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Today, I saw a beautiful sentence on the Internet: "The most beautiful affair in the world is to meet another self." After searching, I learned that it came from the short story "July and An Sheng" by the female writer Qingshan. I haven't read this novel carefully, but it doesn't affect my imagination of this sentence at all.
An affair is when men and women meet and become friends. It seems inappropriate to use it here, but it may be more appropriate to change it to "encounter". What does "meet another self" mean? Have you really met someone exactly like you? That should be unrealistic. You can even call it a surprise. How can it be related to "beauty"? But when you think about it, it's really possible.
We often feel confident and think we know ourselves well, but this is not the case. I once read a report that a father took his son for an outing by car. Unfortunately, there was a car accident. The car overturned and the child was pinned under it. The father who climbed out of the car was in a hurry and lifted a one-ton car with his bare hands. His son was finally saved. We sometimes have this experience, we feel very strong inside, but in the face of friends' misunderstanding, we will almost collapse instantly and cry into a baby.
Unexpectedly strong and unexpectedly fragile, as if hidden in a secret part of the body, there is no trace at ordinary times, and the key moment is exposed. The reason is that we usually only scan our regular signs, without seriously examining our true selves. Love for children has penetrated into the spinal cord, so "nuclear power" can break out in a crisis. For praise and criticism, we can be calm in most cases, but we can't resist grievances. This is the weakness of the pain point.
Having a comprehensive understanding of yourself and seeing your length from different levels is like meeting another self, so as to better understand the deep and helpless sadness of love. It can be said that the most beautiful encounter is to meet a different self. I don't mean to tamper with the famous saying "Castle Peak", but I just want it to be closer to my feelings. Perhaps this process of reflection is just gazing at yourself calmly, and it should be regarded as a beautiful encounter.
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