Law of wolf nature: Wolf is the most curious animal in the world. They are always interested in the surrounding environment, so they can constantly look for food in the environment and understand the dangers, so as to survive effectively. Therefore, to cultivate children's super learning ability, we must cultivate children's curiosity about the world, let them observe life carefully, and regard interest as their learning teacher. Only in this way can children have new ideas and new inspirations for their work in their future lives.
South wind effect: the north wind and the south wind bet on who is better, and they decide who can take off the coat of pedestrians. No matter how fierce the north wind is, pedestrians just wrap their clothes tighter and tighter; The south wind blows only gently, so people open their coats. The south wind effect tells people that tolerance is a more powerful force than punishment. The same is true of educating children. Criticizing the parents of children blindly will eventually find that children are increasingly not listening to themselves. Every child can make mistakes. Parents should tolerate their children's shortcomings and deal with various problems in daily life objectively, rationally and scientifically.
Rosenthal effect: Rosenthal is an American psychologist. 1966 He did an experiment about students' expectation of grades. He took an exam in a class and then handed over a list of "the most promising people" to the headmaster. The headmaster gave the list to the head teacher of this class. Eight months later, when Rosenthal came to this class again, the students' grades on the list improved greatly. The secret of improving grades is simple, because teachers pay more attention to it. Every child can become an extraordinary genius, but the realization of this possibility depends on whether parents and teachers can love, expect and cherish these children like geniuses. Simply put, what kind of person you expect your child to be, what kind of person your child may become.