With language, we can understand each other's ideas and cooperate in groups.
It can be said that the endless progress of human society plays a great role in the production of language.
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A person's language expression can show a person's accomplishment.
A man of noble character must be polite when he speaks, and he will never say crazy words or dirty words.
A little. Don't speak too loudly. Calm and reasonable are more acceptable.
People who can talk can always be clear and coherent, and people can always know what it means when they hear it, while some people can't grasp the main points and say a lot, and the result is nonsense.
A person's cultural accomplishment is closely related to a person's expressive ability.
Reading more and studying more have a lot to do with improving people's literacy. So it is very important for us to study and read more books at ordinary times.
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Don't say what you can.
Some people boast that they are outspoken and dare to tell the truth. In fact, in life, many things can't be said directly.
People only say three points, leaving seven points to conquer the world. This is the wise saying that our ancestors warned us.
The more you say, the better. You are eloquent. It's not that you can say a lot, but that you should say it properly, so that people can understand it and understand it.
And there are some things to say, and some things are better left unsaid.
A wise saying warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June.
The speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention. Sometimes, a casual sentence hurts others unconsciously. This is actually very sad.
Xu You in Romance of the Three Kingdoms saw through Cao Cao's intention and changed his password to "chicken ribs" and made it public. As a result, Cao Cao accused him of bewitching the army and killing him.
It can be seen that if you use the language well, you can keep your word, which will make the country and the people safe, but if you don't speak it well, it will lead to death.
Some words should be said to the mouth and leave three points. Only in this way can you ensure the safety of your life.
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Some buzzwords are best given up.
Some people always speak with colloquial words, such as "frankly", "honestly", "this", "that" and "ah", which makes people feel uncomfortable. These colloquial words must be eliminated when you speak.
Always taking these words as a test is also a manifestation of a person's language barrier.
Speak flexibly, don't always look the same.
We have a wedding host here. His lines are always the same, and he is tired of listening to them. What? "In my contact with the bride and groom, I found that they always have a silent tacit understanding." What do you mean, "I hope you live forever." Anyway, it's a cliche, nothing new.
Language is profound and changeable. Some people talk while listening, and some people talk the same way, which has a lot to do with one's cultivation.
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Being good at listening is the most basic quality of mature people.
Being good at listening to others' words and understanding others' viewpoints is also a good way of expression.
Some people always ignore it, get it off their chest and don't listen to what others are saying at all. This is also a sign of low emotional intelligence.
People should be patient, listen to others and don't always interrupt them. This is a courtesy and a necessary basic quality.
From a person's language expression, we can see a person's quality and accomplishment. We should constantly study and improve our ability in peacetime, so that we can get along well in society. Say good words, and your life will be much more colorful.