Yi Shu has a saying: Love yourself, be calm, and then love others. Good or bad gains and losses, the people who eat melons have their own evaluation. In this world, time is the most precious, but eyes are the most deceptive.

Like yourself is a very beautiful and meaningful thing. Only when you like yourself first, or love yourself first, will you spread self-confidence and freedom from the inside out.

True self-confidence is when others think you are not good or good, but you know yourself, know how heavy you are, and have your own bright spots and advantages. When you really like yourself and love yourself from the bottom of your heart, you will have this calm confidence. You don't care too much about other people's eyes, eyes and comments, so you also have a breath of freedom in your heart.

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Love is mutual. People who don't know that they have to love themselves before they love others can easily care too much about others and ignore their own feelings and limitations. Even if you pour out your heart for others, you will be taken for granted and your self-worth will be discounted. Even if your efforts make the other person cry for a while, you may not get the love and satisfactory life that really suits you.

Because whether you love it or not, the love that you don't look back can only be regarded as a kind of "unrequited love". Maybe this will not only not win each other's favor, help others, but also hurt yourself.

Love yourself before you love others. Only in this way can we make ourselves happy and others happy. Not let others say, "You are the best! You are the best! " But you live in a light source. As long as you are by your side, you can warm and illuminate others.

You can keep smiling for happiness and be strong for happiness. You won't be depressed for unworthy people, won't be depressed for harmless white eyes, denial and slander, and won't be angry for unpleasant trifles in life.