The biggest problem with people is that they are selfish and unwilling to suffer losses. They can't do anything well and are not liked by anyone. "Grandma doesn't love me and my uncle doesn't love me." You will see that selfish people never get up, so people can't be too selfish. If you don't care about other people's feelings, others will naturally not care about your feelings. This is fair.

If you have poor hands-on skills, are timid, cannot stand alone, are unwilling to try and suffer losses, and cannot accept grievances, you can only go home and raise them.

If you want to be the protagonist, you must have professional skills, be able to speak and write, and be able to take the lead. If you are willing to play a supporting role, you must be able to endure grievances and be willing to be inferior to others. If you want to change your role, you have to be willing to put in the effort, do a good job of being domineering, and be able to stand up to a queen on your own. Of course you can have the final say in this world. Shen and Xie around them are people who are willing to endure hardship and are domineering.

The key to becoming a protagonist: be attentive and willing to suffer losses.

The protagonist of the novel "Protagonist" recalled Qing'e. Because she was able to endure hardships and was willing to work hard, many veteran actors in the troupe took good care of her and "started a small business" in private, which gave her solid basic skills.

"Being dignified in front of others will inevitably suffer in the future."

Teacher Gou Cunzhong once said to Yi Qin'e: "Once the protagonist's saddle is placed on you, it means that you are being treated like a cow or a horse, not that you are here to enjoy life."

Everyone admires Yi Qin'e's radiance on the stage, but few care about what she paid for it.

The difference between the protagonist and the supporting role lies in who has suffered more.

Yi Qin'e is the one who has been suffering. In order to push her hamstrings apart, she must first face the wall, and then push her legs along the wall. She must persist for at least one hour every day until Tear the legs into a straight shape, especially the crotch. Only when the crotch can be pressed against the wall can the hamstrings be pushed aside.

Hold the big top, that is, stand upside down, tighten your buttocks, lift your waist, and stretch your legs and feet straight in. Hold it for half an hour.

To practice the unique skill of "blowing fire", you should hold the rosin bag in your mouth before blowing the fire, and blow the rosin bag with air to make the rosin powder fly to the torch, burn and burst into flames. Be careful, your eyebrows and hair will be burnt, and you can't even get a good blowjob without shedding a few layers of skin.

If you want to develop lively eyes, you have to roll a thin tube with clay and fire paper and light it in the dark. Wherever you move the light, your eyes will turn. This will last for a long time. It may also cause pink eye, and the eyes can't help but shed tears.

Request instructions but do not rely on them. Supporting characters cannot ask for instructions on everything, have no independent opinions when encountering problems, and cannot make the final decision on big or small matters. The protagonist will feel that you are ineffective and unable to handle the task.

Those who request instructions and reports must ask for instructions and reports, but do not rely on and wait. Especially for some matters that are difficult or easy to offend, you should not blame the protagonist, but take the initiative to handle them and handle them boldly.

The protagonist focuses on solving every problem he encounters. The identity of the protagonist and the supporting role depends on how much responsibility the character can bear.

Press forward when you see the benefits, avoid shirk when there are no benefits, and those who cannot be counted on at critical moments will have no chance to stand in the leading role.

Being the protagonist of life is easy to say, but you will know how difficult it is when you do it. If you look through the books of successful people, which one will describe the difficulties so clearly. They regard difficulties as life answers, and solving each difficulty is equivalent to completing an exam.

The protagonist is always prepared to face difficulties, fight monsters and upgrade amidst difficulties, and gain growth from every upgrade. There is no fixed pattern for protagonists and supporting roles, but there is a standard, which is the way to do things. If you want to be the protagonist of your life, change the way you do things, change your role positioning, and become the protagonist of your own life from today.

"Wrestle, Dad!" ”, Gita has experienced arduous training from body to soul. The life of a champion is accumulated by drops of sweat, being knocked down again and again, running step by step and countless competitions. The bitterness hidden behind the sweet gold medal is not a supporting role. I can afford it!

In life, you can plunge headlong into it and live it to the fullest; you can also watch it from a distance, watching and waiting.

The protagonist must bear responsibilities that the supporting characters do not need to bear. The protagonist must think hard and move forward, while the supporting characters only need to follow orders; the protagonist must charge into battle, but the supporting characters only need to sit back and enjoy the results; the protagonist must take the world as his own responsibility, and the supporting characters only need to Cultivating yourself and bringing your family together; the protagonist needs to create the current situation, and the supporting role only needs to adapt to the current situation. It is easier and more relaxed to be a supporting role. People will always choose the relatively easy one, who would ask for trouble? But if everyone adheres to the supporting role idea, who will help the building to collapse? Who can turn the tide?

The supporting character is named Gan Yumei, but he is actually cowardly and fearful. The protagonist's heroic spirit in daring to be the first in the world, and his courage to shoulder heavy responsibilities without regrets or regrets are all examples of self-strengthening. If you don't polish it, it will become useless. Don't hold back when you should play the leading role, saying that you are willing to be a supporting role.

Be the protagonist, not afraid of hardships and pains, have the courage to shoulder your own responsibilities, face every challenge, and greet it with a smile without sparing any effort.