A thought-provoking classic quotation
1, any experience is a kind of accumulation. The more you accumulate, the more mature you are. With many experiences, life has a length; Wide experience, thick life. Experienced sinister challenges, life has a height; After suffering, life has strength; After the test of setbacks, life has a bright future.
2. Dealing with a hypocritical person is not to scold her or expose her, but to let her continue to feel sad and hypocritical, and then pretend that she knows nothing. Then slowly, many people will take the initiative to tell you how hypocritical she is.
Sometimes, we feel that we have come to the end, in fact, our hearts have come to the end. No matter how deep despair is, it is a process and will always end. Escape is always not the way. Courage, go forward, maybe the opportunity is in the next second. Jimmy said, I always see the most beautiful scenery in the deepest despair.
4. Appearance is just sexual attraction to me, because it is not eternal. There is a carrier there, and I will eventually get tired of it. But wisdom is different. You never know how it will be presented in the next second-never tired of beauty!
5, life is stable and has no defects, but if there is no fun, living is worthless. The joy of life lies not in the setbacks themselves, but in the sense of accomplishment of constantly overcoming them. Life has a dark color, in order to appear bright!
6. Everything can be changed, but our ideals cannot be changed; Everything can grow, but our pride cannot grow; Everything can be old, but our young hearts can't be old; Everything can be retreated, but the pace of our progress cannot be retreated. We might as well lose what we have lost, because it will make us less disappointed; We might as well be less satisfied, because it can make us more awake.
7. There is a dilemma in the world, and it is more difficult to find people in heaven; There are two sufferings in the world, and Coptis chinensis is more bitter and poorer; There are two dangers in the world, and the rivers and lakes are even more dangerous; There are still two thins in the world, spring ice is thinner and human feelings are thinner. Therefore, we should shape the value that we will never be replaced and used.
8. There are always many regrets in life. Everything in the world is not perfect, there is no need to regret for the regrets in life. Always keep a quiet soul, a calm pace, a belief in life, a passion for pursuit, a hope for tomorrow and a regret for life.
9, to deal with selfish people, not hate her, not ignore her, but gradually away from her, from the bottom of my heart away from her, and then pretend to know nothing. If she goes to find someone else, then you will find that many people are far away from her.
10. There are many detours, paths, dangerous roads and dark roads in the journey of life. Only those who are determined and never stop can hope to reach the distant place of victory. Without a clear head, no matter how fast you are, you will make mistakes; Without careful steps, no matter how smooth the road is, it will fall. To leave a footprint of life, one step at a time; If you want to take fewer detours in life, you must think twice before you leap.
1 1. The essence of patience is that if you want to make money cheaply, you can make it. If you want to be shameless, you can be shameless and you can be casual. I will give you whatever I can; I can't give it. You have to invite someone else. As for whether others give it or not, that's your business.
12. In life, we always have too much dissatisfaction and too much luxury. We blindly take everything we want from life and want to have more. We are always worried about this and that, always fidgeting. This is often the case. The more we have, the more we worry about losing, and the more we worry about losing, the easier it is to lose.
13, position can increase people's power, but it can't increase authority; Position can increase people's strength, but it can't increase people's ability; Lot can increase people's money, but it can't increase quality; Position can satisfy the desire for fame, and money can satisfy the desire for material things, but it cannot realize personal value and the meaning of life.
14, a girl with a good family will have a gorgeous golden brick road paved by her parents; A good-looking girl will have a boyfriend and husband who will be diligent after the saddle; A lucky girl will get the help of a noble person and rise to the top. Unfortunately. I can't seem to be among them, but I am lucky to know that "the mountain that relies on the mountain will fall and everyone will run." Although I am ordinary, I don't want to be attached. I firmly believe that it is the greatest luck to make yourself strong.
15, the most difficult lock to open in the world is the heart lock, the most difficult door to open is the heart door, the most difficult lamp to open is the heart lamp, and the most difficult way to go is the heart. If you don't open your heart to this wonderful world, you won't come in. In life, we should thank two kinds of people, one is the one who opens our hearts, and the other is the one who accompanies us through the mental journey.
16, people should be able to afford it. It is survival to take up, and life to put down; What you can afford is ability, but what you can put down is wisdom. Some people can't afford it, and it doesn't matter if they can't put it down; Some people can afford it, but they can't let it go. If you can't afford it, you will be mediocre; If you can't let it go, you will be exhausted. There are many things in life that need to be put down. Only by letting go of those unnecessary burdens can we move forward smartly.
17, there will be countless regrets in life, which is also a charm of life. The perfect life may be the most boring life!
18. Although there will be no people who will be successful and happy all their lives, keeping a generous heart and accepting good advice can at least increase our happiness and reduce our pain. Similarly, there will be no people who have suffered failures all their lives. They can be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and scrimp on food and clothing, which will certainly enlarge their pain and reduce their happiness.
19, some people say that life is like a bitter gourd. Even if it is soaked in water, fed in the temple and put in the mouth, the bitterness remains undiminished, which is the essence of life's bitterness; Some people say that life is like a glass of boiled water, honey is sweet and salt is salty. In fact, the bitterness and joy of life come from one's own heart. The heart is bitter, and life is like an endless sea of suffering; The heart is sweet, and life is full of beautiful scenery.
20. There will never be anyone you can't live without. Just because you can't live without now doesn't mean you can't live without forever. There is nothing you can't give up. If you don't give up, you may give up first.
2 1, a person studying in a different place should learn to communicate with parents and listen to their elders. Learn to be patient There is nothing you can't stand. No matter how outrageous others' mistakes are, there is no need to punish yourself with others' mistakes.
22. In this world, no one can really feel the pain of another person. You were shot in the heart, and you were in pain. This is just your own business. Others may sympathize and lament, but you never know where your wound is festering.
23. Take a step, no matter how long the road is; Stagnation, no matter how short the road, is difficult to reach. Travel is not only about speed, but also about sustainability; Progress lies not only in speed, but also in whether we can keep the right direction.
24. Enjoying success is the weakness and evil root of human nature. Many people are complacent, get carried away, their advantages disappear and eventually fail, instead of pursuing victory with good external conditions.
25. If it's really not you at the end. After so many ups and downs, we have to part in the end. If the story is over, there are others around us. If memories, promises and determination to fall in love become insignificant in the face of reality. No matter what happens in the future, no matter how it ends. Now I still want persistent love. We wait for our last, last, last together.
26, a person will cry because of pain; The reason why a person hurts is because he cares; A person cares because he has feelings; A person has feelings just because you are a person! So you feel, care, hurt and cry, which shows that you are a complete person. When you are sad, forgive yourself. You're just one person. There is no need to see yourself as so indestructible.
27. I feel that it's really a day when I'm tired sitting in a chair every night. The most important thing in life is not hard work, but direction. The pressure is not that someone works harder than you, but that someone works harder than you several times. Even if you can't see the future, even if you can't see the hope, you still believe that you can't be wrong, the person you choose can't be wrong, and the life you choose can't be wrong. What woke me up the next day was not an alarm clock, but actually a dream.
28. To be a happy woman, you must be happy, but you must also create happiness if you are unhappy. Smiling may not make the world bloom, but it can relax your tight chest. Laugh when you are happy, so that everyone will be infected, cry when you are sad, be beautiful, talk, and then everything will be zero. Smile at your humble heart, draw comfort and strength, trust, feel refreshed, and then you can dance.
29. The beauty of life has nothing to do with material things or fame and fortune. All people love life, life is a poem, life is a song, life is an endless book, life is a cup of tea and life is a landscape. Learn to appreciate every scenery in life, whether it is rainy or sunny.
30. I left my job, but I was able to complete the long-awaited trip; Broke up, but the whole person is full of vitality. Failure in the eyes of others can be your own success. Anyway, there are many forms of success: cooking noodles, fighting and playing football are all successes. We don't have to say that there is no difference between success and failure in life because we hate the public's definition of success or failure. We can set standards for success or failure for ourselves.
3 1, facing, is not necessarily the most sad. Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy. It may not last long to get it. Lose, not necessarily no longer have. Don't love wrongly because of loneliness, and don't be lonely all your life because of wrong love.
32. There will never be anyone you can't live without. Just because you can't live without now doesn't mean you can't live without forever. There is nothing you can't give up. If you don't give up, you may be given up first.
33. You can not be noble, but you can't be shameless; You may not be great, but you can't be mean; You may not be smart, but don't be confused; You may not be knowledgeable, but you must not be ignorant; You can not make friends, but you can't be lonely; You can be pessimistic, but not world-weary; You can be generous, but you can't hurt others; You can not pursue it, but you can't be jealous; You can not make progress, but you can't go backwards.
34. Every love will move from passion to dullness. At first, the electric shock-like excitement and infatuation gradually became gentle and calm, less impulsive, and began to perceive people's shortcomings in their hearts, and they would be agitated because they lost their freshness. In fact, love is only the person who stays around after the prosperity is gone. Just, who would you like to see that long water flow with?
35. Exercise makes people full of energy, music makes people full of romance and happiness, and thinking makes people full of wisdom and rationality. Without exercise, life is equal to lethargy; Without thinking, life is equal to blind obedience; Without restraint, life is equal to destruction; Without happiness, life is equal to solidification.
36. It doesn't matter how long two people are together. What matters is whether you stay in this person's heart or not. Some people will stay in their hearts for life even if they are together for one day; Some people have never spent a day in their hearts even if they have been together for a lifetime.
Only we know how much we love each other, and we can't show off. If love is just a form, we will invisibly ignore its texture. Love is silent when you love deeply, and silent when you love deeply. Because of love, we are not afraid of the long life and the dark night after sunset. It's hard to last, and it's hard to persist. But with the support and understanding of mutual concern, everything will be solved.
38. Some people are very strong and like to enlighten and laugh in front of people who cry; And omnipotent, always helping others solve problems easily; For the ideal, no matter how hard and tired you are, you are willing. But in the face of their own trauma, they will only hide in the corner and watch the wound grow bigger and bigger; Only in the face of the people I trust most will I abandon my helmet and armor and shed tears in grievance. After crying, I smiled and dried my tears and said, it doesn't matter, I can do it well.
39. Kindness is the return of the soul to nature. This is a sincere conversion to human nature. Even if it's just a sincere greeting, even if it's just a sympathetic look, it will make us get a long-term touch and warm stay in the ever-changing life. The spread of evil and numbness will inevitably break through the moral embankment. Hurt others and drown yourself.
40. Finding your own fault is diagnosis, finding something for yourself is tempering, analyzing yourself as a confidant, and laughing at yourself is encouragement! Life is a song: love is light music, work is symphony, struggle is rock music, entertainment is pop music, friends are pop music, and career is March. "Since God has given talents, let them be employed!" There is no rest in life; Stride forward, "everyone knows a gentleman"!
4 1. For those who like to oppose you, you should first objectively reflect on yourself, correct yourself and eliminate your own reasons. Secondly, look at how naive she is, which makes her unhappy.
42. In love, there is always a protagonist and a supporting role. Tired will always be the protagonist, injured will always be the supporting role; Sometimes, love is also a kind of injury: cruel people choose to hurt others, and kind people choose to hurt themselves; Life is a load, and we need to learn to support it. Support the cause, support the family and even support the whole society. If you have support, you will definitely bear it. How much weight you support, how much pressure you bear.
43. The winner said: Although it is difficult, it is possible; The loser said, it is possible, but it is too difficult. What kind of mood, what kind of pattern, what kind of thinking, what kind of living method, what kind of action. Although this is only a small difference, it is doomed to a different result.
44. The true meaning of life lies in innovation, the ideal of life lies in sublimity, the art of life lies in choice, the pace of life lies in sureness, the happiness of life lies in pursuit, and the happiness of life lies in dullness. If you admire yourself too much, you will not find the advantages of others; If you worship the merits of others too much, you will not see your own merits.
45. Life is a process of exchange. Youth is lost, wisdom is gained. Lost time and gained knowledge; Passion disappeared, in exchange for reason; The speed has disappeared, and it is profound. This is the trajectory of life.
46. Some things are clearly known to have passed, but they still stubbornly recall and miss; Some people know that they have gone far, but they are still stubborn and unwilling to invest; Sometimes I know I am very tired, but I still have to support and fight tenaciously. Let go of those meaningless people and things. Who else can you stubbornly show it to? A person's stubbornness, seemingly unbreakable armor, actually hurts his own heart.
47. Life can't bear too much affectation, nor can it sigh too much sadness and regret. Even with what kind of grievances and helplessness, it is just an ornament of life, brilliant and beautiful. All this is just many touching episodes in the course of life! In fact, there are too many surprises and discoveries in the world, and even if they pass away quietly one day, they will not feel sorry. After all, there are countless hopes and beauties in the journey of life.
48. The key to life is thought, spirit and mood. Let your thoughts Ming Che, enrich and support your spirit, and have an open-minded, peaceful and cheerful mood every day. This is the most important thing in life.
49. Life is limited by time, but when you constantly explore yourself, improve yourself in your efforts, and constantly adjust yourself when you get along with others, you will find that life is endless, and it can be endless, and it is also getting better. It's good to be yourself, but why not be a better one? That's not giving up your personality, but letting yourself enjoy life and being yourself better.
50. Don't wait for a smile to show your charity; Don't wait to be loved to love; Don't wait to be lonely to understand the value of friends; Don't wait for the best job to start; Don't wait to have a lot to share with others; Don't wait for others to get hurt before begging for forgiveness; Don't wait to be apart before you think about saving it. Don't wait, because you don't know how long it will take.
5 1, in fact, love is ordinary, that is, men and women understand each other, respect each other, help each other, care about each other, learn from each other's strong points and comfort each other. The scene of the story is always family and society; The plot of the story never exceeds that men fall in love with women or women fall in love with men; The ending of the story is either tragedy or comedy, and there is never a middle way.
52. Except for parents, no one does not ask for something in return. Lovers are good to you on the premise of love harmony, while friends are good to you on the premise of common interest and eliminating loneliness. Not to mention others.
53. Maybe some people are hateful and some people are despicable. And if we put ourselves in his shoes, we can know that he is more pitiful than us. So please forgive and tolerate all the people you meet, good or bad.
54. There are many states and time and space in the world that cannot be surpassed and changed, but in a dangerous environment, life itself has many essences. People should learn to find these precious things from them. When people are alive, they should understand the true meaning of life from pain, gain survival experience from difficulties, be good at transcending suffering and realize self-satisfaction. Only in this way can they appreciate the beauty of the melody of life.
55. If one day, you have an argument with the person you love, and you let him or her win, what will he or she win at this time? Understand what? The so-called loss, what did you lose? Lose what? In fact, many times, the dispute did not leave any winners or losers, but lost a lot of feelings that should have been cherished.
56. A quiet life is like a glass of boiled water. It tastes tasteless, but we don't know that it is its purity that makes our life happy. We should face the troubles of life with the simplicity of a glass of water.
57, life must remember two facts: first, compared with eternity, life is extremely short; Second, the world is only your temporary residence. You won't stay here long. Make good use of your life. .
58. There are always some roads in life, and you need to go by yourself. There are always some things you need to do by yourself. Whether it is bumpy or flat, whether it is smooth or difficult, some roads and things have to be faced by themselves. No one, regardless of personal relationship, can replace it; Difficult, you bear it yourself, rejoice and feel it yourself. The ups and downs of life, ups and downs, everything in life, mainly depends on yourself, and life is like this.
A mature person should be less indignant, less abusive and more tolerant and understanding. What you didn't understand in the past will be understood later, what you didn't understand when you were a child will be understood when you grow up, and what you don't understand when you grow up will be understood when you get old. Understanding others is actually understanding yourself.