1. In fact, there are advantages hidden behind each of our shortcomings, and each dark side corresponds to a gift of life: being pushy is just a sign of overconfidence; being sloppy shows that you have inner freedom; timidity is a sign of inner freedom. Let you avoid unexpected disasters; shrews are the best way to solve problems on some occasions... The dark side is also a part of life, and only by truly embracing it can we live a complete life.

2. Your so-called ‘shortcomings’, those traits that you don’t like, are actually your most valuable assets, but the degree of expression is a bit too strong. This is like playing music. If the volume is turned up too high, it will make people feel uncomfortable. If you can just turn the 'volume' on this trait back, you - and everyone around you - will realize that your 'flaws' are actually your strengths. They can be used to your advantage, not as a hindrance. The only thing you need to do is to express these qualities to the appropriate extent at the appropriate time and in the appropriate way, without overdoing it. ”

3. All the qualities we can see in others exist in ourselves. If we don’t have a certain quality ourselves, it will be impossible to recognize this quality in others. If If you are inspired by the bravery of others, it means that you also have the same courage in your heart. If you think that others are too selfish, it means that there are also seeds of selfishness in your heart, which may take root and sprout at any time. It can correspond to something deep in our hearts. Everyone has the same potential.

4. Everyone has his or her own dark side, and we must constantly face our own shadow. Only by accepting your imperfect self can you find new strength and live a complete life.

5. As long as you are human, you will not be perfect.

6. No matter how sincere you are. , When you meet people who doubt you, you are a lie. No matter how innocent you are, when you meet complicated people, you are a joke. , when you meet people who don’t understand, you are blank. So, don’t care too much about others’ evaluation of you. All you need is to be the best version of yourself and be satisfied with yourself.

7. Everyone. We are all imperfect, and everyone has a dark side that we don’t want to touch, and our relatives and friends don’t want to accept it, and even we ourselves can’t face it. So, we try our best to pretend to be a good person that everyone likes, no matter the cost. Life is tiring.