I have seen such a story: The Japanese kabuki master Kanmi played a common people hiking in ancient times. In order to strive for the authenticity of the performance, he deliberately loosened his shoelaces. When he was about to go on the court, someone reminded him: "Your shoelaces are loose." He smiled back: "Thank you!" Then he squatted down and tightened his shoelaces. Approaching the entrance to the stage, he squatted down again and loosened the shoelaces he had just tied. It turns out that he wanted to express the bumpiness and fatigue of the traveler's journey through the loose and unruly shoelaces. A reporter happened to capture this scene and asked puzzledly: "Why do you need to do so much? Why don't you just tell others that this is necessary for acting?" The master of Kanmi smiled and said: "Accept the kindness of others with a grateful heart. It’s a happy thing to be reminded.”
Master Kanmi used his actual actions to explain the true meaning of kindness to people and convey his wholehearted conduct of kindness. In life, when others express kindness, we must give them a chance, accept it readily, and express our gratitude. This not only fulfills the sincerity of others' kindness, but also reaps the joy of receiving kindness. If you refuse simply and rudely, or pour cold water on it, the misunderstood kindness will be unable to heal the wound, and you may even cut off your kind thoughts and close the door to doing good. This is a terrible thing.
From this, I thought of the newspaper delivery boy. She took over my family's newspaper delivery job for two years. She put the newspaper into the box on time every day, rain or shine. If it is a weekend and it rains, our whole family is still immersed in sleep, and the doorbell rings. Wearing a raincoat, she stood in the middle of the yard. When the door opened, she hurriedly took out the day's newspaper from her arms, wrapped it tightly in a red plastic bag, and explained with a silly smile on her face: "I'm afraid the rain will get the newspaper wet. You look like It’s not convenient.” Her words moved me and I fell into deep thought.
Being happy to accept other people’s kindness is actually a virtue and a virtue that fulfills kindness. In a materialistic society, people are impetuous and the pursuit of self-enjoyment is common. Few people stop, bend down, and offer even small acts of kindness to people who are familiar or unfamiliar around them. In fact, we don’t have to have material wealth, but as long as we have a heart of kindness, as long as we have a good desire to do good, as long as everyone releases a little bit of the good thoughts in their hearts, the little will add up, and let the flowers of kindness bloom in everyone. In your heart, then, when you fragrance others, you will also be fragranced like spring by others