1. In a harmonious family, at least one of every couple is a "fool".

2. In a happy marriage, everyone should respect each other’s interests and hobbies. It is the most absurd idea to think that two people can have the same thoughts, the same judgments, and the same desires.

3. The ideal relationship between husband and wife is one that is intimate but appropriately distant, candid yet retains some confidentiality, so that they can be deeply in love and have their own personal world.

4. The secret to getting along with the person you love for a long time is: give up the idea of ??changing the person you love.

5. Trust is the most important quality shared by two people in a marriage and is indispensable for building a happy and growing relationship.

6. To maintain goodwill between husband and wife, both parties should be more condescending to each other, and each must not keep their own personality and hobbies.

7. For the continuation of love and the happiness of marriage, the wife must please her husband, and the husband must also please his wife. As for how to please, it is an advanced art.

8. When encountering unpleasant things in life, both parties should be considerate, gentle, and comfort each other. They must not blame each other, complain, or hurt feelings.

9. Everyone has shortcomings and strengths. See more of each other's strengths and weaknesses, and concentrate on learning. If each other complements each other's strengths and weaknesses, the relationship will become stronger.

10. Accommodation, tolerance, surrender, acceptance, adaptation, forgiveness, understanding, compromise, resilience, and acceptance of fate can be cultivated in marriage and love.