As an experienced person, the advice I can give you is that if you are a quiet person, she is not suitable for you.

Chatting online in 2000, I met many female netizens and talked about many girlfriends. All kinds. From 2005 to 2008, almost no night was spent at home. The past is like an absurd story.

Don't say that times are different now, and don't say that some people are hypocritical. To borrow a famous saying, human nature has never changed.