From Guiguzi's three paragraphs, we can clearly understand that in a noisy society, how to be a man and how to be immune!
First: Guiguzi thinks that people should know how to choose! After reading a story, a monk asked Master how to live comfortably in the world. The master answered him, "To open the word Shu means to give up and give it to others. If you want to be comfortable, you should know how to choose them. Therefore, in life, we should not only think about getting, but also think about giving. There are gains and losses, and life can be happy! " !
Second: consider other people's ideas and don't force others to do things. Nowadays, when people communicate, they only care about their own long speeches and don't care if others are willing to listen. And many people often force others to do things that others don't want to do. This is selfish, so in social life, you should know how to listen and know what you don't want others to do to you!
Third: we should do some hiding properly, and don't expose ourselves completely. This sentence looks profound, but it is actually very simple to do! Just don't show your inner thoughts on your face. No matter how much you hate someone, be nice to him on the surface. Smart people don't show their edges and corners, and stupid people will show their cards very early. Sages teach yin, fools teach yang.