In real life, many people are in a state of failure, because they don't believe in success, in fact, success comes after failure, and wolves, an animal, always believe in their own strength. They have a kind of strength in the face of difficulties, a kind of perseverance in the face of difficulties, and a firm confidence that they will never give up until they reach their goals.
Paul Meyer, a famous psychological consultant, said that 9% of the losers are not defeated, but give up the hope of success.
the most critical factor that determines a person's success is how he views failure. Anyone who wants to succeed must find a magic weapon to overcome failure and move on. Otherwise, failure will inevitably lead to disappointment, and disappointment will lead to ruin.
Henry Ford said, "Failure is just an opportunity to start again more wisely." Ford himself certainly had a direct experience of failure. He went bankrupt when he first set foot in the automobile industry twice. He succeeded the third time. Ford Motor Company is still full of vitality and remains one of the largest automobile manufacturers in the world.
The hero of another famous "failure" story is a young man. His dream is to enter the United States Military Academy at West Point and serve the country after graduation. He was not admitted to the exam twice, and finally got his wish when he applied for the exam for the third time. This young man is douglas macarthur. Later, he became one of the most senior generals in the United States and served as commander-in-chief of the allied forces in the southwest Pacific during World War II. Just like Henry Ford, he failed not once in the first few stops of his dream journey, but twice. Just like Ford, he didn't give up.
It sounds too simple, but it is a wise saying. Don't be unwilling to stand up and forget to hurry because we have fallen. In fact, in the end, it will only make flower of life full of hope wither and wither; Don't get carried away by the glory of the past, indulge in it and can't extricate yourself. In the end, it will only quietly extinguish the passion like fire. Therefore, in the journey of life, no matter what difficulties and obstacles we encounter, what we have and what we lose, we must always remember one thing: "Don't forget to start, forget to hurry."
Only when we set out, will we not waste precious time every day and let the tree of life bear more fruitful fruits; Only when we set out will we get close to our ideal goal. So as to have a chance to shake hands with success; Only when we set out, will we create a brand-new self and make persistent pursuit of writing a clean life. Flowers and applause are never given to those who wait for the rabbit, but only to those who walk in rain or shine; Empty talk and broad talk will never make your dreams come true, and in the end, you will only leave a sigh of "white youth's head, empty sorrow"; Only starting and moving forward is the only way to reach the other side of success. It's not a good soldier who only shouts but doesn't charge, and it's not a good hunter who only aims but doesn't shoot. A baby lying in a cradle will never stand and walk, and locked himself in a dark room will never see the bright and wonderful outside world!
to start, you need to identify the direction. Starting without knowing the direction is tantamount to a blind man riding a blind horse, which will not only fail to reach the goal ahead, but also make you farther and farther away from the goal, and what's more, you will lose your way, go in the opposite direction and go astray.
to set out, you need to be strong and confident. Without a strong and confident departure, you will encounter rapids and rapids on your way forward, either flinching or giving up halfway. Just as steep mountains can't stop the surging waves, the surging waves can't stop your boat; Just as the vast clear sky can't stop the sudden storm, the sudden storm can't stop the back of your long trip. Even if the secular wall blocks your pride in Wan Wen, it will never stop your sonorous pace; Even if the heavy night blocks the stars all over the sky, it can never stop a lamp lit in your heart; Even if the barriers of years block your strong body, what you can't stop is the faith you long for.
Maybe you haven't reached the other side of success after sailing all your life; Maybe you have climbed all your life, but you haven't reached the peak; Perhaps, all the hard work has no harvest; Perhaps, all the sweat is shed in vain ...................................................................................................................................................................... Those who dare to face failure are not necessarily heroes. Life is actually a process, so don't care too much about the result of struggle. If you struggle, you should have a clear conscience. Life is actually a sowing, sowing may not always have results, but it will never have results without sowing. All retreat is an excuse to escape, and all wandering is a sign of cowardice. In fact, the real departure is the strong proof and interpretation. "If you are not afraid of slowness, you are afraid of standing." As long as you can take a step, the road will extend under your feet; As long as you can get on the road, you will find attractive scenery; As long as you can set out, you will definitely feel the joy of trekking.
on the road, you can create your colorful life! Set out and play the music of your life!
A famous person once said: "A person's greatest asset is hope; The biggest bankruptcy is despair; The biggest trap is to satisfy the status quo; You missed your flight because you started too late. You lost the business opportunity because you hesitated; God is equally fair to everyone when he throws the opportunity; Some people beat us to it, some people followed Liu, and some people came late, still sleepy: "Is this an opportunity? Why can't I see it? " Therefore, the first one to board, heaven rewards diligence, and gains wealth; Accompanying, pleasantly surprised, get unexpected satisfaction; Only those who are late, complaining, are at a loss, and sometimes ask, "Why can't I get a fortune?"
The following is a story told by an outstanding plastic surgeon in St. Louis, Missouri, USA.
One of his patients was a boy whose right hand was broken to his wrist. When the doctor asked about the disabled part of the boy, the boy said, "I'm not disabled, but my right hand is gone."
Later, the doctor learned that the boy scored the most points in the middle school American football team. The boy didn't give up his efforts because of his obvious defects, he just made some necessary adjustments in order to achieve the success he wanted in the future.
Although failure is painful, success is extremely sweet. At the moment of success, you will feel that failure is not terrible, and it is just a passing sight.
In ancient times, there was the Tang Priest's mysticism "Don't take the scriptures and never look back", and now there is the "red women soldiers" down came a blackbird. Twenty years, ten years of grinding a sword, the five consecutive championships (women's volleyball team) reappeared brilliantly. In the danger of falling behind the Russian team :2, China's "Red women soldiers", under the leadership of Chen Zhonghe, never gave up and staged a Jedi counterattack, which was a magical reversal. If the women's volleyball team was willing to give up, it would be impossible to turn defeat into victory. Because psychologically already lost, He Tan Shengli. As long as there is a glimmer of hope, we must strive for it.
"Failure is the mother of success", "Admitting failure is also the beginning of success" ………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… After failure, there must be success! Success hides behind failure, and when you defeat failure, you get success.
Conclusion:
We should face failure with a smile, and don't complain that life has brought you too many hardships; Don't complain that learning gives you too many twists and turns. If the sea loses the rolling of huge waves, it will lose its grandeur; If the desert loses the wild dance of flying sand, it will lose its grandeur; If life only seeks smooth sailing at two points and one line, life will lose its charm of existence.