Being self-centered means living for yourself

Being self-centered means living for yourself

Living for yourself does not mean being selfish in everything. Just draw a circle on your own head; living for yourself does not mean locking yourself at the starting point of progress, thinking about nothing and having nothing to do with it all day long. Living for yourself is an eternal belief and a persistent pursuit.

Perhaps, you have dedicated a pond full of nectar, but you have not tasted the slightest sweetness; perhaps, you have decorated the world with kindness, but you have not heard any praise. So you are depressed about the desolation of the world and curse the injustice of fate.

You don’t have to be like this, live for yourself! The world belongs to everyone. The world gives us life, and we should cherish it. In fact, your kindness and love allow you to spend every day to the fullest, and this is the reward. What do money and fame mean? Caring about these will only make you tired for a lifetime. Always remember: real wealth is a healthy body, a simple life and a bright mind.

Believe it, some people understand you, some respect you, and some even love you. Blindly feeling inferior and complaining will only dye your originally beautiful life into gray, and you will fall into the trough of life. Just think about everything, get rid of your heated mind, don't care too much, and believe that the world is still beautiful.

Live for yourself, don’t worry about what others think!

A carefree heart is like April in the world ◎Don’t punish yourself with mistakes. Some people are in a bad mood due to illness and often lose their temper at home because of other people’s small mistakes, causing relationships among family members. nervous. Tension and disharmony in family relationships have become undesirable psychological stimuli for people, inducing or aggravating diseases. Therefore, friendly and harmonious family relationships are very important for a person's mental health. Middle-aged and elderly people should get along harmoniously with their family members, have a harmonious psychological atmosphere, be close to each other, and live a happy and healthy life.

The famous British writer Disraeli once said: The life of a person who is angry about small things is short. French writer Mauroy explained this profound saying: This sentence can help us forget many unpleasant experiences. We are often distracted by trivial things that go unnoticed and make us lose our minds. We are always annoyed and complain about other people's small mistakes.

An 88-year-old man smiled leisurely and told the people around him that having a happy life is actually very simple: first, don’t punish yourself with your mistakes; second, don’t punish yourself with your mistakes. Punish others for their mistakes; third, don’t punish yourself for other people’s mistakes. Relax your mind and don't worry about small things, so that your life will be full of sunshine.

◎No worries, there is an old man who once tightened his belt and saved money. After saving for 20 years, he finally bought a house for his son, but the son still thought it was too small. Poor location. Thinking about these years, he always bought cheap food when he bought groceries. Whenever he had a zero line, he tried every means to make up round sums and deposited them in the bank. After he retired, he went out to set up a street vendor to make money. He finally bought this house, but in the end he was disliked. So sad.

Looking at my son, who usually spends money lavishly and has no savings, my sadness turned into worry again. Alas, it’s really impossible not to save some money for him! What to do?

This old man’s experience deserves our sympathy. What a pity for the hearts of parents in the world! After a lifetime of hard work and care, I still cannot enjoy happiness in my old age. It's wrong to be a son. Middle-aged and elderly people should also learn to let go and stop worrying about their children's work and life. They have to let them walk their own path and don't get sulky over trivial matters in life. Be more tolerant, open-minded, and optimistic. Life will be full of sunshine everywhere, and you can live a good life in April with no worries.

From today on, live another wonderful life. The life of middle-aged and elderly people should not be a calm lake, but a flowing stream, which can stir up some waves from time to time. Life in old age should show a kind of Uniquely wonderful.

Life is so wonderful

There was a middle-aged and elderly man who retired in his sixties and learned the sport of young people's roller skating.

For this reason, he has been practicing for several years, and his hard work has resulted in superb roller skating skills. As a result, he has been recognized by people in the industry and calls him "old man". He has performed in both Qinhuangdao and Liaocheng. It is not a problem to skate around the Fourth Ring Road in Beijing. It is also a piece of cake to skate back and forth with a gap of less than half a meter. Once the old man performed in the community, and soon attracted a crowd of onlookers, who all admired his spirit and skills. When he was nearly seventy years old, he started to practice whipping again. A whip weighed about 5 kilograms, and now he can throw it easily. According to him, this was also obtained with sweat. In order to strengthen his arms and wrists, his arms and hands were swollen, and became purple and black due to congestion. No matter how hard you work, no matter what you gain, the hard work pays off. He also set a benchmark for middle-aged and elderly people to enrich their later life. Whenever he performs, people's praises and praises continue, which in turn gives strength and encouragement to others and arouses people's confidence in exercise.

As long as people have hobbies and dreams, they should pursue them earnestly and diligently, and everyone's life will be wonderful!

Sing for a Wonderful Old Age

Many middle-aged and elderly people have good timbres and quality, as well as plenty of energy, but they often cannot make good use of them, which is a pity. How can middle-aged and elderly people sing as well as possible under the current conditions?

Let’s not talk about those professional terms, such as oral cavity ringing, chest cavity ringing, etc., nor talk about the method of using Qi and practicing voice, because the original purpose is to sing casually for fun.

Singing also has certain requirements, and the words must be precise and the emotions must be in place. That is to say, when singing, the words must be spoken clearly and with sufficient charm to express the emotions that the songwriter wants to express. For example, if you sing "The Moon Represents My Heart" as a march, and if you sing "March of the People's Liberation Army" softly, the effect can be imagined, so singing requires emotion. As long as you master the emotions expressed in the songs and fully use your own understanding when singing, then half the battle will be won. Therefore, based on the understanding of songs, as long as you listen more and know how to listen, love to sing and sing more, you can enrich your later life with singing.

◎Love reciting, love life. Rhythmic recitation can increase cardiovascular activity. In addition, reciting can improve the stress response and continuously regulate cardiovascular function to stabilize blood pressure. This increased responsiveness is a boon to heart disease patients.

Health experts believe that when a person reads aloud, more than 70% of nerve cells participate in brain activities, which exceeds silent reading and literacy. It is equivalent to warm-up exercises for the brain, which can make the inhibition and excitation processes of the cerebral cortex reach a relatively high level. Balance, regulation of blood flow and nerve function are in good condition. Reciting is like singing, which can increase lung capacity, make the whole body unobstructed, and has a unique effect of nourishing the mood; reciting is also a kind of mental gymnastics, which is especially helpful to reduce the mental pressure of middle-aged and elderly people in their dusk thoughts, and exercise their memory and expression force.

Reciting is a performing art, a positive attitude towards life, and a way to maintain high energy and health. Reciting can be said to be a magic weapon for maintaining health among middle-aged and elderly people.

The fun of bridge

Bridge is an elegant puzzle game. It can not only exercise logical thinking and judgment skills, but also cultivate sentiment, enrich and guide life, and is full of philosophy. sex and science. What is the appeal of playing bridge?

First of all, you can make many friends by playing bridge. The bridge game is suitable for people of different ages, different genders, different nationalities, different races and different religions. Friends made by playing bridge involve a relatively high level and a wide range of people, and the friendship is long-lasting and stable.

Secondly, it can improve intelligence and brain health. Bridge is one of the three major intellectual sports recognized in the world. Playing bridge can exercise thinking, inspire wisdom, and especially improve people's logic and reasoning abilities.

Thirdly, it can cultivate sentiment. Playing bridge requires cooperation and tolerance, advocating the spirit of fairness, openness and justice, and can cultivate people's sentiments through long-term edification.

Finally, you can enjoy the fun of competition. Bridge is a world-recognized sport with a strong competitive nature. In addition, because there is a certain degree of chance in the distribution of bridge cards, beginners may also beat top players, which is also the charm of bridge competitions. People don’t just live for themselves

1. Life is ever-changing, like fate. Which way to go is your own choice. Go down this road and persevere, and you will find the roadside. The scenery is beautiful, and life will change inadvertently, getting better and better! See clearly what you want. Live clearly and know what you want. People live because life is not up to them, but we can control our own lives.

2. Nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory. Everyone may encounter problems that are difficult to solve, or there may be twists and turns in the most difficult time. Everyone has things they can't let go of and things they can't forget. If you really care, you should let it go. There is no need to worry about the unchangeable fact that history will not repeat itself.

3. Destiny is like the keys of a piano. Only the black and white ensemble can play beautiful notes. After suffering setbacks and injuries, baptized with tears, life can be called complete. It's yours, no matter whether it's good or bad, don't be picky, complain less, face it positively, be optimistic about change, there will be sunshine even in rainy days. While you are still young, boldly go out to face the baptism of wind, frost, rain and snow, and develop a patient, open-minded and wise heart, and then happiness will come.

4. There is no place in the world without troubles. If you work hard to get something, in fact, as long as you stay calm and seek truth from facts, you can achieve your goal without noticing. But if you use too much force, are too aggressive, too childish, and too inexperienced, you will cry, scratch, and pull, just like a child pulling on the tablecloth, but in the end you will get nothing, and you will just pull all the good things on the table to the ground. , never get it.

5. Maybe your work is not good enough; maybe you are in trouble; maybe you have been abandoned by love. No matter what the reason is, when you go out, please be sure to look fresh and pretty, hold your head high, chest up, smile, and face life calmly.

As long as you truly stand up for yourself, no one else can push you down!

6. The more happiness you have, the less worries you will have. If you decide to look for positive things, you will also find them. Everyone has two doors: one is the door of home, the place of growth; the other is the door of heart, the place of success. If you can drive away the villain in the door, you will awaken the giant in your heart! There are four things in life: coming is accidental, going is inevitable, take it for granted and let nature take its course.

7. Don’t take someone else’s map and find your own way. Everyone has a unique scenery. When you stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, the people watching the scenery are watching you upstairs. There is no need to envy others, every family has a scripture that is difficult to recite. You should learn to believe in yourself, learn to appreciate yourself, and try to find out the most beautiful side of yourself and present it in the sun. Life is your own. In addition to taking necessary responsibilities, you should also live for yourself.

8. The road is not at your feet, but in your heart. Destiny is not a matter of opportunity, but a matter of choice; we do not wait for opportunities, but we have to realize them. People who take a detour to a straight path are smart because they have found a shortcut; people who take a detour from a straight path are open-minded because they can see more scenery. Go further, see more beautiful scenery, and experience a richer and broader life.

9. There are some things that you can’t afford to pick up, so just let them go; Try to forget; there are some things in the past that you can't forget, so you hide them in your heart; you can't do some things well, so you ask others for help. In life, there is always a way to go, and the ups and downs of life will accompany you calmly. As long as you are happy, you lack nothing.

10. What we want seems to be available, but it is not what we originally thought. We don’t know what we want anymore, we only know what we don’t want. The more we know what we don’t want, the less we know what we want. Dear self, you have just cheered up, please don't let yourself be depressed again. Nothing is worth being sad about, just be happy. Dreams are horses

Dreams are horses

Flowers fall on the flowing water, and the heart is like clouds. When I first arrived there, I relied on my potential to pass several interviews one after another. I was very happy to get some gains and experience from so many interviews, and finally I came there. There is where my dream begins and where I show my potential.

Someone once asked me: Do you regret making such a decision? My answer is: I regret it, but I don’t regret it either. I regret leaving this group and going to a new place. What I don’t regret is that I can gain more and improve in the new place. There is where my dream began. From the initial stranger meeting to the current mutual acquaintance and mutual respect, I gradually fell in love with it. Working there, I feel like home. College life will be very fulfilling. There is nothing wrong with yourself if you give up some things that are of little benefit. For everything, I will try my best to do it well. I think that during the three years there, I will make many friends and gain a lot of experiences. I began to look forward to my future, and I will use my potential to move forward step by step. Go chase your dreams and achieve what you want to do.

Dream, what exactly is it. Before entering university, my dream was actually to study medicine. I even imagined that I would study medicine even if I entered university. But for some reasons due to the college entrance examination, I finally came there, from the initial discomfort to slowly adapting to everything there. The dream was re-planned. I began to get to know everyone around me, I began to like the environment there, and I began to fall in love with the atmosphere there. Even though it has many disadvantages, it brings me a kind of beautiful enjoyment. Maybe the classroom is not the imaginary ladder classroom, but a classroom like a high school, but the teaching quality will be much better than that of a ladder classroom; maybe the network is not very good, but there is a good atmosphere there; maybe the dormitory management requires It’s too strict, but what this brings about is our good work and rest habits. Everything has its good points, it just takes time for us to explore.

Looking back on the past and looking forward to the future, we are groping forward on this road. Flowers fall on the flowing water, and my heart is like clouds. College life will get better and better and will be very fulfilling. In college, I believe that I can gain a lot of things that are useful to me and improve my potential. Before entering the society, I can increase my experience in dealing with things and use the best attitude to welcome the new beginning.

Use dreams as horses and live up to Zhaohua. There will be the place where my dream begins and the place where I realize my dream. Learn more methods, enrich your experience, and improve your potential. Even though we have lost a lot along the way, we are also meeting more people and things. It was an honor and a different experience to meet there. Meeting is a blessing, knowing each other is a privilege. Stick to your ideals, steady your pace, and go further and further on this road. Your ideals and reality will eventually overlap. Take dreams as horses and live up to Zhaohua. There, I will realize my dream and add color to my youth. Don't always be self-centered, not everyone will treat you as a human being

1. Know the warmth and warmth of people - self-knowledge of the warmth and warmth of others - it is best to be self-aware.

2. I admire you very much A kind of person is the kind of person who, after hurting others, feels aggrieved and says that he has no choice but to do what he did.

3. Sunshine always shines in large quantities without any instructions.

4. People are tired when they are alive, so they are called human beings.

5. Since we are together because of love, we should manage this relationship seriously and give what we can. The result is not important. Start well and end well.

6. We move too fast, and our souls can’t keep up.

7. Don’t complain that life is unfair to you, because life doesn’t know who you are at all.

8. If what you gave to me is given to others, then I would rather not, It’s not scary if you can’t get it, but it’s a joke if you can’t keep it.

9. A woman must understand and remember that a man - as long as he is a man, no matter old or young, he loves beautiful women.

10. I hate homework without answers; I hate homework with only half of the answers printed.

11. Don’t always be self-centered. Not everyone will treat you as a human being.

12. I don’t know how much time has passed, nor how much life is left.

13. The shallower the knowledge, the deeper the confidence. ——Soviet Union

14. When we remove stumbling blocks from others’ feet, we may be paving the way for ourselves.

15. Whether a person is mature comes from whether he understands the purpose of what he is doing, whether he dares to bear the consequences of his decisions, and how well he understands and trusts himself.

16. Tolerate the imperfections of life, and withstand the ups and downs of the world, and root everything in life into life.

17. The rear wheel of the bicycle fell in love with the front wheel, so it kissed every piece of land it walked on.