People get along with each other, just like two gears embedded together. At first, it may be that the size is wrong, or the lubricating oil is not enough. It needs to be run-in slowly to drive the big machine to run normally.

No matter what kind of relationship you get along with for a long time, you can always meet people. We have to grind off some angular places in order to work together to overcome the difficulties.

Ruskin once said, "Try your best for others, and finally try your best for yourself."

In marriage and family, there is always constant contact and get along with other family members. For example, dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and menstruation is also a course.

Under the care of her parents, Angie has been living with her sister-in-law. From the initial mutual exclusion to friendly coexistence, sister-in-law also has many ways to get along.

Sister-in-law Jiang Dehua came to their home because she helped her brother and sister-in-law look after their children. Although uneducated, rude and extravagant, she really loves her nephew and has paid a lot for it.

Angie spent the running-in period with Jiang Dehua because of sincerity, and the relationship between them not only became better and better, but also became relatives who could really rely on each other.

Some feelings can't be maintained by money, and some things can make each other get along well with themselves without deliberately pleasing. While sticking to your bottom line, consider and solve problems for her from the other side's point of view.

After a long time, love becomes a habit, and there will be indestructible feelings.

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When Angie and Jiang Dehua first got along, there were many contradictions, just like fire meets water.

Angie and Jiang Defu get along well. There is love and children between them, which can be kept firmly. But when Jiang Dehua arrived, she was an "outsider" in Angie's eyes from the beginning.

An Jie loves cleanliness, likes quietness, has a delicate mind, and has some young ladies' temper. And Jiang Dehua, careless, loud, do not pay attention to life.

Therefore, Angie is very disgusted with Jiang Dehua. Such a woman doesn't care about hygiene, knows nothing, and her lifestyle is far from that of An Jie.

Even if Jiang Dehua came to her brother's sister-in-law's house under the banner of "helping", she was not welcome. Aunt and sister-in-law not only often quarrel, but also have a great influence on the feelings between husband and wife.

Angie always felt that Jiang Dehua's arrival didn't help him much. Instead, she made the family fly a dog and jump, and there was no peace.

But the quarrel is a family after all. Although Jiang Dehua is not convinced, she will still do as her sister-in-law says, which is well-founded.

Moreover, the quarrel between the two people is over, and no one really bears a grudge. Jiang Dehua didn't delay the work at hand, and took care of his nephew and his brother's life wholeheartedly.

Although two people seem to be "better" than one person on the surface, both of them have a kind heart and a reliable personality. In the mutual running-in, contradictions are slowly resolved.

Gradually, Angie and Jiang Dehua learned to live in harmony, and there were contradictions at home, which should be solved slowly.

When an aunt gets along, there are often contradictions in her life. But knowing how to resolve contradictions, one day, the other party will see each other's sincerity.

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Jiang Dehua entered her brother's sister-in-law's house from the beginning, while Jiang Dehua's image was hard-working. It is rare to treat your child as your own for such a long time.

Washing clothes and cooking, looking after children, busy all day, having such a sister-in-law makes Anjie's life carefree.

In fact, for Jiang Dehua, she has changed. In order to take care of Angie's feelings, she got rid of her unhealthy bad habit.

It is precisely because of Angela's "transformation" of her sister-in-law, that Jiang Dehua has a better self, and she can have a beautiful marriage in the future.

She knows more and more about "cleanliness", knows the taste, does not swear, and has made great progress.

Through the eldest sister-in-law like Anjie, Jiang Dehua has learned a lot and learned how to deal with the relationship between herself and her husband, which can make the life between husband and wife more harmonious. Jiang Dehua's contribution has also been fully rewarded by Anjie.

In Anjie, Jiang Dehua also felt the warmth of his loved ones.

Angie's son Jiang Weiguo said a word, and Jiang Dehua began to cry. He said: "I remember the taste of menstruation all my life." It can be seen that Jiang Dehua's contribution has also been recognized by the children, and she even feels that she is closer than her mother.

Therefore, if people get along with each other and you treat others sincerely, you will be able to sow seeds like spring, and in autumn, you will see many fruits.

When people get along with each other, sincere efforts will eventually lead to sincere acceptance and maintenance.

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Between Jiang Dehua and Angie's aunt, outside, they will always be family. Later, when Jiang Dehua was bullied by Mrding, she tried her best to protect her.

Relatives from my hometown came to Jiang Defu's house and were curious about Anji's "rare things". They wanted to hide and take them away secretly, which was too much and a little unreasonable.

Jiang Dehua was very angry and had a quarrel with them. They scolded Jiang Dehua. At this moment, Anjie came out and said directly, "Jiang Dehua is our aunt. Who do you think she is? "

As soon as this "family" atmosphere came out, the relationship between the two people instantly sublimated.

Jiang Dehua's contribution made Anjie regard her as his family, which also warmed Jiang Dehua's heart. What's more, I regard my sister-in-law as a person closer than my brother.

Outside, it is a family, relying on each other and helping each other. At home, no matter how noisy, Jiang Dehua and Angie always do this.

This is how you get along with menstruation: if you are respected, others will respect you, so as to build deeper feelings and relationships, and the contradiction between the two people will disappear.

Later, Jiang Dehua's lifelong event was also Angie's dedication as the eldest sister-in-law.

When Jiang Dehua got married, she rummaged through everything to buy a dowry for her. When Jiang Dehua was humiliated, she did not hesitate to protect her like a mother.

When two people are together, there are too many unsatisfactory places to see each other, but they respect each other and influence each other. And this aunt's contribution to her nephew is not much worse than her mother's, so Anjie also sincerely accepted her.

Roland once said: "A good thing is often because it is sincere."

With the same sincere heart, we can have a long-term happy heart and harvest the best affection.

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Getting along with menstruation is not a matter of money, but a matter of sincerity.

There is a war TV series called "Sister-in-law", which tells the story that Sister-in-law leads a family to support a world.

There are many contradictions between Xiao Yan and Xiao Yan, and there are also many misunderstandings between them. And my sister-in-law is willful and always against her. In the face of right and wrong, my sister-in-law influenced her with her own actions and even her life, and they finally made up and fought side by side.

In fact, sometimes, mother-in-law and aunt are the closest relatives, and there is no blood relationship.

Maybe it's normal to distrust each other at first and even be biased against each other, but to change this state, we must be honest with each other.

Don't always care who takes advantage and who suffers. Both people should care more about each other and be less critical. Sister-in-law should have a broader mind, and sister-in-law should not blindly gossip.

Wang Guozhen once said: "A person who never appreciates others is also a person who will never be appreciated by others."

Therefore, when you get along with your aunt, don't always stare at each other's shortcomings. Give both sides a chance to treat each other sincerely, and you can find a relative.

Getting along with menstruation is not about money, but the relationships and feelings maintained by money are often fragile. Only the feelings piled up with the word "sincerity" are strong and warm.