1. Don’t let others see your naivety. If you don’t understand, run away; don’t comment on other people’s appearance, because they don’t rely on you for food; don’t comment on other people’s virtues, because you are not as good as others. He is noble; don't evaluate other people's families, because it has nothing to do with you; don't evaluate other people's knowledge, because the most indispensable thing in the world is knowledge.

2. Speak slowly about urgent matters; speak clearly about big matters; speak humorously about small matters; speak cautiously about things that you are not sure about; don’t talk nonsense about things that have not happened; don’t talk nonsense about things that cannot be done. , don’t talk nonsense.

3. It is absolutely impossible to pull out teeth from a tiger’s mouth when Tai Sui disturbs his head. But if Tai Sui and the tiger want your life, will you still do it? To pull it out or not?

4. People want face, and trees want bark. People exist in society and have to play various roles, especially in interactions with each other. They need a certain degree of dignity to support them. This is a weakness of human nature. Only when you understand this can you realize the necessity of respecting the word.

5. You must be tolerant towards villains. Take a step back and the world is vast. If you really can’t give them your own space. Adults need to be tolerant and not take worldly things to heart. If you offend a villain, you will get into trouble. Most villains in the world cannot afford to offend you.

6. Life is about waiting and waiting, that’s right. Pies will not fall from the sky, and people will starve to death, but it will not work if they do not rely on them at all. Relatives, friends, classmates, and fellow villagers are a kind of human resources. No one will be exposed to disasters. If you can rely on them, rely on them, and if you cannot rely on them, you can rely on them. It also depends on creating conditions.

7. It’s hard to be a good person and hard to do things. In the face of thousands of difficulties and obstacles, we must improve ourselves. If something is forced, you should dare to say no; if it is a legitimate interest, you should be merciful; sometimes you even have to be a bit aggressive, and you have to be thick-skinned sometimes, and you have to be tough-headed sometimes.

8. Treat people who love you with respect. They love you for a reason. Don’t ask why. When you accept it, you should repay it with double love, but never deceive others’ feelings, even if you Having no interest in other people, even if they are ugly, is wealth that you cannot buy with money.

9. Be calmer when encountering conflicts, be stronger when encountering difficulties, understand the situation more comprehensively, deal with problems more prudently, be patient when being ridiculed, be restrained when being humiliated, be busy and meticulous at work, and treat people with enthusiasm .

10. A true hero, why should he be short of breath? Only by starting well and finishing well can he be invincible. Forbearance can protect one's life, and it can accomplish things. Forbearance is great wisdom, great courage, and even greater blessing. Tolerance is thick, tolerant is dark, to endure villains, to endure powerful people, to endure things that are unbearable in the world, to not be a person of your temperament, to achieve things that are difficult for ordinary people.

11. The appearance is not annoying. If the appearance is not good, make yourself talented; if you have no talent, then always smile.

12. When you are performing or giving a speech, if there is only one person listening, you must continue speaking attentively. Even if no one cheers, you must still perform, because this is the path to your success, and it is you. The cradle of success, you don't want people to succeed, but you want to succeed.

Thirteen. Full of energy, corners of the mouth turned up. Hide pain, sorrow and disappointment behind a smile. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.

14. Interpersonal interactions should focus on the future and not dwell on the past. Forgiving others is the best way to treat yourself. When you are angry at your enemies, you only burn yourself. When doing things, don't be too narrow-minded. The sea is open to all rivers, relying on a tolerant heart.

15. In a sea of ??people, if we don’t want to be isolated, we must learn how to get along with others. The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. You are not required to like everyone, but at the same time, there is no best person in the world. Harmony is the most valuable thing, so we need to leave steps for each other and give each other face.

16. When problems occur, don’t complain objectively, but look for subjective reasons. People who complain that others don’t understand themselves first don’t understand others. People who complain that organizational leaders do not believe in themselves first of all do not believe in organizational leaders.

17. Be a person with personality and give yourself some confidence. The road to success is your own, and a bright future comes from self-reliance, not yielding to any authority, and using your own efforts to find your own self-esteem.

18. Do things openly and aboveboard, don’t just please others, don’t be emotional, say it to your face if you have something to say, don’t whisper behind your back. Quotes about dealing with people

1. The first time you dare to laugh at yourself, you have matured.

2. The ups and downs of life are like an invisible carving knife, giving everyone a statue.

3. Don’t refuse people casually, and don’t agree to people casually. Don't make wishes, don't titillate others, don't show off your strength in unnecessary things.

4. Don’t force guests to look at your family photo album.

5. Friendship can never become a transaction; on the contrary, it requires the most complete concept of disinterest.

6. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise does not.

7. Nothing can improve your bowling performance more than onlookers. So, don’t begrudge your cheers.

8. Politeness is the golden key to human perfection. Friends are the sky, and friends are the earth. Having more friends will stand upright, friends are the wind, friends are the rain, and having many friends can make the wind and rain come.

9. Don’t be confused about big things, don’t let out small things. Pick them up when you need to pick them up, and put them down when you need to put them down. As a person, you must understand that being able to take up is a kind of courage, and being able to let go is a kind of wisdom!

10. You don’t have to use me as the subject in everything.

11. Do your best for others, and finally do your best for yourself.

12. Good words can arouse good intentions in others; bad words can arouse evil thoughts in others. Say one more kind word and be more kind. To be a human being, you should have good intentions, say good words, do good deeds, and make good friends.

13. Be kind to things but not people; or be ruthless to things but affectionate to people; or be a person first and work second.

14. Every milestone on the road of life is engraved with two words: starting point.

15. No rich man is so great that he doesn’t need friends.

16. People must respect themselves, and then others will respect them.

17. People should be like people, always looking upward but with both feet on the ground.

18. If a person abandons his loyal friends, it is equivalent to abandoning his most precious life.

19. Never reveal your heart without knowing the other person’s details.

20. To take the road well tomorrow, you must remember the road you walked yesterday and think about the road you are walking today.

21. As a person, you need to strive for excellence in the field of study; you need to communicate freely in the industrial and commercial society; you need to talk and laugh in the interpersonal space; you need peace of mind when you are lonely!

22. Don’t be afraid to reject others if your reasons are legitimate.

23. Covering your own eyes does not mean that the world is dark; covering other people's eyes does not mean that the light belongs to you.

24. A person should be like a mirror, always reflecting on oneself; a person should be like a box, able to lift and put it away at any time; a person should be like one, constantly recording merits and demerits; a person should be like a candle, always illuminating others; a person should be like a candle, always illuminating others; Like a clock, cherish life every second.

25. Although broken friendships can be restored, they can never reach the level of intimacy.

26. There are four kinds of people in the world: scum, human hands, talents, and characters. We must despise scum, be unwilling to accept others, envy talents, and strive to be a figure!

27. Treat others with affection, treat others with courtesy, establish yourself with virtue, and treat others with justice. Be sincere, be strict with yourself, be persistent in dealing with things, and help others with love. As a human being, you must understand: it is easy for the heart to be subdued by virtue, but it is difficult to be subdued by strength!

28. Friendship is like a bottle of wine. The longer it is sealed, the higher its value becomes; but once it is opened, it is enough for an alcoholic to drink too much.

29. Friends are wealth , health is the capital.

30. Tolerating and helping others are good ways to get along with others; knowing kindness and repaying kindness are the virtues pursued by personality; generosity and integrity are the foundation of life and doing things.

31. You must have restraint on yourself, be friendly to others, be tolerant of life, be diligent in seeking knowledge, be patient with difficulties, and be motivated to succeed!

32. Discussing matters as they arise is the principle of employing people; being reasonable and reasonable is the principle of conducting oneself in society; honor, disgrace and dignity are the principle of making friends; being fearless of life and death is the principle of being a human being.

33. Things must be used to be valuable; people must be used to be useful. You must do your best when doing things, and you must do your duty as a human being!

34. Applaud everyone who takes the stage to sing.

35. Seeing others proud is actually a sign of low self-esteem.

36. A person should be self-reliant and not be shaken by the words and deeds of others; a person should be independent and self-respecting, and not be discouraged by difficulties. Be confident when facing setbacks, and be proud when facing failure!

37. Opening your eyes does not mean facing reality.

38. It is better to be slow in doing things than to be too hasty and make mistakes; it is better to be stupid in life than to be too clever and ruin things. You can fail in doing things, but you can't fail in life; you can fail in the past, but you can't fail in the future!

39. The natural enemy of interpersonal relationships is guessing, but cracking the code is sincerity!

40. Don’t care about success or failure; don’t stop at good times and bad times. Treat yourself well and you will be very happy; treat others well and you will be very happy; treat life well and you will be healthy.

41. To do things, do good things, do things well, and do useful things; to be a person, you must be a good person, be a good person, and be an excellent person. When doing things, we should be diligent in our work and strive for excellence in results; in life, we should be noble in our beliefs and self-disciplined in our actions.

42. If you want to receive help in times of trouble, you should be lenient to others on weekdays.

43. Don’t borrow money from friends. I feel that many times I lose good friends because of money.

44. Where there is no harmony between each other, there will be no prosperity in life.

45. Be respectful to your parents, be kind to your children, be generous to your relatives and friends, and be polite to the public. We should treat family ties with a considerate heart; we should treat friendships with a bonded heart!

46. If you don’t seek fame in vain, the sarcasm will disappear; if you do more practical things, honor will come unexpectedly. A person must be free, independent, and self-reliant, and a person should not be egotistical, arrogant, or conceited!

47. Be a person first and do things later. Only when you are a person well can you succeed in doing things.

48. To be a good person, you need to understand reason, know interests, and be content. To know the principles is to understand the principles of life and grasp the duty of being a person; to know the interests is to grasp the sense of proportion in dealing with things and be able to relax and have a degree; to be content is to not be a prisoner of material desires and to be satisfied with nothing!

49. If you love yourself sincerely, you can love others sincerely.

50. All good things start from myself; all good words come from my mouth; all good deeds develop from my heart; all friends start from me and are sincerely respectful.

51. The bones should be strong, the Qi should be soft, the ambition should be big, the courage should be small, the heart should be weak, the words should be true, the wisdom should be increased, and the blessings should be cherished. As a human being, you must communicate with etiquette and justice, and discipline yourself with integrity!

52. Ten taboos in life: avoid vanity, avoid laziness, avoid arrogance, avoid violence, avoid greed, avoid selfishness, avoid being unfaithful, avoid evil persistence, avoid being disloyal, and avoid lying.

53. Be gentle and principled in dealing with others, be clear and decisive in dealing with matters, and be upright, concise and understandable in dealing with matters. If you have no prejudice in your heart, you will be fair in dealing with things; if you have no ego in your heart, you will be aboveboard.

54. Judging others is actually a lack of self-affirmation.

55. Be dedicated in doing things and be generous in life. You can work part-time, but you can only work full-time. Live a clean life, do things with heart, don’t seek perfect people, just seek perfect things!

56. Respect people who don’t like you.

57. Use indifference to clarify your ambitions, act with responsibility, eliminate confusion with wisdom, make friends with non-seeking, study diligently, be careful with your words, live frugally, live with great ambitions, and be a person with enthusiasm!

58. If people are rude, there will be no life, if things are rude, they will fail, and if the country is rude, there will be no peace. As a person, you must understand etiquette, know how to respect others, know how to despise others when you are humble, and respect others when you respect others!

59. A gentleman and a gentleman are friends who share the same path; a villain and a villain are friends who share the same interests.

60. As long as you are willing to praise others, you will be the biggest winner. 26 Tips for Dealing with People

Don’t be disgusted by your appearance. If you don’t look good, make yourself talented; if you don’t have any talent, then always smile.

2. Temperament is the key. If you are not good at fashion, you would rather be simple.

3. When shaking hands with others, hold it for a while longer. Sincerity is a treasure.

4. It is not necessary to use "I" as the subject in everything.

5. Don’t borrow money from friends.

6. Don’t “force” guests to look at your family photo album.

7. When talking to someone, please sit next to the driver first.

8. Persist in saying good things about others behind their backs, and don’t worry that the good things won’t reach the ears of the person involved.

9. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.

10. When driving a car, don’t stop to say hello to a colleague on a bicycle. People will think you are showing off.

11. Visit your colleague when he is sick. She naturally sat on his hospital bed and washed her hands carefully after returning home.

12. Don’t let others know everything about the past.

13. Respect people who don’t like you.

14. Be kind to things but not people; or be ruthless to things but be affectionate to people; or be a person first and work second.

15. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise does not.

16. Nothing can improve your success more than onlookers.

17. Don’t take other people’s goodness for granted. Be grateful.

18. The "starling" on the banyan tree was talking, but he only talked but did not listen, and the result was chaos. Learn to listen.

19. Respect the master in the reception room and the aunt who does the hygiene.

20. Remember to always start with "we" when speaking.

21. Applaud everyone who takes the stage to sing.

22. Sometimes you have to ask questions knowingly: Is your diamond ring expensive? Sometimes, you can’t ask even if you want to, such as: How old are you?

23. If you talk too much, you will be lost. Pray in a crowded place

24. Change the unspoken "no" to: "This takes time" and "I will try my best." , "I'm not sure", "I'll call you when I decide"...

25. Don't expect everyone to like you, that's impossible, just make most people like you Successful performance.

26. Of course, you have to like yourself.

A word about dealing with others

A word about dealing with others

(1) Listening to your songs quietly made me realize many principles of life and the importance of dealing with others. , be low-key, be humble, be sincere, and cherish your friends or relatives who are always by your side!

(2) After reading Water Margin Wisdom and listening to Professor Zhao Yuping’s lecture on etiquette in dealing with people, I learned a lot and became more polite to others; at the same time, I also hope that others will treat me in the same way. Be sincere to me, but when things didn't develop in the direction I expected, I felt a little disappointed. Finally, I told myself: Just be yourself and don't become something you hate.

(3) Just like there are no two identical leaves in the world, everyone has his or her own unique excellence. Being good at tolerating the shortcomings of others and being good at appreciating the excellence of others is not only reflected in a broad mind, but also reflected in a kind of wisdom in dealing with others. And the earlier you can discover your best place, the more you can fully realize your potential, and the more you can embrace success.

(4) It is up to you to deal with others, and it is up to others to comment behind your back. Paying too much attention to the voices in your ears, making decisions indecisively, and being timid in taking actions will eventually make your mind tired and your spirit sleepy. No matter how well you do, there will be people pointing fingers; even if you are a mess, you can still hear praises. The only thing that can save you is yourself. You don’t have to worry about the judgment of the outside world, you don’t have to fall into the eyes of others, and you don’t have to distort yourself to please the world.

(5) After studying in the North for ten years, the only gratifying thing is that I have met some very good friends and learned a little bit about how to deal with people. Many times, good results will come if you don’t have to compromise. Soldiers, when dealing with people and things that must be dealt with in a cruel way, cannot be vague at all.

(6) I recently watched a costume drama and a modern drama, and it suddenly dawned on me. The principles of how to deal with people became clear. Living in the sun should cherish life and create light in the darkness.

(7) You must have your own principles and tolerance. Once you are too generous, it becomes weakness. Don’t be particularly nice to everyone. Once, when you are too generous, it becomes a matter of course. Don’t let your kindness become a weakness in dealing with others. You have to know that people who are willing to embarrass you are never worthy of your kindness. The prerequisite for living a good life is not to wrong yourself

(8) The label is that you cannot have such a childish temper and make decisions carefully. Be mature and generous when dealing with others rationally, and be calm and composed in the face of changes

(9) Treat others with sincerity, courtesy, tolerance and generosity, learn to think from other people's perspective, and know how to deal with others

(10) Sometimes I want to laugh at some people who talk to me about filial piety when I am so messed up in dealing with others.

(11) When dealing with others, you must be strict with yourself and treat others with leniency. Doing good deeds must not turn into moral kidnapping.

(12) When you are alive, make friends with many people, and be careful when dealing with others. When meeting people, you have to speak at least 70 percent of your words, but don't reveal all of your truth. It is difficult to paint the skin of a tiger, but it is difficult to paint the bones of a tiger.

(13) In your circle of friends, there are some people for whom you can clearly understand their values, their way of doing things, and their position, so you can discover something from them. The cause and effect of this destiny, these causes and effects add up to form the truth of this world.

(14) If you can see for yourself, you never need to listen to a word from others. Trust is the way to deal with people.

(15) A pure person will be pure himself, he will not accept rude and unreasonable troubles, and will not let any irrelevant things affect his mood. The world is colorful, gradually growing, gradually maturing, and slowly learning. Be calm, treat others better, wish yourself and the people around you to become better and better, wish the world peace, and wish you good dreams every night

(16) Today, three years later, I ask myself these three questions I have always adhered to this way of dealing with people. I only focus on the present, I focus on the love of the moment, I stick to everything that needs to be done at the moment, and I try my best to give everything the best result, even if it is due to various problems. If you have any mistakes, try your best to make up for them. Sometimes I don’t even dare to think about the future, because I know it means little and I am still too weak now to support everything I fantasize about happening.

(17) When dealing with others, no matter you are stupid or sweet-talking, kindness is the key to your life. No matter you are talkative or capable, being aboveboard is the key; don’t pretend, don’t be perfunctory, don’t deceive, you are just a person. People are real. Understanding tolerance, respect, and consideration is a person's kindness. More important than anything else!

(18) I am lazy, stupid and don’t know how to deal with others, but I have never given up on loving you

(19) As I grow older, Suddenly, I found that my current desires were getting less and less. No more trying to please against your will, no more deliberate flattery, no need to ask for favors, no need to compromise, no need to flatter. As time goes by, my heart gradually becomes richer. It’s time to be myself again. I like to deal with people in my own way, no longer blindly consider others, confine my sincerity, and accept compromises.

(20) The so-called common people do not listen to popular songs and read simple articles, nor do they love money as much as life, but live cautiously in the eyes of others, and even self-righteously make rules for how to behave. standards.

(Twenty-one) Reading this book tonight, I remembered that you also said these words to me when we first met! It's you who taught me how to behave!

(Twenty-two) I particularly appreciate Dong Qing’s words, what kind of person do you want your future children to be, then you should strive to be that kind of person. Although my parents are loving, I know more about the impact of being in the wrong family on a child. Suitability is really important. You don’t have to look at anyone’s face. A child’s confidence and self-confidence often come from their parents’ self-confidence, and a child’s quality often comes from his parents. of dealing with people. The best way to train children is often not education, but influence

(23) If you study well, your work and life will be rich; on the contrary, if you don't like to study, your work and life will be difficult. Over time, everyone grows up in different living environments. From generation to generation, from generation to generation, the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. Not only financially, but most importantly spiritually, the basic quality of doing things.

(Twenty-four) I thought that the way I dealt with people would make everyone like me, at least it shouldn’t be the current situation. It turns out that every time, I am the only one who is moved by what I do.

(Twenty-five) I saw two good-looking and fashionable girls at the high-speed rail station. Unfortunately, their behavior is really annoying

(Twenty-six) The so-called poverty breeds wealth. Education is not as good as education. What determines how far a person can go is not how high a person's IQ is, but whether he has the education to deal with others.

(Twenty-seven) Let you become young immediately~~I want to pretend to be young. And you must know how to change; change your mentality of dealing with others; know how to let go.

(Twenty-eight) Yesterday, I heard someone talking about a friend behind his back. I don't know much about her, at least in my interactions with her, she is more considerate and decent than most people. I don't know why she is so inexplicably guessed. There is so much stupidity and unprovoked malice in humans. I originally knew this and just took it as a joke, but now I have to admit it seriously. The smug look on his face is truly hideous and terrifying. It is probably the forgotten antecedent of the so-called evil consequences.

(Twenty-nine) People are different, and they behave differently. You can have high emotional intelligence, but maybe everyone has a different meaning to the word friend, so I have to be more careful in the future.

(30) Two photos taken at the same place and at the same time, but with different angles and different focus points, produce different feelings. Just like dealing with people, if the starting point is different and the focus is different, the results will be very different!

(31) I am really not a troublesome person, and at least I feel that I am honest with others when dealing with others. I won’t argue with you about anything.

But there’s one thing I’m not happy about, so everyone shouldn’t be happy