Harmony is a skill in interpersonal communication, which makes your kindness more valuable. Loneliness makes you introspect, loneliness makes you strong, harmony makes you excellent!

Weakness is better than strength, and harmony is better than paranoia. When dealing with people, you should not be too upright. You must understand the routines of life and learn to be harmonious, and your life will be smoother.

Legendary figures like Gui Guzi contain wisdom in every word and deed, and explain the principles of life.

A truly mature person is not one who is tactful and worldly, but one who knows the world without being worldly. It is a kind of abundance and generosity from the inside out. If you want to get along well in this society, take a look at these two golden rules and study them carefully:

1. If you seek the straight, you will get the straight. It is forbidden to be clear and polite, and there is nothing wrong with it.

Explanation: When asking for something, don’t be too direct. Use a little more subtlety to make it easier to succeed. If you reject something, don't say anything. Just be tactful and you can still achieve your goal.

Everyone in life needs to have face. If you speak straightforwardly, not only will you not get any results, but you will also hurt other people's self-esteem and cause resentment, which is not worth the loss.

There is actually only one difference between "being able to speak" and "being unable to speak": euphemism. Before we speak, we should pay more attention to the importance of tact when giving opinions to others.

Rejection is a very profound knowledge. If someone asks you for help, it will not look good if you refuse. If you agree, you will go against your own heart. If you can explain it tactfully and refuse in a tactful manner, others will still be moved by your thoughtfulness and meticulousness.

In fact, as long as you simply change your language and start from the other party's perspective, the other party will feel respected and will be willing to listen and accept. If a person learns to express his meaning tactfully, his interpersonal relationships will become more and more harmonious!

2. Those who obey the superiors are nothing more than hypocrites; those who go against the superiors are really guilty.

Explanation: Complying with the superiors’ wishes, even if it is just a pretense, is nothing. fault. Disobeying the will of your superiors, even if it is sincere, is inviting bad luck.

At work, whether facing leaders or superiors, we should do our part, fully understand the meaning of the leader, and execute orders and obey them. Wherever the leader points, we will hit. As a subordinate, this is the most basic professional ethics.

Sometimes we don’t want to do things, but if we want to make money like others, we have to give up our own hobbies, and we must resolutely implement them even if it is against our will.

Even if you really don’t want to do it, you can still pretend. Work when the leader is there and rest when the leader is away. Working as a foreigner is better than not working at all.

But if you go against the leader's will, make your own decisions, and act arbitrarily, then the problem will be serious. No leader would allow his subordinates to do the job. If you are so courageous, even if you are sincerely doing good for the company, you cannot escape the fate of being fired.

? If you have different opinions, you can raise them with the leader, but you cannot make any opinions that go against the leader's wishes.