Look at his/her choice when faced with interests.

Human nature tells us that people are profit-seeking.

Conflict of interest is a touchstone that can often reflect the true form of character, especially when it is detrimental to one's own interests.

If a person does something that violates the law or harms morality for his own benefit, regardless of conscience, do you still dare to trust the character of such a person?

It’s better to stay away as soon as possible.

On the other hand, if a person still sticks to his bottom line in the face of interests or chooses to give in when faced with conflicts, then this kind of person is often worthy of trust.

Because they are open-minded, have a strong sense of responsibility, are willing to consider others, and do not care too much about their own gains and losses.

Zeng Guofan once had a famous saying: "Profits can be used to win over others but not to be independent."

It means to warn future generations of the concept of "cooperation wins". Exclusive use will only make it difficult to move forward, and in the end you will be the one who suffers.

A person's choice in the face of interests can completely determine whether this person is worth having a close relationship with.

Look at his/her attitude towards his parents.

Some people say that it is instinct to be picky about people close to you, but overcoming this instinct is a kind of education.

This is indeed the case. Most of us "leave good tempers to others, and leave bad tempers to family members."

There once was a colleague who was enthusiastic and warm when he treated friends or colleagues, but when he faced his parents , but mean and impatient.

Later, people who knew his nature kept a certain distance from him.

Originally, he was expected to be promoted and receive a salary increase, but this was rejected by his superiors.

We are usually able to treat people we don’t know very well or strangers with courtesy and speak kindly, but we feel confident speaking to our relatives and friends.

This bad habit just reflects a problem:

To speak kindly, not to be arrogant or arrogant, to be humble and polite to people close to you is mostly due to a good family education. , A person who is responsible and responsible is more likely to be trusted by others.

Watch TA face the promise.

A gentleman's promise is worth a thousand pieces of gold. He never makes a promise easily, but once he makes a promise, he must fulfill it.

A person’s character should also be judged by his attitude towards commitment. People who like to make promises easily may just regard promises as a way to show off. There is not much sincerity worthy of trust in those words that are said easily.

And those who have made a promise to you and will keep it no matter what, have not only the integrity of a promise, but also a sincere heart. The person who does what he says is the most worthy of our trust, because he is more rational and stable than the average person, and he will also pay more attention to the friendship between you.

The road of life is long and winding, and it is a rare blessing to have a like-minded friend walking with you. I hope that along the way, the friends you interact with can promote and support each other with you. There is still a long road ahead, but you will never be alone.

People’s hearts are unpredictable because humans are advanced animals that can disguise themselves, but no matter how they disguise themselves, there will always be a day when the truth is exposed.

Once you encounter something, you can really recognize a person.

No matter whether the person is good or bad, there is no harm in recognizing him. It is better than being kept in the dark.

Once you understand it clearly, your heart will feel at ease.