's too wonderful to think about.

When you are not motivated, compare yourself with other excellent people, so that you will be motivated. Every time I want to fail, I always think about others who are richer and better off than me. So hard working, why am I doing nothing here? Such a mediocre life is so boring.