Zhou and Hao Dongmei have never had a life-and-death love. Their love world always looks bright, gentle and safe. But in essence, they are two kinds of people. There is always a huge gap between Bing Yi, who was born in the working class, and Dongmei, a family from Gao Qian.
And this difference was managed to erase when Zhou was alive. But he is unwilling all his life, and so is she.
Zhou Yisheng is cautious. He has no descendants of his own, no filial parents, and lives a humble life.
However, Hao Dongmei gave her feelings for most of her life to Aunt Bing and Zhou Jia, but she was not recognized. Even in Aunt Bing's last words, I can't see his love and reluctance to her, but let her remarry seemingly generously.
Therefore, Dong Mei passed it on to others shortly after Bing Yi's death. What made her decide to get married in a flash?
In the original work, before Zhou died, he held Dong Mei's hand and said to He Bingkun:
"My parents' three children, the greatest luck in this life, are all combined with excellent men and women as partners, which is second only to their parents' kindness. You two should be grateful to Guang Xiao and Zheng Juan in the future.
Zhou added: "After I die, I don't have to buy a cemetery, just put my ashes in front of my parents' graves. "
If someone talks about me and attacks me, don't be surprised and don't be enthusiastic. "
In this affectionate last words, the Zhou family was all mentioned, but there was no shadow of Hao Dongmei.
When an unsuspecting person sees such affectionate words, the first thing that comes to mind is that he is a dutiful son, followed by a good brother, not a good husband. Because he only admitted that Dong Mei was a good woman, but he didn't associate his afterlife with Dong Mei.
Seemingly affectionate, but in fact ruthless to Dongmei. In doing so, Zhou was ashamed of his parents. He wanted to repay his parents in this way, but he didn't consider Hao Dongmei's feelings.
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At the end of the world, Bing Kun and Zheng Juan are walking in the rain: "We will still be husband and wife in the next life. Zheng Juan replied, "She wants to be beautiful. "
Bing Kun looked happy: "It's nice to think about it."
And Zhou, the immortal couple envied by everyone, generously remarried Dong Mei before she died. Is it really his deep affection, or is his love for Dongmei not so deep?
At that time, Bing Yi's group and Dongmei's farm were not far away, and they often dated. At first, Hao Dongmei took the initiative to confess to Zhou, and Zhou still hesitated. It was Zhou Rong's words that made him decide to accept Dong Mei's love.
"Elder brother, love her! Love her well and take responsibility for protecting her. I hope she will be my sister-in-law one day. I think you two are so much like a couple. She has Mrs. Stowe's sympathy, and this is the most precious thing for a woman, followed by her thoughts. "
The initial affection between Zhang Bingyi and Dong Mei is not as beautiful and moving as what we saw in TV series. The feelings between them are described in the original, without the passion when they were young and ignorant.
This book reads like this:
"They kiss their mouths, but that's just a lip-to-lip kiss. I don't know why, at that time, she never spoke, and he often tasted it. There has never been a so-called deep kiss between them. "
Later, Zhou rejected the opportunity to promote Hao Dongmei to the secretary of the Central Military Commission. At that time, a man gave up his bright future for a woman. Not everyone can do such a thing, but Zhou did. Dong Mei was deeply moved by Aunt Bing's choice and decided to live up to Aunt Bing's affection all her life.
But in fact, there is also a monologue about Zhou Neixin in the original work:
He felt that working as a secretary in a strange army. If you are confused in the future, it is better to be with Dong Mei. His idea is the same as that of Cao Debao. He wants to marry a princess in distress and have a better future. But in the eyes of Dong Mei and everyone, Zhou is an affectionate man.
Giving up the opportunity of promotion is his deep affection for a woman. But imagine, if Dong Mei was the daughter of an ordinary family, would Aunt Bing still do this? We don't know, but only we know the choices in human nature best.