Famous sayings left by our ancestors
First, if you are poor, you will not leave your relatives, and if you are rich, you will not return to your hometown.
it's the backbone of a man not to visit relatives everywhere when he is poor. When you are frustrated, there are many people who fall when they are down. If you ask them for help, it will only make them laugh. Instead of condescending to others, it is better to be yourself and impress them.
When you return to your hometown when you are rich, there will be an endless stream of people who come to cling to and curry favor with you. Most of these people are snobs who follow the trend. At this time, helping is not, and not helping is not, which makes you in a dilemma. Therefore, if you are rich and don't return home, it is more of a helplessness.
the poor are not asked in the downtown area, while the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. The reality of human nature is often chilling.
second, you are neither deaf nor blind, and you are not worthy to be the master.
as the ancients said, it's hard to be confused. If everything is too smart, it may not be a good thing for others. Everyone has a small abacus in his heart. As long as it has nothing to do with principles, turning a blind eye is a good thing for others and themselves. It is difficult for anyone to get along with each other for a long time.
when the water is clear, there will be no fish, and when people look at it, there will be no disciples. In this world, it is the great wisdom to learn to tolerate others and see through it.
third, the sky is not arrogant, and the earth is not arrogant.
Heaven and earth never talk, but they are inscrutable and daunting. And some people talk big and show off their cleverness all day long, but they don't know that it is a joke in the eyes of others. The more a person shows off, the more he lacks. Showing off his knowledge all day just shows that he doesn't have much ink in his stomach.
truly wise people always cherish words like gold, but what they say is hit the floor. But gold always shines, so there is no need to show yourself in a hurry. It is more convincing to talk less and do more, and prove your strength with practical actions.
four, people can't be all, melons can't be round.
There is a black spot on a piece of white paper. Everyone sees the black spot, but few people see the rest of the white part. Why does everyone only see black spots when white occupies most of it? The answer is that we always care too much about shortcomings.
Life is the same. No one's life is perfect. If you always stare at your own shortcomings, you will never be happy. When you are alive, learn to tolerate yourself and reconcile with your past self, so that regrets can be relieved.