article with profound philosophy: profound understanding of happiness and happiness
Happiness and happiness can be said to be everyone's ultimate pursuit, that is, no matter what ideal and pursuit everyone has, the ultimate goal is to get happiness and happiness. It is just that different people have different views on happiness and happiness. Now, the international trend is to use the national happiness index to measure the progress of a country's civilization, which is the best proof that happiness and happiness are the ultimate pursuit of human beings. Even in the literary world, the attention to happiness is also very high, that is, there are many articles about happiness and happiness. I also have a deeper understanding of happiness and happiness. Let me introduce them below:
Being happy is being happy.
What is happiness? Happiness is a pleasant psychological state and feeling. He who can make himself happy at all times and everything is the happiest person. The happiest person is the happiest person. He who laughs often is the happiest.
sad people make people sad, and happy people make people happy. Sweet smiling face is the most beautiful flower in the world.
people like people who always smile, which is why. This is because people's emotions can be mutual? Infection? Yes. Many girls look ordinary, but they are very attractive and make people feel beautiful, just because they always smile, which makes people happy and comfortable. It is also very pleasing for a boy to smile all the time. There was a foreign marriage program on TV: a beautiful American girl who taught foreign languages in a university in China fell in love with and married a young man from rural China who worked as a security guard in this university. Why does this girl like boys? This young man often smiles, and his smile is very beautiful and lovely. If a baby smiles when he meets a stranger or laughs when he is teased, he will be very lovable and want to hug and kiss him. Who wants to see a sad face? Who wants to hug or kiss a baby who cries when he meets a stranger? From the above, we can see that smiling is also a contribution to society. It is sweet to give roses to others, and sweet to smile to others. Optimists are happy with themselves and others. ? Smile for ten years? There are too many benefits of smiling, so smile all the time! Every one of us.
Only those who survive can truly appreciate the happiness of being alive.
People on the earth don't know how beautiful the earth is, but astronauts in space see the earth as beautiful. By the same token, people who survived the disaster feel very happy to be alive because they are standing? Die? Looking at the position? Health? . ? I don't know if I am blessed. You don't know how to cherish until you lose it ? Can explain this. Of course, we can't all experience the great disaster that can kill people, but we should realize how happy it is to live healthily through mental activities such as clever imagination, comparison and assumption.
Happiness lies in forgetting unhappiness, and happiness lies in forgetting misfortune.
There are spring, summer, autumn and winter, and people have joys and sorrows. The best way to be happy is to forget unhappiness, and the best way to be happy is to forget misfortune. Don't forget the lessons of failure, but forget the pain of failure. Happiness belongs only to those who are good at forgetting unhappiness, and happiness belongs only to those who are good at forgetting misfortune. Remember that unhappiness can only make you miserable, and that misfortune can only make you sad. Forgetting what you have lost and appreciating what you have can make you happy.
to be happy all your life, don't just be happy for a while.
when you are enjoying it, you must think about whether it will bring you great pain and misfortune for a long time. People who are desperate for pleasure can only bring great pain and misfortune to themselves. Those who violate the law and discipline and are imprisoned, ruined and even ruined their own lives are the best examples. In addition, those who are greedy regardless of their health are only seeking temporary happiness. And those playful and? Young people don't work hard? People who only want to be happy when they are young can only end up? The boss is sad? .
people who enjoy themselves in hardships are happy, and those who enjoy themselves in difficulties are blessed.
People have advantages and disadvantages, and there are advantages and disadvantages. Pay more attention to people's happiness and happiness, and more attention to things and pleasure. There are joys in suffering, and blessings in difficulties. He who finds pleasure in suffering is happy, and he who finds happiness in difficulties is happy. Pessimists are so pessimistic because they only see the sad side of things, while optimists are so optimistic because they only see the happy side of things. Unfortunate people are unhappy because they only see the misfortune in life, and happy people are happy because they only see the happiness in life. Today, there are many people with mental illness, and the main cause is cognitive psychological problems? Will not treat people, things, society, etc. correctly and positively.
Being busy with your favorite career all your life is the happiest
The greatest happiness and happiness in life is innovation and dedication; It is to fight for the ideal and the cause. The happiest thing for a person is to do what he loves all his life, and the most painful thing for a person is to do what he doesn't like all his life. Clear soup is tasteless, mediocre and boring. Doing nothing is the greatest pain in life, and being busy with your favorite career is the greatest happiness in life. Loving the person you like and doing what you like are the two great happiness in life. As long as you devote yourself wholeheartedly to the cause you love, you will forget all your troubles and unhappiness. Every day there is hope, every day is full, every day will be very happy, every day will be very happy.
The concept of happiness determines happiness
What you pursue, you will be happy for what you get; If you love something, you will be happy for what you have. The outlook on life determines life, and the outlook on happiness determines happiness. Different people have different pursuits, different people have different loves, and different people have different views on happiness, so people's understanding and feelings about happiness are very different. Therefore, people who are painful to others may also be very happy, and people who are happy to others may also be very painful.
Happiness depends on the state of mind
When the heart is full of sunshine, the face will be brilliant. People who are always grateful please themselves and others; People who are always appreciative please themselves and others. True chic is aggressive and optimistic. Carefree, fearless, relaxed and happy is the chic and happiness of life. Peace is a blessing, and peace is a blessing. Only when there is real contentment can there be real happiness and happiness. Having health and knowledge is the greatest possession; Harvesting happiness and happiness is the greatest harvest. Being optimistic about difficulties, failures, setbacks, blows and death is the highest psychological realm.
Happiness lies in us
Happiness is not in the sky, underground or anywhere in the world. Happiness is in our hearts? Look at it by us; Right in our eyes? Depend on us to discover; We have it? Create by us; Right under our feet? It's up to us to find it What really makes you happy and happy is yourself. Melons are bitter before they are sweet, and people are difficult before they are blessed. Any blessing is bought by bitterness, and it is a sweet fruit from a bitter tree.
patience determines happiness
? A little neglect may breed great mischief. ? This is a well-known ancient saying about the importance of patience in strategy. In fact, his influence on people's happiness and happiness is also great. As we all know, good interpersonal relationship (including family members and relatives) is one of the main factors that determine people's mood. In other words, without good interpersonal relationships, it is difficult for us to be happy and happy; Having good interpersonal relationships can often make us feel happy and happy. And good interpersonal relationships are closely related to the patience of people who interact with each other. On this point, everyone may have a personal experience, so I won't say much. I just want to tell two real stories here:
1. An old couple loved each other and spent more than 7 years together. When the reporter asked about the secret of their love, he replied? Patience? .
2. There is a big family, with four generations living under one roof and more than 3 people, old and young, who are very harmonious. When the reporter asked about the secret of their harmony, he replied? Patience? . Things are close to collision, but people are close to contradiction. Only seek common ground while reserving differences? Patience is the panacea to solve the problem of bad interpersonal relationship.
dedication is the happiest and people are the happiest.
Only those who contribute to society are the happiest people; Only those who seek happiness for the people are the happiest people. Don't think I'm shouting slogans and singing high-profile songs. We all know? Helping others? This idiom, if you help one person, you can make yourself very happy. Then, isn't it very happy and happiest to help a society composed of hundreds of millions of people? I remember a famous saying:? The most painful thing for people is that no one needs him. ? That is to say, it will be very painful for a person to feel that living is useless to others, family and society, and it is a burden. Some disabled people, who are physically and mentally disabled, try their best to do what they can for others and society, which is the best proof. We have one here specially composed of disabled people? Social service team? Sitting in a wheelchair that can be driven by yourself, free door-to-door service, home appliance repair, haircut, etc. If there were no paraplegia in Zhang Haidi, there would probably be no paraplegia known to the world today? Zhang Haidi? .
In addition, many factors, such as ideals, interests and love, also deeply affect people's happiness and happiness. These have been discussed in detail in the article "How to make happiness accompany us every day" published by the author, and I won't repeat them here.
Everyone pursues happiness and happiness, and happiness and happiness are everyone's ultimate pursuit. I wish you all happiness every day and always! (Author: Zhang Ren)
Profound philosophical article: Happiness is so simple, in fact, happiness lies in mentality
? Happiness? What does it mean? What kind of people are happy?
For thousands of years, people in different countries have different understandings of this topic due to cultural differences. People of different classes have different understandings. There are different perceptions at different stages of life.
in the west, people generally regard health, freedom, independence of personality and realization of personal value as important indicators of happiness. In China, however, people generally like to take children and grandchildren, health and longevity, promotion and wealth as a measure of happiness.
after decades of life, what we are constantly looking for is money and feelings. When I was young, I constantly pursued the pleasure brought by money for material life, but with the increasing experience, I gradually realized what is the most important thing in my life, and I struggled to find the true meaning of life. In fact, emotion is more important than any material, and it is the driving force that supports us to go on. As long as there is emotional nourishment, life can pass no matter what bumps we encounter!
Actually, there is no standard for happiness. It is also impossible to measure by indicators. What are some experts and scholars in China keen to do now? Happiness index? Speaking of things, it's just fooling the people.
I once saw a story on the Internet:
A couple of retired professors and a couple of retired workers lived in an alley. Professor and his wife's two children are both successful in their studies, studying abroad and finding good jobs abroad. The five children of the working couple have no good jobs. Two work in a factory, one drives a taxi, one is a nurse and the other is a self-employed person. Children are very filial. The old worker also set up a bicycle repair stall in the alley to earn some pocket money to kill time. Usually it's either the boss or the second child, the third child or the fourth child or the fifth child comes to visit the old man with grandchildren. On holidays, five children plus five daughters-in-law, grandchildren and grandchildren are brought to reunite with the elderly. The family is full of laughter and excitement. If the old couple get sick, it will be even worse. Children always flock to take the old man to the hospital. The bed is always crowded. However, the professors and couples are usually deserted at home, and the holidays are even more bleak. If you are sick and hospitalized, it is even difficult to accompany a vigil. You can only ask a stranger to accompany you. Often old workers and couples call their children to the hospital for help. Professors and couples envy the old workers and couples, whose children are around in groups, and who are filial. How happy they are! And the old workers and couples also envy the professors and couples' children to be blessed. Can you say which of them is happier?
In the old society, there used to be jobs in sedan chair, so who was happy, the people in the sedan chair or the people in sedan chair?
According to common sense, most people must think that people in sedan chairs are happy. Is the person in the sedan chair only physically happy, but is his heart happy? Most people who sit in sedan chairs are rich, and rich people want to make more money. To make more money, they have to make every effort to deal with endless complicated interpersonal relationships and face many unpredictable risks. It is rare for him to have peace of mind for half an hour. Is his distress understandable to the poor? Most people in sedan chair are poor, and they just want to fight for three meals a day with all their strength. If the business is good, carry people to the farm, get a few more coppers, play a few glasses of wine, stir-fry peanuts, and have a few drinks at leisure. And then fell asleep. When the sun came out the next day, I was full of strength to lift the rich man who was full of troubles. Who can say that people who ride in sedan chairs will be happier than those in sedan chair?
To be honest, happiness is an inner feeling and balance. Happiness is not directly proportional to status and wealth. Some people who are big officials or successful in their careers have a bad son at home and send a lot of money to the public security organs all day. Are they happy? Some people are very successful in their careers, but their bodies are broken down, or there are always smog at home. Are they happy? And some people, although they have no career, just have enough food and clothing at home, but their wives are virtuous and filial, and their families are healthy and harmonious, can they say they are unhappy?
happiness is a state of mind. Peace and tranquility are the greatest happiness.
article with profound philosophy: Look down on life and be kind to yourself
Life is like a kaleidoscope, with joys and sorrows, ups and downs, and you don't need to care too much. Life is like a dream, look down on everything, look down on the pain, cherish yourself and be kind to yourself.
cherish the dribs and drabs given by God; Be kind to yourself, so that there will always be a sunny sky in your heart; Be kind to yourself and look down on the pain in front of you. Maybe happiness comes after the pain?
No one doesn't want to live happily, but it's not satisfactory in real life. We often can't control happiness, because pain and trouble often come unexpectedly. In the face of pain and trouble, we may not escape, but we can choose to be kind to ourselves.
Maybe you are suffering from poverty in your life, or you are troubled by loneliness in your life.
Maybe you have failed in your career and love in your life. Maybe in your life, you feel indifferent and money is paramount. And losing the passion of life, facing all this, what the result is, is up to us. Ten million? Don't be sad and disheartened, indulge yourself or even give up life.
those irrational behaviors can only make you appreciate? Is it more worrying to raise a glass to drown your sorrows? The taste makes your life lifeless or even meaningless.
We should look down on everything and treat ourselves well.
Be kind to yourself
Keep a sunny sky in your heart forever;
Be kind to yourself
Look down on the immediate pain, maybe.