Children's adolescent rebellion is generally learned by their parents. Some children choose to run away from home for various reasons. Once this situation is discovered, parents will be shocked and at a loss for a while. In fact, there is nothing to worry about in most cases. As long as there are several methods in hand, the possibility of finding a child in a short time is still relatively large.

What if the child runs away from home and doesn't go home? First of all, parents should show love for their children. Throughout the process, children and parents are "fighting". In the process of fighting, love gradually faded away. For example, children run away from home, parents don't love them, and they don't love them when they go home. They are defending their masks.

Second, when parents discipline their children, they should express their demands on them and urge them to do something. For example, "I know you are going to run, I am so worried and my heart hurts. I don't think you will be calm." "As a parent, I certainly hope you study hard and get good grades." You can also calmly say to your child, "I must urge you to study hard, because it is my duty." But I also respect your choice. "

Third, there are several levels of understanding. The first is to know what your child is thinking. What everyone needs to know is that there is no right or wrong way to treat a person. As parents, it is especially important to accept their children's ideas, no matter how absurd or absurd they are. Many parents won't let their children think like this, but what others think is beyond their control. When this can be done, it is very important to understand the child's thoughts. "No matter what he thinks, there must be a reason." If you know what your children are thinking, there are ways to guide them.

Fourth, many parents want to educate their children directly, so they speak directly, but the child will think that you are hurting him and he will take precautions, so there will be a lot of reasoning, but the effect is very poor. On the surface, the understanding of children and their emotions seems vain, but the actual effect of educating children is so vain.

Fifth, don't try to control your children. Many parents want their children to do what they should do according to their own wishes. First of all, this is not conducive to the development of children's independent personality, and it is easy to cause children's resentment and rebellious psychology. The more you want your child to do something, the more he does nothing, and then parents will lose their temper with their children every day, and then there will be more and more contradictions with their children. Let parents get more and more headaches.