Hello Liu Zilan929!
Your question is a good one! In the current social environment, our children can easily get into bad habits, such as being willful, not paying attention in class, etc. This is especially true for adolescent children! Although there are many ways to educate children, if you want to fundamentally educate your children well and cultivate their good interests and habits in learning and life, it is recommended that you make your children fall in love with "Disciple Rules" as soon as possible!
The saint’s precepts include filial piety, sincerity and sincere belief in loving others and benevolence. If you have the spare capacity, learn literature and be filial to your parents. Don’t slow down your parents’ orders. Don’t be lazy in your parents’ teachings. You must listen to your parents’ responsibilities. You must be obedient and warm in the winter. Xia Zeshen... (reading more will definitely improve children's sense of responsibility and inspire children's wisdom). You see, this is really a "Great Book of Filial Piety" and the best tutor! How well written! It is catchy, easy to read and teach. There are many video story teaching materials on the Internet. There are multiple versions suitable for children of all stages to watch. As long as you are willing to encourage your children to watch it with you (this is very important. If you like it, it will motivate them. (Children are naturally curious and easily influenced by others), your child will definitely fall in love with her. If you can work hard in real life and implement the teachings in it as much as possible, why worry about not educating your children well?
At the same time, your question involves the family education issues of adolescents and children’s ideological and moral character, behavioral language and academic performance that the majority of parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve. The correct education and guidance of parents plays an important role in the healthy growth of children. plays a decisive role in the education process. Here, I sincerely recommend you to watch the excellent large-scale public welfare forum series of Chinese traditional culture education planned and supervised by teacher Chen Dahui, "Sage Education Changes Destiny" (also known as "Disciples' Guidelines"). This is a very beneficial document about moral education and family education. Free online resources can help children understand the truth of life in an atmosphere of happiness and gratitude, help children improve their healthy growth and learning progress, understand why disasters and accidents occur, and seek good fortune and avoid disaster. It is true! It can prescribe the right medicine for various problems in children and is a good treatment! It must have the answers you need, and it is also a powerful teaching material for us parents and elders to learn from. It is indeed a rare classic program for family education! There are many wonderful case studies in this program, exploring various solutions to children’s education. It is really the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children. It is also a very good online resource for family education, and it is completely free. , which is of great help in improving children's academic performance. In life, children and even adults are prone to various problems such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebelliousness and disobedience, Internet addiction, puppy love, strong dependence, inattention, etc. These cannot be solved through a simple method or method. Measures can fundamentally correct the problem and turn it into a filial and obedient child. However, we need to carry out family education comprehensively and systematically, and start from the root to treat both the symptoms and the root cause. In this film, many experts, teachers, and parents have personal opinions and report to the public with their unique experiences. It enlightens parents that their educational concepts will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, it is recommended that parents watch it with their children and learn from it since childhood. Parental education can influence a child's life, and you will definitely get unexpected results from it!
There is a classic cautionary saying in the film: People can be taught well! Good people are taught, and so are bad people! This shows the importance of family education!
However, the current reality we are facing is: social integrity is seriously lacking! Due to the exaggeration and misguidance of various media, the environment in which children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is not easy to do a good job in family education! It is getting harder and harder to be a parent. To be honest, many parents don’t know how to be a parent, so they just bring their children into this world and put a lot of educational responsibilities on the school and society. However, parents are their children’s first priority. Teacher Ren, many growth experiences require parents to teach by words and deeds. How can we educate children well if we shirk responsibility? Sad indeed!
As children, we often cannot understand our parents’ thoughts and true feelings, and only seek our own convenience and enjoyment. To be honest, it is a bit rebellious! Only when we become parents can we truly understand this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it. Alas...
Many of the so-called generation gaps that exist in our lives are due to the acceptance of generations. Education is out of touch and not very coherent. Too many people today are eager for quick success and profit-seeking. They only care about their own enjoyment and ignore the feelings of others.
We must know that all education must start from the fundamentals, just like a tree must have roots to grow trunks, branches and leaves, and to flourish. If the fundamental moral education is discarded, everything else will fail. Just castles in the air. Here, I recommend that all friends who are destined to watch it, whether they have watched it or not, please try to take as much time as possible to watch the large-scale excellent forum program on traditional Chinese culture and education: "Sage Education Changes Destiny" (you can watch it on Baidu Video Or search and play on Youku Tudou), I hope everyone who has watched it can get real and substantial benefits from it, and continue to benefit others. Let us work together to create a harmonious and harmonious social environment.
I hope my answer will be helpful and enlightening to you.
My best wishes to you!