If you live in the world all your life, you will encounter such difficulties and setbacks. This is the so-called "sinister rivers and lakes", commonly known as your environment. There is a difference between the white road, the underworld and the gray road. This "danger" is the trouble that others bring to you, which makes people feel more dangerous. If you ask others for help, others sometimes refuse to agree. This is called asking for help. If you live in this world, you should do it well. As for what you haven't met, it's not that your life is good or bad. That's a superstitious statement. In a word, you have too little experience in Jianghu. It will take you 40 years to understand this problem! ! !