The pattern should be broad-minded and relaxed.

The pattern should be generous and relaxed. A person who understands you will not make you sad all the time. If you know that you will not feel comfortable doing this, , but he did it anyway. Such malice and stupidity should not be forgiven. The pattern should be broad-minded and relaxed. Talk about it. Only when you have a big mind can you have a big pattern. The pattern should be big-hearted and relaxed. Let's talk about it 1

Don’t be more than 60% drunk, don’t be more than 70% full when eating, and don’t be more than 80% in love with your lover. But most people usually get drunk, overeat, and fall in love like fools. They end up vomiting all over themselves, growing a lot of flesh, and being abandoned.

2. God is very busy. He has to arrange for so many people to meet every day. He has no time to wait for you to grow up, and he has no time to listen to your gentle words. Those people who appear in your life, If you catch it, it's yours. Don't feel sorry if you let it go.

3. No matter how unhappy you are, we all have the responsibility to eat a good meal first, sleep well, and dress ourselves up. A lot of worries are actually no big deal. They are just inconvenient in that situation and in that mood. So no matter what happens, be kind to yourself first, and things will get better as time passes.

4. Don’t confide too much with others, because sooner or later you will find that you will regret it. To be honest, talking about your heart is very childish, and I am not encouraging you. It gets complicated, I just hope you can learn to protect yourself.

5. Sometimes you see the wrong person, not because you are blind, but because you are kind. Sometimes you help the wrong person, not because you are stupid, but because you take your feelings too seriously. Sometimes I endure it, not because I'm unreasonable, but because I don't want to fight.

6. Rich people like to say "money is not everything", good-looking people like to say "what's the use of being good-looking", and thin people like to say "actually it's better to be fatter and healthier", work hard People like to say "Effort is not the decisive factor." They just say it casually, hypocritically, but you seriously believe it.

7. Gradually I understand that many things can be met but cannot be sought. Why bother to care about what is not yours? What you care about will torture you. Expectation is the root of all heartache. .

8. You are not worried that no one will love you. What you are worried about is that no one will love you the way you want. In the end, you will find that your worry is right: no one can love you the way you want. Ways to love you except yourself. ——Zhang Defen

9. You are sincere to everyone and work hard for everything. You always choose to believe and believe no matter what. Then one day, you find that you are not that important in the other person’s heart. , some things have no results despite hard work, and the things you have always believed in have quietly changed their appearance.

10. A person who understands you will not make you sad all the time. If he does it anyway despite knowing that it makes you uncomfortable, such malice and stupidity should not be forgiven.

11. In fact, what makes people anxious is not that they are busy or tired, but that they don’t have anything that they are particularly interested in, and they don’t have anyone that they particularly want to love. They know that they should work hard, but they still don’t. Don't know where to push.

12. You must like to be with yourself. The good thing is: you don’t have to twist yourself to conform or please others. In a person's world, you don't have to obey or please. Doing what you like, even if you are in a daze, is so comfortable.

13. You charge diligently, work hard, stay in shape, and smile at others. These are not to please others, but to manage yourself well and become an independent and upward force.

14. The reason why you feel uncomfortable is probably because you invested a lot of time and energy but in the end failed to get what you wanted, the kind of feeling of being filled with loss in an instant. The look makes you feel unworthy.

15. Don’t listen to sad songs when you are in a bad mood. If you are hungry, cook for yourself. If you want the clothes, make your own money to buy them. Even if life is not gentle to you, don’t ask others for help. Tell your misfortune, because life is so real, why should you pretend to be innocent.

16. Others may have comforted you, comforted you, and warned you, but they never know how piercing your heart is. No matter how many grievances and discomforts you have, remember In the end, it is you who can heal yourself.

17. The root cause of your anxiety: lack of ability and many dreams are nothing more than greed; willingness to give but unwillingness to fight is nothing more than delusion; repeated entanglement and being too pretentious are nothing more than weakness.

18. You will find that after you have been strong alone for a long time, you will feel inexplicably warm when you meet others with a little care. You mistakenly think that it is love, and then you will try your best to be nicer to others, but it is not enough. When you are disappointed, you don’t even know what it means to be sentimental.

19. Sometimes you hate yourself for being unwilling to be mediocre but not working hard. You feel that you are not good enough, and you envy the shining of others. But in fact, most people are ordinary, but you don’t see the efforts of others. arrive.

20. Don’t try to tell others about your sadness. People who have never experienced it will scoff at it. People who have experienced it will say don’t think too much. People who like you will be anxious, and people who hate you will be anxious. Rejoice, and eventually you will despair.

21. While you still have time, try your best to do the thing you want to do the most and live the life you want to live the most. Maybe we are always a little person, but this does not prevent us from choosing how to live. The world is always more exciting than you think.

22. If you decide to give up something, please give it up completely. Those who decide never to meet again really don’t want to meet again. Please don't betray yourself again. If you want to love others, please love yourself first.

23. The so-called maturity means that you still like the things you like, but you don’t have to own them; you still hate the things you hate, but you can tolerate them; you are still afraid of the things you are afraid of, but you can face them; you still find it difficult to face them before. Reasonable things can be taken for granted.

Twenty-four, you are always looking forward to someone giving you sudden warmth, looking forward to someone giving you the best companionship in the world, but what you don’t know is that when you get through it alone After all the suffering, you will no longer expect anything or ask for anything. You have to be good, grow up, and live up to expectations. The pattern should be broad-minded and broad-minded. Let’s talk about it 2

What are some inspiring quotes about people’s pattern?

1. Only when you have a big mind can you have a big pattern.

There is a saying among the people. The proverb says: "No matter how big the cake is, it is not bigger than the pot in which it is baked." The size of the cake is limited by the size of the pot. In the same way, the pattern determines your outcome, and if a person wants to have a big pattern, he must first have a big mind: in the face of unprovoked provocations, slanders and even attacks from others, and in the face of harm and frame-up by villains, he must be able to not Be impatient, not violent, not angry, and deal with it calmly. In the process of achieving great things, we must have the measure of giving first and taking later, the height of overall planning and the strategy of strategizing.

2. Be able to take things but also let them go

The great French writer Balzac has a famous saying: "Grab things from life." It’s almost a natural instinct, but few people are willing to give back the things they get. “As a person, being able to take things is a matter of ability and ability, and being able to let go is a matter of magnanimity and style, especially for people who want to achieve great things. In other words, we need to understand the wisdom of being able to take and let go. We must understand that "taking" and "letting go" in life actually complement each other. If you want to take something, you must give it first. This is just like giving and getting. In relationships, if you are willing to give up, you will not be able to give up. Only when you give up can you get something.

3. A person must be proud and not arrogant

A person who is generous must be proud. His heart is extremely strong and he will not be easily influenced by others. Always have your own persistence; be a generous person without arrogance. You can bravely face up to your own shortcomings, actively accept the opinions of others, constantly reflect on yourself, and strictly demand yourself, so that you can accumulate huge energy and accumulate a lot of experience. And Bo Fa finally achieved great things.

4. Life is short, and those who achieve great things do not struggle

Carnegie, the master of success studies, once said: "We only have a few decades to live in this world, but we waste it. What a terrible loss it is to spend so much time worrying about little things that will be forgotten within a year.

"Life is short, and those who achieve great things will not be entangled. They will not let pain, disappointment, regret, anxiety, guilt and other negative emotions occupy their lives, and they will not be unable to live with themselves! In life, if you think too much about everything , get entangled in it, and if you accumulate it bit by bit, it will be like a messy house, leaving you with no place to stand. Thinking less about useless things and doing more useful things is the expression of true grandeur and grandeur.

5. Stop complaining and you will be more likely to succeed

No one likes a complainer. Your complaints will only reflect your narrow-mindedness, narrow-mindedness, and negativity, which will make others stay away from you. As Mr. Lu Xun said, "A true warrior dares to face the bleak life." Stop complaining and face all the unsatisfactory situations in life with a straight attitude and a positive attitude. You will be more likely to succeed, and complaining will only make you Break your wings in the storm of life!