Seek the source of a classic saying, "We will fall in love with many people all our lives. When we get real happiness, you will find that all the pain is a sum. "
Love a person for life? Then your life is definitely a tragedy. Only when you have loved will you know what love is, from ignorance to understanding, from regret to cherish, and from feeling true love. This is a process, not the result of adaptation. Modern people will enjoy life, and yours is really the style of our previous generation.