During the summer vacation, visiting relatives and friends is a traditional and meaningful activity, which can strengthen the bond of family and friendship and let us learn how to communicate with others. In the process of visiting relatives and friends, it is very important to use civilized language. It can not only show our self-cultivation and courtesy, but also enhance our feelings and leave good memories. The following are some suggestions on the civilized language of visiting relatives and friends.

First of all, we should use respectful and humble language to our elders. When addressing elders, it is best to use formal addresses, such as "grandpa", "grandma", "uncle" and "aunt". We should sincerely express our gratitude and respect for their suggestions and concerns. In communication, we should keep a modest and sincere attitude, and don't exaggerate our abilities and achievements to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding.

For colleagues, we should use friendly and cordial language. In communication, we should express our thoughts and feelings in a friendly way and language. When others have advantages or good performance, we should sincerely praise them, and don't be stingy with our own praise. At the same time, we should respect other people's opinions and decisions, and don't try to force others to accept their own views.

For children, we should use caring and encouraging language. When treating children, we should communicate with them in a caring and patient language, ask them about their study and life, and encourage them to express their thoughts and feelings. At the same time, we should also give appropriate praise and encouragement to enhance their self-confidence and enthusiasm.

In addition, no matter who you communicate with, you should pay attention to using polite address and wording and avoid using vulgar or offensive words. In communication, we should maintain an appropriate speed and volume, not too impatient and not too noisy. At the same time, we should also respect the privacy and personal space of others, and don't disturb or interfere at will.

In short, in the process of visiting relatives and friends, using civilized language can show our self-cultivation and courtesy, and strengthen the ties of family and friendship. We should communicate with people with a modest and friendly attitude, caring and encouraging words, and make this summer vacation more beautiful and unforgettable.