How do parents guide their children's extracurricular reading

Extracurricular reading can not only broaden children's horizons and increase their knowledge, but also help to form good moral sentiments, which is conducive to cultivating good self-study, reading and homework abilities, and its importance is self-evident. The following is what I have compiled for you about how parents guide their children's extracurricular reading. I hope you like the article!

Organize registration

Give your child a study and an independent reading space, which is conducive to creating a scholarly atmosphere. If the conditions do not permit, it is more important to put a bookcase or a desk with integrated desks and cabinets in his bedroom. If the child is not interested in reading at the beginning, parents should not worry. First, put some new books that must be read after class on his bookshelf, and try to make him sort them according to fairy tales, history, science and technology, biography, suspense and popular science, and register the books. Parents should guide the method of classification, but don't do everything instead. Encourage him in time after sorting out books, so that he can cultivate the sense of closeness of books and the sense of accomplishment of learning to scientifically classify and sort out books. In this process, he will unconsciously fall in love with the books he has sorted out.

A concerned parent can also ask him to find a few famous sayings and aphorisms about reading, copy them neatly on cards, post them or hang them in a prominent position on the bookshelf, and give him a reminder and invisible power support.

Accompanying reading

If children fall in love with reading, parents had better set an example. No matter how busy I am, I will take some time to read every day, which is not only to recharge myself, but also to set an example for my children. I put an extra chair in the child's room, so that I can often take books to his room to sit with him and be his reading partner. I don't usually ask bluntly, I'm here with you, and it's time for you to read. I just use silent action language to influence children's reading habits.

if there are many family members with different hobbies, parents should try their best to control the interference sources. If the TV is turned down, the mahjong place will be hidden, and so on.

story exchange

I remember that when my child was still in the lower grades, I often told him some fairy tales until I got into the habit of not listening to stories before going to bed. At first, I told him stories such as Grimm's Fairy Tales, One Thousand and One Nights, The Journey to the West, etc. Later, I found that the stories I knew were limited and could not meet his needs, so I tried to "blind" and made up 3 or 4 sequels to the simple story "Magic Pen and Good Horse". He listens with relish every time, and I am very happy. When he can read, I'll let him read the storybook in drawing and pinyin, and then listen patiently to him retell the story and give him praise from time to time. Over time, he fell in love with reading, and he was willing to share the stories he read with his elders.

No matter how old a child is, always asking him about the stories he has read and giving him timely encouragement will greatly enhance his reading desire. Satisfying children's desire for expression is a very important way of education.

I like it

Through my careful observation of children's extracurricular reading for several years, he especially loves fairy tales, animals and detective novels. In order to meet their needs, I like it and keep providing books in this field. Periodicals such as Children's Literature and Youth Literature and Art are bought for him all the year round. I let him read Chinese and foreign sci-fi classics such as Space Empire and Back of the Moon by Liaoning Children's Publishing House, and bought Shen Shixi's animal novels such as Wolf World, The Seventh Hunting of Retired Military Dogs, The Encounter of a Carver Hunting, Dream of the Wolf King, Fox Hunting, Blind Children and Abandoning Dogs. Detective stories such as adventures of sherlock holmes, Detective Conan, Di Renjie's Case-solving Story of Datang and Bao Zheng's Case-solving Story of Dasong are his favorites.

My child especially likes reading the fairy tale "I am Your Guardian Star". He has watched both episodes. The publication advertisement says that there will be a sequel, but it is not available in the market or online. He is in a hurry. I always accompany him to ask the bookstore owner when there will be a sequel, and it took half a year to wait for the news of publication. I struggled and waited with him, and finally realized my wish. Children's good wishes should be satisfied as much as possible.

Close to campus

Students generally like to read stories that are close to their campus life. When reading, it is easy to produce * * * and find the shadow of themselves and their classmates. It is a good choice to buy Yang Hongying's Diary for Girls, Diary for Boys, Qin Wenjun's Gary for Boys, Jame for Girls, Wu Meizhen's Troublemaker in Girls' Territory, Boys are all punished, 1 kinds of tragic results of exams, and The Greedy Bug meets the Whistleblower. My child loves to read the works of Yang Hongying, Qin Wenjun and Wu Meizhen. He also likes to read English teacher Yang Xiaoyan's "Networms in Class May 4th" and Japanese writer Tetsuko Kuroyanagi's "Little Peas by the Window".

In addition, humorous literary works on campus can also be used as supplements and condiments for children's reading, which not only regulates body and mind, but also helps to cultivate children's interest in life.

Take books as a gift

Parents should be good at communicating with teachers, and always know their children's performance in school study and behavior habits. If they know which aspects have been praised and praised by teachers and students, they will buy him a book they like to read as a gift to reward them, and the children will be very happy. Parents should pay more attention to his little progress in conduct, not only on the basis of exam scores and ranking. I don't promise my children any rewards, including books, in advance, but surprise them afterwards. If you promise in advance, it will make him have utilitarian thoughts, and regard the virtues that should be cultivated and the things that should be done as chips to get rewards, which will gradually erode his pure motivation; Reward afterwards not only affirms and encourages his performance, but also strengthens the positive factors, and at the same time makes the children feel your love for him.

Choose by yourself

It's no good forcing your child to read. It is a good way to let children choose for themselves. When I take my children to the bookstore, I may choose a dozen useful books and let them choose two or three. Children will be happy to choose them if they think you respect them. Sometimes parents collect some extracurricular reading books recommended by education departments or famous teachers from the Internet, so that children can choose to order them themselves, and they will be happy to finish reading in a short time.

I once gave a reading recommendation list to my class before the summer vacation, and bought or borrowed these books for my children. He liked reading them very much, especially Harry Potter, a science fiction novel. He was addicted to reading one book and wanted to buy a collection. Because a set of seven books cost more than 3 yuan, he felt too expensive, so he was embarrassed to say that I understood his mind and readily satisfied his wish.

1+1 collocation

It's not enough to let children make their own choices. After all, children are young and have little knowledge, so their choices are small. Parents should also combine checks, democracy and centralization to really produce benefits. When I walk with my child, the last stop is usually the bookstore. In many cases, I let him choose a book and read it for about half an hour. If I meet something I really want to buy, I generally support it; Sometimes I will attach some conditions. For example, he likes science fiction fairy tales, and I say that he can buy them, but it must be matched with one of the extracurricular reading purposes recommended by the Chinese curriculum standards. I call it "1+1", which is optional and recommended by his parents. At the same time, he can have the opportunity to buy another favorite book after reading. Sometimes he doesn't necessarily like what his parents recommend, but he will naturally be interested and like it after reading more.

Record the book list

No matter the books I bought for my child, the books I helped him borrow or the books he borrowed from his classmates, I asked him to record them in a special notebook as a reading list, and mark the books he read with a checkmark. This will leave him with a reading history and traces, and at the same time enhance his sense of accomplishment in this respect. And I sometimes ask him to compare the amount of reading in each time period, so as to judge whether he is making progress or slacking off. If you make progress, you should make persistent efforts, and if you slack off, you should take the time to follow up.