What is civilized etiquette? Simply put, it is a code of conduct of self-discipline and respect for others. It is a process and means of showing respect and understanding for others. It is civilized etiquette to give up your seat when riding in a car, it is civilized etiquette to abide by the queue order, and it is civilized etiquette to protect public property. Civilized etiquette is not only a reflection of personal quality and upbringing, but also a reflection of personal morality and social morality. It is the face of the city and the country. As a "land of etiquette" with a history of 5,000 years of civilization, being civilized and using etiquette is also an important way for our country to carry forward national culture and display national spirit. But have we really achieved this? The impolite and uncivilized phenomena we have seen inside and outside the campus: spitting, spitting gum, trampling on the lawn, scribbling on cultural relics; crossing the road without looking at the red light and not using the sidewalk; taking the bus Fighting for seats, not bothering to say sorry when I squeeze or step on others; there is always a state of disorder in the canteen and boiling water room; bicycles dumped in the parking lot, seat-occupying textbooks everywhere in the self-study classroom, and sudden arrivals cell phone ringtones, etc. Many uncivilized phenomena occur around us. Faced with this fact, the team members all fell into deep thought. China is a country with ancient civilization and a land of etiquette. Civilization and etiquette are our fine traditions; if we want to become qualified Students must have the minimum civilized etiquette. The bad habits we engage in are for the sake of instant pleasure, but we lose our own personality and dignity. We have heard or seen many good examples of civilized etiquette from abroad. In comparison, everyone can see the quality gap between our country and Western developed countries. I feel very uncomfortable.

How to implement civilized etiquette? Civilized etiquette should start from small things, and civilization can be seen in the details. Each of us should start from small things and start from the things around us. As the saying goes, "Don't do good deeds because they are small, and don't do evil because they are small!" Throughout the ages, we can see that a successful great man must have his orderly code of conduct. Similarly, if we want to become a qualified student , we must standardize our words and deeds and lay a good foundation for entering society in the future. Some students mentioned that respecting others is also a kind of civilized etiquette. For example, learning to give full respect to others when they speak and listen to others reflects high civilized qualities. Civilized etiquette is not only on a moral level, but also a kind of knowledge and culture. In Beijing Language Institute, a small United Nations with people from 170 countries, what we show to foreign friends is China and Chinese culture. What foreigners see about the quality of Chinese people is what they see from us. Of course we must care about our words and deeds and show them civilized culture instead of letting them see the despicable side of the quality of our people. As Chinese students of Beijing Language and Culture University, we also play a role as teachers for foreign students. The result of our frenzied squeezing of elevators every morning is that foreign students have also learned to squeeze into elevators in order to adapt to the environment. There are too many such examples. At the same time, we need to understand the civilized etiquette of other countries, respect them, and learn them, so as not to make intellectual jokes in international social situations and make foreigners think that we Chinese are lacking in courtesy. Civilized etiquette requires us to quietly change the unsatisfactory status quo around us. And it is important not only for us to set an example, but also for the general public to receive education and establish awareness of civilized etiquette.

In general, everyone learned and gained a lot from the discussion about civilized etiquette starting from me. We all agree that through this group school activity, we have not only rediscovered the consciousness of the group members, clarified the goals of the group members, but also more clearly understood the existing problems of civilized etiquette and the tasks we shoulder. 2008 is getting closer and closer. How to make the Beijing Olympic Games reflect the politeness and restraint of the Chinese people and the civilization and friendship of the country of etiquette is undoubtedly an important spiritual civilization construction task. As members of the league, we have the responsibility and obligation to start with ourselves and lead a large number of people to work hard for this cause.