There is a famous saying in "The Besieged City": "Marriage is a besieged city. People outside the city want to get in, and people in the city want to get out." If we had not met before, if we had each taken a step back, if we had If I persisted no matter how hard it was back then~
Yes, life is a long road, with marriages and worries, and singleness with worries. Along the way, I have seen too many people who are unhappy in every way after marriage, and I have also seen too many lonely and lonely figures. In the end, I realized that in life, there is no one choice that can be settled once and for all.
I like a saying very much: You will regret it whether you get married or not. The cat in the alley is free, but has no home; the dog in the wall has a home, but has to bow its head for life. Life is a multiple-choice question, no matter what you choose, there will be regrets.
Yes, there will be regrets in any choice you make. Just look away, take a dim view, and look far away. What we can do is to choose the one we like the most and want to choose the most, so as to reduce regrets.
When love has become a thing of the past, please forget about the past, don’t mention the future, respect the present, and be kind to yourself.