1． To learn psychoanalysis, don’t use your brain but your body.

2. Psychoanalysis is a theory of personality, a tool of exploration, and a method of treatment. ?

3. Psychotherapy is not about treating a single person, but about treating a family chain. ?

4. Every child is a natural psychotherapist for his parents. ?

5． Reverse psychology is a parent's problem, not the child's. ?

6． Hypnosis is to give suggestions to the therapist, and psychoanalysis is to explore the subconscious mind. ?

7． The emergence of psychoanalytic theory has reduced the incidence of collective consciousness attacks in Western countries. ?

8． Psychoanalysis is the study of relationships, and the object of study is love, hatred, and resentment. If it is not a science, then it must be higher than science. ?

9． Psychoanalysis can be changed to parenting. ?

10． Psychoanalysis reveals the murderous relationship between parents and children. ?

11. A person's real interpersonal relationships are the result of the outward projection of his inner world, which was formed in his early years in his relationship with his parents. ?

12. People form their personality before the age of six, and experiences after the age of six are compulsive repetitions of those before the age of six. ?

13. Transference is when a person transfers his early relationship with his parents to his relationship with the counselor. ?

14． Freud turned neurosis into transference neurosis for treatment, but narcissistic personality disorder cannot be transferred, so it cannot be treated by psychoanalysis. ?

15． The price of freedom is loneliness. ?

16． Never analyze others, only express your own feelings. ?

17． The more instinctive it is, the more reliable it is. ?

18． Women make themselves beautiful to attract men, women make themselves thicker with subcutaneous fat in preparation for having children, and women make themselves fat to reject sex. ?

19． Our attitudes, opinions, emotions, and behaviors toward a person are partly taught by that person. ?

20. The essence of poverty is abuse. ?

21. A person who was disliked in his early years will be disliked by others later on because of his seduction. ?

22． If parents treat their children badly, the children will become increasingly inseparable from their parents. ?

23. Transference is a repetition of the past, a mistake in time. ?

24． College entrance examination anxiety is not the fear of not doing well but the fear of doing well. It is the fear of success. ?

25． Gastric ulcer is a conflict between loneliness and dependence in the heart, and it is "too much to take". ?

26. Motion sickness is caused by too much control. ?

27． Asthma is a severe conflict between inner loneliness and dependence. ?

28. Rhinitis is too controlled at home. ?

29. Breast cancer is caused by a bad relationship with her mother and is revenge on her. ?

30． Psychology plays a big role in the occurrence and development of all diseases. ?

31. Avoiding many of your own thoughts may be the cause of illness. ?

32. Spiritual expression develops from body-action-image-language. ?

33. There is no right or wrong explanation, as long as it integrates the patient's experience, it is right. ?

34． Psychotherapy is an artificial, unnatural relationship. ?

35. To state a patient's diagnosis is to label the patient implicitly. ?

36. All psychological problems are relationship problems. ?

37． The sexual need is to pursue pleasure and reproduction, and the need for aggression is to prove to be better than others. These are the two basic points of the drive theory.

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38. People live to seek relationships, which is a basic issue in the study of object relations theory. ?

39. A person would rather pretend to be a persecutor of himself mentally than have nothing to do with him. ?

40． All psychological barriers are barriers to relationships. ?

41. Everyone tends to live in the past, and psychoanalysis wants people to live in the present. ?

42． Sexual intercourse is to prove one's own existence with the existence of a woman. ?

43． The trauma left behind by seeing your parents having sex is jealousy and loneliness. ?

44． The three elements of rationality of sexual behavior are adult, private and voluntary. ?

45. Failure of self-defense mechanisms brings psychological symptoms. ?

46． Life is a struggle between the superego and the id. ?

47． A healthy person is one who can satisfy his desires on a practical level. ?

48． Keeping yourself unbalanced can easily make you sick. ?

49. Psychotherapy is to help patients find a suitable reason to lie to themselves. ?

50. If a woman barks badly in bed, she will bark randomly in life. ?

51． Female sexual frigidity is sexual repression. ?

52． Desires that cannot be vented are called holding back, and desires that should be had but are not are called suppression. ?

53． Men who are overweight deny themselves the ability to attract women. ?

54． Boys are always ranked last in academic performance due to aggressive repression. ?

55． The obese boy has a small genitals because he refuses to grow. ?

56． Men's achievements are the extension of men's sexual function. ?

57． Goethe's famous quote: Eternal women guide us forward. ?

58． Women like older and successful men. ?

59． A man's lifelong task is to symbolize aggression. ?

60． Excessive Internet use is the result of suppressed aggression on a real level. ?

61. Countertransference is the best tool for exploring the patient's inner world. ?

62． As everyone grows up, they develop a set of measures to protect themselves, which constitute a self-defense mechanism. ?

63． The purpose of treatment by a psychological counselor is to help patients mature and solidify their measures to protect themselves. ?

64． Look at a person and see how he protects himself. ?

65． All words and actions that affect the therapeutic relationship are called resistance. ?

66． A good psychoanalyst must have the ability to remain silent and never say the first thing. ?

67． Protect the patient's face at all costs and allow him to change gracefully. ?

68． Slowly, language can penetrate. ?

69． Providing slow-paced enjoyment in a fast-paced society seems like a luxury. ?

70. The biggest waste of time in psychological counseling is speed. ?

71. Never answer a question directly. ?

72. Everyone is potentially bisexual. ?

73. Emotional isolation is achieved because you are unwilling to face past hurts. ?

74． People must live in the world they project within a certain limit. Too much will cause conflict, and too little will make it impossible to survive. ?

75. Security never comes from the outside, but from within. ?

76． Being passionate is inappropriate projection. ?

77． Abstinence is the denial of pleasure, the denial of pleasure in order to enjoy a sense of moral superiority. ?

78． Emphasizing children's learning is because they are afraid of being abandoned.

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79． "Adults do not remember the faults of small people" means replacing emotions with reason and is an intellectualized defense. ?

80． "Selling dog meat to someone else's head" is a defense mechanism in reverse. ?

81． Taking good care of children is an expression of hatred by adults. ? 82. The essence of mysophobia is to like dirty things. ?

83. Painting is the sublimation of the desire to smear shit. ?

84. All excessive emotions are formed in the opposite direction. A husband who has an affair will suddenly treat his wife well. ?

85． Transferring defense means transferring aggression to the security aspect. ?

86. To suppress defenses is to reduce the range of activities in order to avoid anxiety. ?

87． Rationalizing defense is finding a reason for a mistake. ?

88. Passive-aggressive defense typically involves making yourself sick to punish others. ?

89. Denial is a common defense mechanism that people use. ?

90. When a child lies, the parents must create a reason for the child to live without lying. ?

91. To deny reality even though it clearly exists is essential denial. ?

92． Using behavior to symbolically say, "That filth is reality but not real" is denial in behavior. ?

93. Holding on to incorrect beliefs and not seeing the reality you don’t want to see is denial in fantasy. ?

94. Using special words to convince oneself that reality is false is denial in language. ?

95. Excessive exaggeration masks the inner plainness. ?

96． Identity is the biggest issue of the 21st century. ?

97. Women are better evolved animals than men because women have to complete identification twice in their lives. ?

98. Men and women quarrel because of gender identity disorder. ?

99. Personality is always greater than personality. ?

100. The state of love is typically one in which boundaries are unclear. ?

101. When you miss someone and you feel depressed, it’s love. If you don’t feel depressed, it’s just love. ?

102. As long as you are the leader, the relationship is not good. To like someone in a way that you don't like is reverse identification. ?

103. Depression is the reversal of aggression. ?

104. The highest realm of sex is sadism and masochism. ?

105. Those who were abused as children are prone to die young. They usually torture themselves to death by working hard. ?

106. Split is seeing only good or bad at the same time. Borderline personality. ?

107. Dissociation is dividing one's consciousness into controllable parts. Hysteria. ?

108. Regression is a return to an earlier stage of psychological development. ?

109. There is no psychotherapy without regression. ?

110. The way to reduce regression is through eye contact. ?

111. Smoking is a sign of regression to the oral phase. ?

112. Taking action means using actions to express your inner uneasiness. All antisocial behavior is the expression of inner conflict into action. ?

113. Projective identification: A pattern of interpersonal behavior in which one person induces others to behave or react in a defined way. ?

114. “I can’t live without you” relies on projective identification. The emotion induced is sympathy. ?

115. "You can't live without me" is power projection identification. The emotions induced are feelings of incompetence and powerlessness. ?

116. Parental power projection: "If I don't talk about you, you won't know how to study."?

117. Children's deficiencies in certain abilities are the result of being stifled by their parents. ?

118． "Only I can satisfy you" is a libidinal projective identification.

What is induced is excitement. ?

119. Projective identification occurs when you feel compelled to do something you don't want to do in your relationships with others. ?

120. To let others go is to let yourself go. ?

121. A person's growth process is a process of constant hints. ?

122. Sublimation is the only proven defense mechanism. The ego coordinates the relationship between the superego and the id and is in harmony with reality. ?

123． All art is the sublimation of sexual desire.

124. Soldiers are the sublimation of aggressive desire. ?

125． The counselor is the sublimation of voyeurism. ?

126. Selfishness is a disease, and excessive altruism is also a psychological disorder. ?

127. Humor is the highest defense mechanism. ?

128. Develop a spirit of play. ?

129. Humor is the lubricant of conflict.

130. The strength of the defense mechanism is approximately equal to the strength of the personality.

131. Severe personality disorders and schizophrenia are generally problems in the oral phase. ?

132. Personality disorders such as mechanicalness, stubbornness, and rigidity are generally problems in the anal stage. ?

133. All neurotic problems are Oripian problems. ?

134. A prosperous dragon has regrets - it shows the guilt of successful people. ?

135. The Oreipus complex is the whole psychological activity that we have now forgotten about the first woman in our lives, and that affects us throughout our lives in ways that we are not aware of. ?

136. The extended meaning of the Oripus complex is the conflict between a person's desire for success and his fear of punishment after success. It exists in varying degrees in every normal person. ?

137. Test anxiety is a classic Oreipian conflict. ?

138. The virgin complex is the Oripus complex. ?

139. Respect illustrates distance. ?

140. The relationship between a man and a woman is one of exchange of bodily fluids. ?

141. When the counselor forgets about himself, the counselor makes the patient less defensive. ?

142. Old people generally use illness to control others. ?

143. Anyone who complains too much has not grown up. ?

144. If you encounter resistance, go around it. ?

145. Psychoanalysis does not talk about heredity, because heredity is a problem that cannot be solved by psychoanalysts. Moreover, talking about heredity means that people’s genes are not good.