The most obvious point is the contradiction between her strong personality and the social demand for women to be "ladies" at that time. Scarlett's most admired person is her mother. She has always wanted to be a popular woman like her mother, always keeping everyone's norms and always emitting the fragrance of beautiful cherry blossoms. Although Scarlett can "pretend" that well, it's not her nature. In the cruel environmental changes, Scarlett bravely struggled for survival. She has done a lot of things contrary to the old world, repeatedly showing her strong and ruthless nature, and getting farther and farther away from the mother image she yearns for. In the meantime, she is also suffering from inner contradictions, but she always comforts herself like this: "After today, I will think about it tomorrow."

This can be seen from her feelings for Melanie. Melanie has the shadow of Scarlett's mother. Scarlett rejected Melanie because of Wesley. At the same time, she was jealous of Melanie's natural gentleness and kindness, and thought it was "pretending" because she couldn't pretend. But at the same time, she relies on Melanie psychologically and accepts Melanie's kindness, even though she is so reluctant. For a woman who has a personality that she can't have, for herself,

For Wei Xili, the fruit that cannot be picked is the sweetest. Despite her father's warning, Scarlett stared angrily at Wei Xili like a child. She constantly beautifies him psychologically, whether they have a common language or not, whether they are suitable or not, and whether they can resonate spiritually. Scarlett just wants him, and she will never understand what Wei Xili said. Scarlett asked doubtfully. Educated by traditional ideas since childhood, she has a strong possessive desire for Ashley, but also has the ambivalence of spying on other husbands, constantly tormenting Scarlett again and again, fidgeting and acting irrationally.

Finally, let me talk about my favorite Rhett. It's simple. "This moment should have lasted forever, but it was in vain at that time." For this woman whose heart is always floating in the wind, Rhett has a good heart and gives her a little love and warmth when she doesn't know it. Scarlett unconsciously relies on him to love him, for example, "every time he always inspires her courage to stop being unhappy with the world and do what she wants." Scarlett, who had no love for her children, was breathless because of the abortion, and she was reluctant to leave, but she never knew how to cherish it. Instead, she blamed herself for "betraying" Ashley, knowing that Ashley was inappropriate and could not be her own, and wanted to conquer it. At the same time, he had to be Rhett's wife in order to survive, and later he joined the crime of hurting Rhett.

Just like a wayward child, he knows to be good, obedient and do good deeds. But the world didn't give him what he wanted and life didn't give him a sense of security. He chased and groped in the wind and rain with an umbrella, but he didn't know that the umbrella was Melanie who silently supported her, and that home, the person who gave him safety, was always by his side. By the time he knew it, the good old days were gone forever, even love was gone.