If you really love this woman, you will have a strong thirst for knowledge about her. You want to know more about her. If you have never felt this impulse, it means that you don't love her so much. You may just give your love to her temporarily out of emotional need.
It seems that scum has gradually become the new fashion in love. It is very true that some people are "proud of scum". The more people feel that they have been scum, the more they show their abilities. Among these people, there are still many women who pretend to be affectionate even if they don't love.
Whether a woman really refuses or pretends to be reserved is obvious from three aspects.
Gift-giving: Direct refusal, reserved affectation at home.
Your lip service, saying how much you like her, can only prove that your writing skills are good, otherwise how can you have such a glib mouth, but how can your love be true? She is no longer a little girl and will not be tempted by a few sweet words, but the only way to prove that you love him is material.
The more money you spend for her, the more you can prove your love, so it is necessary to give gifts in the early pursuit process, without spending too much money, and things like cosmetics are a few hundred dollars smaller. If you don't want to give up this little money, then don't fall in love.
A woman who truly rejects you will never accept your gift. It's really hard. She will give you the same gift soon. She doesn't like you, so she doesn't want to owe you materially. Pretend to be reserved and be sensible, and say, "I don't want you to spend money, just have the heart." Just show it, and she'll hint at you to buy it.
Chat: the real refusal is to ignore, and pretending to be reserved is to refuse and welcome.
Chatting is an important part of pursuit, and speaking is a key factor in being together. In fact, women don't care much about men's face value, just look clean and refreshing, she values feelings more; Men, on the other hand, only look at their faces If they don't look good, then step aside.
In fact, women are willing to give opportunities to men to pursue. After some superficial contact, her heart told him that you were not her type, so she refused you directly with an attitude and did not reply to your private chat. Only after you have searched many times do you reply politely? False reserve means that you don't like you and still cling to you, deliberately giving you the illusion that you have a chance to flirt with her until you are drained of your last good feelings.
Dating: real rejection is fear, and false reserve is pretending to be pure.
You made a good impression on her in the previous online contact, so after you sent out a date invitation, she accepted it gladly. This real contact did not give her a good impression. Not only your appearance, but also your words and deeds are not her type. This meeting has a certain nature of blind date. Since I didn't read it correctly, there is no need to contact again. So after you offered to take her home, she immediately refused, then quickly stopped a taxi on the side of the road, said goodbye to you and left.
Fake reserve means I don't want to disturb you, I can go home by myself, but my feet are in the direction of your car, so I naturally sit in the passenger seat.
It is really difficult to tell the truth from the truth in feelings, but people's feelings can't be wrong. It's really hard to convince people to follow their hearts and force their hearts to do things you don't want to do.