Mao Zedong once said: "If you have confidence in your life for 200 years, you will hit the water for three thousand miles."
Napoleon once said, "Soldiers who don't want to be generals are not good soldiers."
These famous sayings tell us that people should have faith and confidence. Faith is the beacon that leads us to success, and self-confidence is the driving force to reach the peak of life. A bright future comes from self-improvement, self-reliance and self-confidence. Don't stop until you reach your goal, don't relax. It is often not others who defeat you, but yourself. Don't treat a failure as the last judgment of life. Escape is cowardice, avoidance is negative, and retreat is even more incompetent. The road to success depends on your own efforts. People are confused and have difficulty in doing things. There is no plain sailing in the world, only unyielding confidence and perseverance. Men make their own decisions, are not afraid of failure and never give up.
Don't get drunk when you succeed. When you fail, don't lose heart and don't worry about others. In the face of "the mountains are heavy and the waters are heavy", you can only go forward bravely, persevere and overcome all difficulties with confidence. If you want to achieve something, you must be willing to do great things, undertake difficult things, set an ambition and set a goal, and then you can have a direction in life. Where the heart is, the road is there. With ambition, you will have the ability, courage and courage to be a man. Therefore, being a man needs to ask yourself where your ambition is and whether you are confident.
Second, be a kind person.
At the beginning of life, human nature is good. Kindness is the warmest, most beautiful and most touching ray in the brilliance of human nature. Not everyone's life is successful, not everyone can be a hero, but they must be kind and kind. Kindness is the road to harmony and beauty. Only when you are full of sympathy and kindness can you touch and warm the world. Without kindness, there can be no inner peace, and there can be no peace and beauty in the world. Love is a basic kind emotion. When we meet a beggar, we will give him some money. In case of old, weak, sick and pregnant, we will take the initiative to give up our seats. When we meet a lost child, we will send him home and show him the way. A smile, a simple action and a heartfelt greeting are not difficult for us to do, but they may help others out of trouble. All people and things are connected. When you give to others, you really benefit from yourself. When you hurt another life, you are actually hurting yourself. The so-called kindness is nothing more than having a heart of great love and compassion, not hurting people, not saying anything, and not deceiving people. With kindness, there is the basis and possibility of loving parents, others and nature. A kind person, like a bright lamp, not only illuminates the people around him, but also warms himself. Kindness does not need indoctrination and coercion, but only mutual infection and spread. Therefore, being a man does not have to be indomitable and vigorous, but must be kind and sincere. Therefore, being a man has to ask whether you want to be kind.
Third, be an educated person.
China is a nation that pays great attention to self-cultivation and morality. For five thousand years, no matter how things change, hard work, loyalty, humility and filial piety are eternal virtues, which many ancient sages regard as family heirlooms. The success of small business depends on opportunity, the success of Chinese business depends on ability, and the success of big business depends entirely on character and integrity. Most successful people are often people with noble virtues. The so-called education is to know the depth, respect, height, weight, discipline and morality. Educated people often substitute virtue for skill, Tao for seeking, and courtesy for power. Educated people are detached from nature when they are alone and will take care of their own hearts. When they get along with others, they will think of others, be kind to others, be indifferent and calm, and keep their mouths shut. Fiona Fang's life is witty, quiet and far-reaching, and self-reflection, then everything is comfortable and complete. So, to be a man, you have to ask yourself if you are educated.
Fourth, be an optimistic person.
People don't come into this world for the sake of distress, so they can't keep a straight face, be sad, sad, distressed and depressed all day. There is no fun in this life. There is no absolute happiness in the world, only a heart that refuses happiness. The world is like a mirror. If you smile at it, it will smile back at you. You cry to it, and it cries to you; If you are calm, it will give you peace; You are aggressive and give you a cold shoulder. Willing to listen to praise, don't like other people's criticism, want fame and fortune, don't want to lose. This mentality will only imprison yourself like a chain. Only by surpassing them can we experience freedom and happiness. If you have a happy heart, you will see a world worthy of happiness. Your heart is full of sadness, but you will only see a world full of sadness. Instead of worrying about what you won't get, be grateful for what you already have. Happiness is not sought outside the heart, but only in the heart. If you are satisfied with your inner happiness, you can feel at ease even in prison. Be kind, be a good person, be full of joy, be cheerful and optimistic, so that you can stand as a monument and walk out of a beautiful scenery. Life is short, so it is better to learn to be silent than to be nervous about everything. So, you have to ask yourself if you are optimistic.
Fifth, be a tolerant person.
All rivers run into the sea, relying on a tolerant heart. Don't be too narrow-minded when you do things. The ruler is short, the inch is long, the gold is not full of red, and no one is perfect. Appreciating the advantages of others and tolerating their shortcomings depends on loving others and being tolerant. Angry for the enemy can only set himself on fire. If you can't bear it, you will be angry, if you can't bear it, you will complain, if you can't bear it, you will complain. Such a life can only be bleak, and the road will get narrower and narrower. The world's right and wrong, good and evil, the world's joy, the world's good and bad, hot and cold, honor and love, we must relax our bellies and accept them frankly, and the road will get wider and wider. Tolerance is not the oppression of cowardice and retreat, but a great wisdom and courage to bear the burden of humiliation. It is the ability to know the truth, dare to take responsibility, and know how to resolve and accommodate. Think of others and pave the way for yourself. Tolerance is not connivance. We should be rational, emotional, and consider the self-esteem and tolerance of others. Being kind to others is being kind to yourself. No matter how your life is hurt, you don't have to be angry, bitter or bitter. Learn to forget. Forgetting is the best protection for yourself. Learn to be grateful. Thank life for giving you the opportunity to hone yourself. Your heart is full of sunshine, and life is naturally full of brilliance. Therefore, being a man should ask yourself whether you are tolerant or not.
Sixth, be a real person.
People who do things in a down-to-earth manner and put their hands in their pockets will never climb the ladder of success. If you work harder, you will have more chances to succeed. You should reward hard work, don't just pay lip service, don't be lazy, be diligent, do your best and do your duty, you can achieve great things. Those who never win seldom fail, and those who never climb seldom fall. If you want to know the taste of success, you have to dare to do it, talk less and do more, make a decision and stick to it. If you can't do it, it will inevitably delay the opportunity. If you don't want to do small things, you can't do big things. You are too light and afraid of heavy, and it is difficult to achieve a career. Sweep a house to sweep the world. We should start from ourselves, from now on, from small things, from small details. Honesty, telling the truth and doing honest things are long-term and fundamental. Therefore, to be a man, we must ask ourselves if it is true.
Seven, be a wise man.
Knowledge does not mean wisdom. No matter how much knowledge is accumulated, knowledge will lose its value if it is not applied. Knowledge is static. With knowledge, people should also know how to apply what they have learned correctly in practice. Without wisdom, it is at best a book that records knowledge. Wisdom is the intelligence of the mind, a kind of insight and judgment. Have the courage to change what can be changed, and have the mind to accept what cannot be changed, but have the wisdom to distinguish when it can be changed and when it cannot be changed, and know when to "act" and when not to act. Knowing what you are doing, knowing what you love to do and knowing what you can do is wisdom. Only direction, without wisdom, direction itself is meaningless. Wisdom is sometimes a kind of balance and compromise. Rejecting extremes with moderation, analyzing the situation rationally, exerting influence with pragmatism, calmly controlling choices, consciously correcting attitudes, accumulating experience through learning, and giving up burdens with courage are all wisdom. We don't care enough about the weak, we need help; It is not enough to be fair to subordinates, but to be kind; It is not enough to forgive others' mistakes, forget them; It is not enough to dream about the future, but also to put it into action. Wisdom can only be born from nothing, from learning to wisdom, from heart to wisdom, from things to wisdom. Everyone has something to respect and learn. Compassionate people teach compassion, while savage people teach humiliation. If a person lacks wisdom and is unwilling to sweat, then there is no success. Therefore, being a man depends on whether you have wisdom.
Eight, be an upright person.
Be upright, do things honestly, be upright and be honest with your father-in-law. This is the foundation of your life, and it is also the foundation of your life. People are not afraid of oblique shadows, feet are not afraid of oblique shoes, their bodies are stable and their dreams are stable. If you have good conduct, you will have the confidence to be a man and the car-scrapping to do things. Your heart is selfless and broad-minded. If you are open-minded and aboveboard, you will win the trust and respect of others. If you are not upright, how can you be upright? Honest people are not selfish, greedy, whitewash, cheat, flatter, duplicity, equality and justice. What you said is well founded. You say one thing, you say two things, you say what you should say, you do what you should do, you tell the truth, and you are in business. Ulterior motives, mystifying, duplicity, calculating people, playing tricks, one to face, one behind, talking about gentlemen on the stage, playing tricks under the stage, talking about upholding justice and upholding justice. Therefore, to be a man, you should walk straight, do right, do right, and ask yourself whether you are upright and fair.
Nine, be a cautious person
Wisdom lies in governing the great, prudence lies in fearing the small, and one thoughtful action is better than a hundred hasty actions. The dike collapsed from the ant nest, which is subtle but careless. Etiquette is the first virtue, and prudence is the foundation. Caution is the basis of "not being confused" A prudent person must be clear-headed, and he must not be confused in front of big and big issues. In this world, there are words that bring disaster and acts that bring shame. If you want to make achievements, of course, you should be extra cautious. Be a low-key person, be open-minded, think carefully and act diligently. If you think ahead, you will be safe. It is difficult to be complacent in prosperity and complain when you are frustrated. "Always walk by the river, just don't wet your shoes" depends on your skill and concentration. When you bow your head, you should also learn to look up at the sky. Sit tight, sit tight. Modesty and prudence make things easy. Caution is still the best way to stay away from danger and ensure safety. Caution is more successful than recklessness. Only caution can be a shoo-in, so be sure to ask yourself if you are cautious.
The above nine items are not perfect. People are not saints and perfect, how can they be flawless, how can they have no regrets, think everything and do everything, which has never happened since ancient times. But there are only unexpected things in the world, and there is nothing impossible. Who am I? How should I behave? what can I do? How did I do? where am I going? In the boundless journey of life, we should always ask ourselves, encourage ourselves, light a heart lamp for ourselves, and sharpen ourselves in order to do well in people and things.