Not the kui is a generation of Rebecca Huang Lei children! Of course, another bright spot is: dye your hair more.
In recent years, parents have repeatedly discussed whether adolescent girls can dye their hair and whether they should dress up or even become mature.
Huang Duoduo, 13 years old, proved by her actions that my hair is my master.
These beautiful photos were taken by Doma Sun Li on the evening of 22nd. The stylist who has done a lot in recent years also wrote: "My sister's new hair color." In the photo, many people are wearing lavender T-shirts and short black skirts, tilting their heads and smiling sweetly in front of the mirror. The newly dyed purple short shoulder-length hair is simply fashionable and fashionable.
Unsurprisingly, online comments exploded immediately. Some people said to Huang Lei that "my father-in-law is in love, please ask my little husband to pay homage", and some netizens questioned "Does the school allow 13 years old to dye hair?"
Of course, some netizens explained that Huang Duoduo went to an international school and allowed her to dye her hair.
But there are still many netizens who are adamant and question whether Huang Lei is stocking his daughter. What about puppy love if you don't study well? Some netizens said that if I dare to dye my hair, my father will break my leg. This sentence resonated with many netizens.
How parents in the entertainment circle take care of their children is an enduring topic. Huang Duoduo, an adolescent girl, is always at the forefront of the trend. When I was 9 years old, I began to get my ears pierced, and then I wore a ring, learned to make up and dyed my hair, which almost became the opposite of many parents' education in China.
Strangely, she seems to be born to grow up. China's parents' famous saying-"I'm doing this for your own good" never seems to have appeared in her life, but she has just grown into a leader among her peers. She is not only smart and versatile, but also fluent in English, with super independent ability, and the longer she is, the more moving she is.
So, how many times did 13-year-old Huang Duoduo hit China's parents in the face with a purple hair?
How many people have heard the phrase "girls don't study hard if they love to dress up" in their girlhood? This is really a well-known educational saying, isn't it?
But after reading Huang Duoduo's growing experience, it will be very strange: how could she?
The classic story of Huang Duoduo's dressing is that she got her ears pierced at the age of 9, or Sun Li got her ears pierced by herself. At that time, the melon eater said, shouldn't a mother watch her daughter get her ears pierced and beat her to the north before kneeling down to reflect? Why are you still taking pictures with joy? It seems that education in Huang Lei is really not good.
The story of dressing up comes one after another, even if you wear a ring and makeup and clothes that show your navel. It can be seen that precocity has always been the focus of Huang Duoduo's dressing.
Of course, people who eat melons are most worried about Huang Duoduo's study.
But now it seems that Huang Duoduo's research is the least worrying. He was able to read English books and communicate with Feynman in English when he went to Where is Dad?
She plays well and draws well. She is an all-round student type.
What's more frightening is that I am still very interested in craft work. I have taken photos of careful knitting, cooking with my grandma and baking with Huang Lei.
/kloc-at the age of 0/2, he can already design his own dress and write an introduction in English. At that time, some netizens questioned whether it was shameful to write in Chinese. The result was quickly refuted by netizens. Isn't it normal for international schools to hand in students' homework in English? Can you take the essence to a higher level?
Now, Huang Duoduo is steadily on the road of all-round development of morality, intelligence and physique. Recently, it has begun to emerge frequently in the fashion circle of film and television circles. First, he voiced the role of "Little Girl" in the French animated film "The Little Prince", and then boarded the stage of Tianjin Grand Theatre with his father and appeared in the Bonpoint show in Paris.
Of course, Huang Lei and his wife are indispensable for such excellent resources, but Huang Duoduo's performance is convincing.
There are not only eighteen martial arts, but also Huang Duoduo's fashion evolution theory.
Earlier, Huang Duoduo's photos were full of literary youth, with a hint of sadness in silence.
However, the latest styling has begun to favor European and American fashion styles.
Whether the new style is too mature can be discussed, but it is undeniable that Huang Duoduo has really become a master of learning at the forefront of the trend. Can't she study hard when she dyes her hair? This question has actually been hit in the face in advance.
In recent years, Huang Li's educational methods almost run counter to those of parents in China. Many people call Huang a free-range father, but this understanding may be too simple and rude.
Huang Duoduo was born on February 6th, 2006. Many people don't know her name is Christine. In a story about China's education, she provided a clean and warm education template along the way.
To sum up briefly, the educational method of Huang Lei and Sun Li is four words: respect for nature.
When a lot of new things show freshness, give correct guidance and let her try. Traditional ideas are almost gone.
When I first wrote Where is Dad Going 2, Huang Duoduo became popular because of her gentle and sensible personality. It can also be seen that Sun Li in Huang Lei does respect the children's own wishes in her education, but she will also guide the children to grow up independently.
A classic case is that someone gave Toto a puppy on the show, and Toto couldn't put it down.
Belle also likes puppies very much, so she asked Huang Lei if she could play for a while. Huang Lei didn't agree directly, but said to Belle, "The dog belongs to Sister Duo. You should ask more. "
After giving a lot of dogs to Beibei, Belle played for a long time, and she was worried. When she ran to find her father, Huang Lei said to her daughter, "You can solve it yourself."
It should be said that Huang Lei's handling is very unusual. For the first time, he didn't let Belle take the puppy without authorization, like many parents in China, but he kept a lot of autonomy.
The second time Duo Duo wanted to take the puppy back, he once again didn't stand up like China's parents, but let the children solve it themselves.
It is precisely because Huang Li has given Duoduo enough personal space and a sense of security that Duoduo is so bold to socialize and express himself.
Parents have never decided their daughter's life from an authoritative standpoint. They all emphasize that more people should grow up by themselves, and the only thing they have always done as parents is to "support".
In my opinion, this is not stocking, but raising well.
It's not that parents are away, but that the company has enough personal growth space for children to grow up on their own. Facts have also proved that Duo Duo has become the most responsible and responsible child among all the children in Where is Dad?
Many people question whether the second generation of Xing released itself by possessing extraordinary resources. But neither did Huang Duoduo.
Prior to this, her partner He Jiong played the leading role in Lai Shengchuan's play The Book in the Water for the first time. Huang Lei revealed that she and her wife Sun Li were under the stage, and their eyes were swollen with tears. Tv plays not only affect people, but more importantly, let them see a lot of growth.
It's not surprising that He Jiong made Weibo boast that people eat more melons. More telling, director Lai Shengchuan also praised Duoduo's performance, saying that the role of Shuier in Shui Shu was written by a girl of 10 years old. In the past, adults played children, but now they are real children, which shows him the original intention of writing this script.
Lai Shengchuan's strictness in drama has become an industry legend, so this seal should be convincing.
It is true that the second generation of stars has good resources, but it is the key to success to be competent in their own roles.
Every family has its own way of education, but now it seems that letting a lot of people grow up freely has not taught a girl who can fly by herself. Just because she has her ears pierced and her hair dyed doesn't mean she is a bad girl.
Nowadays, many people are still childlike, but they know how to take care of their brothers and sisters and understand their parents. Their lives began to move towards a broader stage of life. The resources are indeed extraordinary, but they are not ostentatious and unpretentious, and there is no bad temper of the second generation of stars. This second generation of stars can virtually correct everyone's cognition, and it is also to cheer for more children.
Her success is really because she punched too many parents in the face in China.
Comparing the famous educational sayings of parents in Huang Lei and China, we can see the difference of their educational ideas.
China's parents: Mom and Dad, it's all for your own good.
Huang Lei: "I never treated her like a child. She is a considerate person. She has her secrets, her thoughts and her life. She does not belong to me. We are independent individuals. I won't impose my will on her. We get along like friends. "
Which is better or worse? I won't judge easily. Because many parents in China still think it's cool for their children to break their legs when they say they want to dye their hair.
Ji Bolun said in The Prophet: Your children are not your children. What you can give them is your love, not your thoughts, because they have their own thoughts.
I'm sorry, in the eyes of China's parents, children don't need to have their own ideas, but thinking is enough.
Sebrina in Everything's Fine was spoiled by the tiger mother when she was a child, because the tiger mother thought she was a good teacher, so it would be nice to marry someone casually in the future, and there was no need to learn so well.
All right, it's all plays. It's fake. However, zhuyuchen, a famous tiger mother in the entertainment circle, vividly interprets the image of many Chinese mothers guiding their children.
Well, these are rare phenomena in the entertainment circle.
Last year, in the variety show "Teenager's Talk" on national television, the child asked his mother in tears why you couldn't see his efforts. Her mother was as calm as ever, and I only said six words: "I did it for your own good."
This sentence runs through the whole variety show, and no one in the adult world thinks it is rude, because it is all for your own good.
China's parents are characterized by suppressing their children and protecting them from seeing the truth of the world, because their focus is on learning. As for what the world is like, they will know later.
But Huang Lei said, "I let Duo Duo realize that she is not a special child since I was a child. All children are special at home, and adults revolve around children, but in society, no one is special. We adults know a lot of things, and we should also let our children know.
Under the traditional education system, children naturally feel that it is their task to listen to their parents. The question is, in a society accustomed to suppressing children's nature and denying children's self-assertion, how many parents can let their children complete their real growth and feel the warmth of their families at the same time?
What is even more puzzling is that children who are strictly controlled by their parents will automatically continue the discourse pattern of the previous generation when they grow up. Chinese educational aphorisms are handed down from generation to generation, just like truth.
Such a cage caused by "parents are good to you" and "dyeing hair will get worse" stifles all the personal demands and ideas of boys and girls. If you don't listen to your parents, you are a bad boy, or you have a problem.
Many extreme educational tragedies are actually the biggest outbreak of this habitual denial of children.
There seems to be an unconscious deception passed down from generation to generation. In the stories about education, the cost of education is always ignored, and only the glory of parents' love is depicted. Later, children also think that the pain and trouble caused by strong management should be borne, which is reasonable.
But like the education in Huang Lei and Sun Li, isn't it respect for nature to let children make their own choices?
It's not that Huang Lei has no doubts. Duoduo, 13 years old, is already1m 64,65. As a father, he will be worried when he sees his daughter approaching puberty. But he will communicate honestly with Duo Duo and say, "You may be a teenager in a year or two. At that time, you may not want to go out for a walk with your father, and you don't like listening to him. " But after listening to it, I was puzzled.
I think this is Huang Lei learning from Toto. The former learns to be a parent, and the latter learns to be himself.
Such equal communication between parents and children can make a child understand the meaning of life more.
Huang Lei once wrote in a letter to his daughter: "I must be pessimistic but calm and honest: we only have this life. Therefore, these most common emotions are the most precious happiness for us. I hope you can live like this in the future: protect your lover and children, and each other. "
This kind of parent-child relationship is first of all mutual understanding and respect, and facing the complicated life together. Parents tell their children what life is like, and then make their own decisions, which is the real decision. The decision imposed by parents is not a decision.
It is the first time for us to be parents, and we need to study with our children, but many parents think that there is no need to learn to be parents, and being parents is gifted.
"Both parents are good for you" is the most irresponsible judgment, because parents have no right to easily decide their children's lives for their own good.
On the basis of independent personality and life, giving children the most selfless love and respecting her growth is an educational lesson for China's parents by Huang Lei Sun Li. From the educational achievements of Huang Duoduo, a melon eater in China, we can see that many Chinese-style educational golden sentences have been slapped by her, including dyeing her hair.
It is true that some people use their whole lives to heal their childhood, while others use their childhood to heal their whole lives.
Another personal feeling is that the longer the daughter of the male god, the better she looks. On second thought, the male god gave up his face value, but what's wrong with inheriting excellent genes?
But what China's parents should remember is that apart from bringing the best genes and love to their children, their children should go their own way in the future.