Lin Zexu famously said, "I can't do whatever I want, but I want to be innocent!" This sentence also applies to family education. No matter what happens to our children in the future, we parents should do our best.
In today's life, more and more good people appear, such as donating money and materials. Just for some families who are not very rich, they are unwilling to support their children to donate money to do good deeds. But from another point of view, instead of buying toys and snacks for children so that they can't learn anything, it is better to support children to donate money to do good deeds and improve their quality in all aspects.
When a child is willing to donate money, it shows that he wants to help others, which is a sign of compassion and kindness. What do we want to see the children become? Isn't it full of positive energy, positive and helpful? After all, if your child wants to help people who are not related by blood, it is definitely better for him to treat related parents and relatives. Therefore, when our children show compassion and kindness, parents must be happy. After all, this means that their children will definitely take good care of their parents in the future, and they don't have to worry that their parents are unwilling to raise them when they are old.
But in addition to kindness and sympathy, there may be another situation, which is to regard donations as a show-off capital. For example, the school organizes fund-raising activities, and the teacher will also read out the donations of each student, and may even list the rankings. Some children want to donate money in order to get more praise and recognition from others. This has some utilitarian intentions, but from another perspective, it is also very good. After all, although it is utilitarian, it can still help others. As long as a person's behavior helps others, regardless of whether this person is utilitarian or not, we still have to thank this person for his dedication and contribution.
But fully supporting children to donate money to do good deeds has many disadvantages.
Some children's donations are simply donated to beggars on the roadside, but in fact, many scammers like to pretend to be beggars, so after the children's money is cheated by scammers, they don't really help those who need help.
Do not know how to cherish the efforts of parents.
If a child feels that his parents support him to donate money to do good deeds, he may become ignorant of his parents' efforts and think that the money earned by his parents is blown by the strong wind. Therefore, even if his own children become kind, he may become bad at housekeeping, and he may probably prefer to suffer for himself and donate money to others.
In order not to affect children's outlook on life and discourage them from doing good deeds, parents must strongly support their children's donations.
In order to prevent the earned hard-earned money from being squandered by swindlers, it is necessary for parents to strictly check and ensure that the donated money can help others. In addition, every donation can require the donor to provide proof and take pictures of the child, which will make the child feel a sense of accomplishment in the future.
Tell parents that it is not easy to make money by letting children write a composition and keep a diary, and let children know the benefits of donation and how difficult it is for parents. This is also crucial! After all, although most families are not poor enough to need help from others, the money they earn is obviously not enough. Therefore, if you want to support your child's donation, you must also make sure that the money you spend is meaningful, which can let your child know a lot of truth and the greatness of fatherly love and maternal love! Let the children know that their parents are willing to spend this money out of love!