The above passage is a famous saying of a president of Peking University.
If you don't have money, food and clothes, you shouldn't talk about dignity, self-esteem, face and friendship. Although it is unpleasant to hit the face, it is true. At the bottom, there are too many things that often feel unfair. That's because you are too weak, have a sense of dependence, subordination and expectation, and expect to get it from the strong. The strong always rely on themselves and have a strong sense of superiority, so unfairness has never had anything to do with themselves.
The poor have been fighting for face and dignity for half their lives, living for self-esteem and friendship, and have never realized how to improve themselves and expand themselves. Poverty and suffering are not terrible, nor are they the core reasons for the misery of life. The core reason of life's misery is that you have been insisting on the wrong idea and think it is right. This is the main reason why the poor have been poor, poor and stable.
The body is not bitter, the wealth is not thick, the heart is not bitter, and the wisdom cannot be opened. People only know that the phoenix can be reborn, but they ignore its struggle in fire and purgatory. All the people who have fully realized the truth have been saved without drugs. The mind is immortal, and the Tao is not born. The end of mankind is the beginning of God. In the world of adults, there is no one who does not suffer, but a person with a strong heart will not easily expose suffering, because he knows that suffering is a good medicine to promote maturity, and only suffering can make people grow.
Only when we are in pain and despair can we change our inherent thinking, break the narrow self-cognition and find the ferry of life. How sweet you want, how bitter you have to be. People who grow up in honeypots never know what it is like to be sweet. Only those who walk with a smile in the wind and rain can appreciate the sweetness of life.
In life, if you don't talk about pain, you can only go your own way. When you are bitter, you left a handle for people to laugh at. When you are bitter, you have become a weak person in life. One day, you will thank those hardships and pains, and it will become a torch to light you up and make you stronger.
All your pains will become pearls, and all your pains will be diamonds. Some are bitter, doomed to eat, unable to hide, some are robbed, doomed to spend, unable to return. Since it is suffering, treat it as a step to improve your ability. Since it is robbery, treat it as a prelude to the transformation of life.
The bitterness you have eaten, the tears you have shed, the sweat you have shed, and the books you have read will all be secretly engraved by fate, giving you unexpected surprises and giving you a better self at some time in the future. Time is ruthless, and time is like water. We can't keep anything in the world. Only through experience and dedication can we feel the little surprises in life, capture the bright spots in the years, appreciate it and appreciate it. It's our own and worth coming to this world.
The best shortcut to erase ignorance and superficiality, change cognition and break the inherent thinking is reading. To communicate with superiors, we must first know them and walk with wise men. You must become a wise man and read more books before you can do it. Strive to make every day, it is possible to become the best day in life, and strive to surpass yourself yesterday. This is the meaning of life, this is the practice of life. People have different starting points and different talents. We don't need to compare with others, we just need to compare with ourselves and make a little progress every day.