My view on consumption has changed a lot since I had a baby. 1. Before having children, I was more willing to spend money on myself.
Before having children, I was still a professional. While moving bricks, don’t forget to treat yourself to a good meal. In order to stay in shape, I signed up for fitness classes after work and insisted on checking in whenever I had time. I was very satisfied with my figure at that time. On the weekend, I went to the cinema with my sugar daddy to watch a movie and have a meal. I usually sign up for some courses to recharge my batteries, and use skin care products well, so I don’t treat myself badly. 2. After having a baby, be careful with your budget and manage your household well.
It is no exaggeration to say that after having a baby, you will automatically give way to the baby in consumption. Before buying anything, you must first calculate the food, rations, etc. of the gold-swallowing beast. If you encounter large-scale promotions, take them Go to a small computer, calculate the discounts over and over again, and strive to make every penny well spent. Since having a baby, I thought twice about becoming a stay-at-home mother. Without the aura of the workplace, I lived a life of being on call 24 hours a day in the invisible workplace of the family. This lasted about two years. Walking the baby was considered exercise. Skin care products Just save what you can, and don’t worry about the brand, just use it. When you have time to study, you use it to catch up on sleep. The books you bought have all been forgotten to open and have become dusty. 3. After having a baby, my consumption becomes more planned.
When we didn’t have kids, my sugar daddy and I would still go to a movie, go out for a meal, and spend our time together. After having a baby, I have long forgotten what it feels like to go to the cinema to watch a movie. Thinking that the movie ticket costs dozens of yuan, I can buy a toy for the baby, so I give up and just watch it at home. I used to be conscious about saving money, but after having a baby, I realized that this is a long-term battle and I need to plan in advance. Slowly, the family's various income and expenses have become more planned, and impulse consumption has been greatly reduced.
Whether it is a stay-at-home mother or a working mother, after having children, they all shoulder more childcare responsibilities due to maternal instinct, and they deserve to be seen and recognized. Especially stay-at-home mothers deserve more recognition and understanding. They devote themselves 24 hours a day, but their value is often ignored. Being a stay-at-home mother is my own choice. Although life is full of ups and downs, I have been seriously involved in every moment of my child’s growth, watching her grow from a baby waiting to be fed to a lively little person. Son, I am also satisfied and surprised inside. I hope every mother in the world can be treated with kindness.