1. Never blame others for not helping you, and never blame others for not caring about you. Living in this world, we are all independent individuals, and we have to bear the pain and suffering by ourselves. No one can truly understand you. If the stone doesn't hit his foot, he will never realize how painful it is. On the road of life, we are all lonely travelers. Just like a person who knows whether the water is cold or warm, the only one who can really help you is yourself.

2. Don’t express your feelings when no one knows your efforts; don’t show off when no one understands your own value; don’t be confused when no one understands your aspirations. Live your own persistence, live your own innocence, live your own infatuation, live your own beautiful dreams.

3. Life cannot be lived by mood, but must be lived by mentality. Eat well, sleep well, earn well, spend well. Don't be angry with people who don't deserve it, don't lose sleep over things that don't deserve it. Since you are alive, live well and live for yourself every minute. Try to be a happy person, so happy that others will become happy when they see you.

4. We must learn to accept the changes of everyone around us. No one is the same. Some people may occasionally ignore you, some may occasionally approach you, and some may suddenly hate you. , it is inevitable that you have to accept that everyone has their own life, whether it is happy or unhappy, sunny or rainy, so do we. Only by constantly improving ourselves and being ourselves can we have the confidence to accept everyone's changes.

5. No matter how perfect you are, some people will be dissatisfied with you and some will make you annoying. There is no need to demand perfection from others, and there is no need to be harsh with others. People should do what they are supposed to do, have the best hope and make the last effort, but prepare for the worst and have the best mentality. Don't get bored of someone easily and waste so much time and energy. Beautiful things should be locked into memory and savored from time to time; the garbage in the gaps of time should be thrown aside and have nothing to do with you and should not be ignored.

6. You choose your own path, so even if you fall or get injured in the future, you must learn to endure it and heal yourself. We all learn to grow up like this.