master: yes, you can see deer in the deep forest, whales in the blue sea, and people you miss when you dream deeply.
Yi Chan: Wow! That sounds great.
master: it's a pity that most people are shallow and affectionate. When the forest is deep, the fog rises, and when the sea is blue, it surges. When they wake up, they can only face the dark night sky alone, and they can't see the deer, the whale or the person they miss. Yi Chan: Master, why do many feelings end in vain?
master: one person walks into another person's life, walking side by side, then drifting away, and finally leaving without saying goodbye. Everyone is used to being quiet, and everyone thinks that they are invulnerable.
Yi Chan: What happened later?
Master: Later, I suddenly looked back and suddenly realized for countless times. In the end, people learned to hide their worries in the middle of the night when they were busy and silent, and only dared to dream back in the middle of the night and toss and turn in their memories when it was absolutely safe.
Yi Chan: Master, why do you secretly like someone and don't tell her in the end?
Master: Maybe I'm afraid of losing.
Yi Chan: Afraid of not being a lover and losing a friend?
Master: No, I'm afraid of losing the best look of that person in his heart. If you like someone for too long, it will become an obsession. In the end, you can't tell whether you like her or you put a halo on her with infatuation. There is little truth in the world, and since ancient times, people have been passionate and crazy.
first, people should be calm, and they will lose if they talk too much. It's better to talk than to look at yourself, and it's better to listen and forget when you complain about others. What can interfere with you is often your own concern, and what can hurt you is often your own obsession. No one hates you if you are peaceful, and no one can disturb you if you don't investigate.
second, Buddha said that fate is not born, but is determined by ourselves. When fate is bad, we need to change it. If you want to change your destiny, the most important thing is not to change anything else, but your mentality. What kind of mentality, there will be what kind of fate.
third, not humble, not arrogant, and calm; Don't argue, don't make noise, and have a calm heart; Don't climb, don't compare, and be indifferent; Not angry, not angry, easy-going; Don't love, don't complain, and be calm. Life has a length; Life, there are joys and sorrows; Life has its ups and downs.
fourth, you can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; You can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude; You cannot change the past, but you can change the present; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; You can't do everything smoothly, but you can do everything with all your heart; You can't extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life.
5. In life, there are always some old things in the empty city, and the years are not over; There are always some seasons, when the flowers are cool and the ground is sad. Many things, if you look at it, will turn around; Many dreams, if they are pessimistic, will open the sun. Learn to think, learn to treasure, smile and understand, and be silent and strong.
6. Learn to let go and be calm. When you are alive, you will inevitably encounter a lot of disappointments. When things go wrong in your life, don't be dissatisfied and resentful, and you don't have to be bitter and depressed. You have to face both blessings and disasters, and good and bad will pass. The biggest regret in the world is that we are close at hand, but we don't understand each other's silence; The biggest mistake is knowing that there is no road ahead, but you are too stubborn to turn.
seven, life, how much care, how much pain; Learn to be generous and forgive others' shortcomings and mistakes. You have to forgive others, forgive others, and let people pass. Generous people are open-minded, don't haggle over every ounce, don't hold grudges, and they are naturally happy.
eight, don't bring trouble to yourself, and don't bring trouble to others. If you are good to yourself, you must be careful; If you are kind to others, you should care. Look at others and get annoyed; Look at yourself, wise student. Be considerate of others, and you will be a man; If you know yourself, you will do things. People can't stand the test, so don't test people easily. It's hard to get into people's hearts, and it's even harder to get into one's own. The heart is uncertain, so everything is uncertain; If it is confirmed, it will be decided now. Peace of mind leads to wisdom, confusion leads to stupidity.
9. It's good to know peace only after going through rough times. After tasting the sweet and sour, it is good to know that it is plain. After all the ups and downs, it is good to know that you are satisfied. Think hard before you know that confusion is the best. The best way to live in life: do it and cherish it, don't be sad or resentful, live in the present and cherish your side!
X. Buddha said that when you are happy, if happiness is based on the suffering of others, it is not happiness, but karma; When you are happy, if happiness leads to pain, it is not happiness, but the pain is not yet mature; When you are rich, if wealth comes from improper industries, it is not called wealth, but accumulated debts; When you feel smart, if smart is used for selfishness, it is not smart, but ignorance. True happiness and happiness, because they are not based on evil, do not suffer.