We believe:

Self-discipline is more important than other-discipline.

First:

Self-discipline is to control words and deeds within the limits allowed by systems, regulations, and morality through self-restraint and self-adjustment.

In the process of developing civilized habits, although heteronomy plays a supporting role as an external factor, self-discipline as an internal factor and constant self-restraint is more important.

External factors work through internal factors. Internal factors are the root of the development and change of things, so the status of self-discipline is understandable.

It is difficult to imagine how a person who does not know self-discipline and relies on heteronomy will enter society. You must know that no one will become a general because of heteronomy, but you must definitely believe that the best general is the best. The most self-conscious person.

Don’t regard His Law as an almighty God. There is no savior in the world. The key to developing civilized habits in middle school is self-discipline.

Second:

Civilized behavior does not mean civilized habits.

Heteronomy can promote the occurrence of civilized behavior, but in the process of transforming civilized behavior into civilized habits, self-discipline comes first.

As we all know, habits can be called behaviors, but behaviors can never be equated with habits.

You can’t say that civilized behavior once or twice is a civilized habit, right? ! It's obviously illogical.

Since it is a civilized custom, he is the rightful room, and whether there is heteronomy or not is secondary.

Third:

Heteronomy must be internalized into self-discipline before civilized behavior can become civilized habits.

Heteronomy may lead to civilized behavior, but if we do not accept this norm ourselves, it is impossible to form a habit, thinking that we will find ways to escape the restrictions of this norm.

Only when we accept heteronomy ourselves and internalize heteronomy into self-discipline can we truly play a role. Otherwise, those laws and norms will be nothing more than a piece of paper! Therefore, only by fully mobilizing our subjective initiative and relying on self-discipline can we develop a civilized habit more smoothly.

Comrade *** said that you should strictly restrain yourself in your thoughts, words and deeds, and it is best to pay attention to even the smallest details.

When we improve our moral cultivation and maintain self-discipline, we should also start from small things, start from scratch, not relax our thoughts on details, and do not let go of small things, so as to prevent the slightest mistakes.

Because experience in real life tells us that apples start to fester from small black spots like real holes; iron pots start to have holes from a patch of rust; a person's mistake often begins with " "Little evil" is caused by carelessness.

Therefore, we need to remember the famous saying "Don't do evil because it's small, don't do good because it's small".

Don’t wait until you have developed a lot before asking others to adopt heteronomy.

Self-discipline is a kind of self-restraint that continuously improves one's own quality.

In many cases, heteronomy cannot restrain human behavior everywhere.

And we need more self-discipline.

If you find a wallet on the street, should you put it in your pocket or hand it to the police? If you are given extra change in a store, should you pretend you don't know or give it back? These phenomena reflect: Which is more important, heterodiscipline or self-discipline?

Just imagine, the law stipulates the limits of people's behavior.

He restricts you and supervises you so that you do not commit criminal acts.

But if people lack the ability to self-discipline, heteronomy can only be a piece of paper.

Measuring a person’s quality is what choice he will make when no one knows. This is a sign of self-discipline, which is more effective than others’ evaluation of us.

Fourth:

No matter where you plant a bad seed or how you fertilize it, it will never grow.

Fifth:

Self-discipline is the internal cause and heteronomy is the external cause. The two complement each other, and self-discipline is the root and heteronomy is the supplement.

Sixth:

After all, the essence of everything is always more important. External factors will affect the essential change, but the essence will not change without external interference.

Seventh;

If you don’t work hard subjectively, everything will be in vain objectively.

Eighth:

Habits are developed by individuals. Your own psychological age growth determines what kind of good study habits you have. Only those who know their own self-discipline can defeat themselves (example: Allusions about the firefly sealing the snow; allusions about the bone-piercing hanging beam; Chairman Mao reading on the streets of Changsha, the King of Yue lying on the firewood and tasting his gallbladder, etc.)

Therefore, the most important thing is to work hard yourself, and help from others may not always be effective.

We must adhere to self-discipline to continuously improve our own quality.