Most people want to pursue short-term freedom to cover up their pain. They drink alcohol or use substances to anesthetize themselves. They buy things they don't care about at all to make their lives more exciting ... they do these things to make themselves feel more free. But in the end, these things only brought them more pain.

If you don't know how to do something, you just need to find someone who can do it.

If you don't get into the water, you'll never learn to surf.

5. Good job, good spare time and good interpersonal relationship. But a voice in my heart told me that life should not be just "good".

6. Understanding the meaning of your life is a huge project, so start small, such as five things in this life. When you finish three of them, you can know yourself better. When you know yourself better, it will be easier to understand the meaning of your life.

7. Life is short. You can never sort out your life just by analyzing the suitability of others.

8. If you want to learn ballroom dancing, don't loiter on the baseball field. If you want to learn baseball, don't appear in the ballroom dancing classroom.

9. For the right person, being a parent means endless fun and great responsibility; For unsuitable people, it is endless pain and equally important responsibility.

10. Having children only means the integrity of "raising children", but it does not mean that other aspects of life are equally complete.

We don't want people to say that we are special. We want to be special.

12. Your life is not a mistake or an accident, nor a random coincidence. You have your purpose and meaning, otherwise you won't be born.

13. Every moment in your life is created by you and this navigation system: you show it the life you want, and general GPS creates corresponding opportunities for you.

14. Everything in the past is necessary. If there was no past, this moment would not have happened.

15. You don't have to like all your past and let it go. You just need to know that the role of the past is to bring you to the present.

16. The point is not to be ready to enjoy life at all times, but to really enjoy life.

17. Every expert knew nothing about what he was proficient in at first.

18. The root of all anger is fear.

19. If you really put too much time and energy into what you want to change, then change it.

20. Someone is acting in the world, and it may be you.

2 1. She is my child, and if necessary, I can give my life for her at once; But at the same time, I don't own her I can take care of her and wait for her, which is a precious gift in itself.

22. be an observer, not immersed in it, not a fan of the authorities.

23. Would I like to think for even a microsecond before opening my mouth? Especially when I am depressed or angry, am I willing to think more about the influence of one sentence? Because I am both an observer and an insider, can I immediately push the development trend of the performance and then adjust my role in it?

24. Don't take it out on the person who happened to be there, or the person you know who is weaker than you. Especially don't take it out on someone just because you know they will forgive you.

25. Sometimes you have to plan, organize, think and communicate with others ... Sometimes you need to jump into the abyss and find that it is not the abyss.

Since you were born on this planet, the whole universe system has been guiding you in a certain direction. You can always get its support, guidance and encouragement. This is a complicated and exquisite game with great aesthetic feeling. The purpose is to achieve us, not to lead us to failure.

27. You can't choose where to be born, but you can choose where to stay. You can't choose who you are, but you can choose who you associate with.

The real hard currency is not money, but time.

29. If something is meaningful, it is because you think it is meaningful, not because others tell you it is meaningful.

30. Nearly one fifth of the people in the world will not live to retirement age.