Source: All's well that ends well for lovers is selected from Mencius Li Lou Zhang Sentence.
Selected passages:
Mencius said: the reason why a gentleman is different is because of his heart. A gentleman is considerate with benevolence and considerate with courtesy. Benevolent people love others, while courteous people respect others. Those who love others will always love others; People who respect others will always respect others. If someone is here and he disobeys me, then the gentleman will contradict himself: I will be unreasonable and rude. Is this thing ridiculous?
It means:
Mencius said: The reason why a gentleman is different from ordinary people is that he has different thoughts in his heart. The idea in a gentleman's heart is benevolence and courtesy. Good people love others, and humble people respect others. People who love others will love others; People who respect others will be respected by others.
Suppose someone here is rude to me, that gentleman will definitely ask himself: I must be unfriendly and rude, otherwise, how could he treat me like this?
Extended data:
Mencius' language is clear, plain and simple, and at the same time it is refined and accurate. As an essay, Mencius is good at argument, more artistic and expressive, and has the nature of literary prose. Among them, the argumentative essay skillfully uses the method of logical reasoning, and Mencius skillfully uses analogical reasoning, often playing hard to get, repeatedly asking questions, and winding the other party into his own preset conclusion, such as Hui Liang and Wang Xia.
Momentum is an important style feature of Mencius' prose. This style stems from the strength of Mencius' personality cultivation. People with this lofty spirit can overwhelm each other mentally, despise political power, despise material greed, have extraordinary spirit, be upright, selfless and fearless. In Mencius, a large number of rhetorical devices such as parallel sentences and overlapping sentences are used to enhance the momentum of the article and make it magnificent. If the river is determined, it will be unstoppable.