One day, Ceng Zi's wife was going to the market, and the child cried and asked to go with his mother. So his mother lied to him and said, "Good boy, wait for your mother at home and kill the pig for you when she comes back from the market." The child believed it and ran home happily, shouting, "There is meat to eat, there is meat to eat." The child stayed at home all day, and when his mother came back, friends from the village came to visit him, but he refused. He leaned against the wall, basking in the sun and imagining the taste of pork, not to mention how happy he was. In the evening, the child saw his mother come back from a distance. He ran forward to meet him in three steps and shouted, "mom, mom, kill pigs, kill pig oil, I'm going to die." Ceng Zi's wife said, "A pig can support our family's food for two or three months. How can you kill pigs at work? " The child cried with a wow. Ceng Zi heard it, and when he knew the truth, he didn't say anything. Turn around and go back to the house After a while, he came out with a kitchen knife. Ceng Zi's wife was frightened, because Ceng Zi was always very strict with the children, thinking that he would teach them a lesson, and she quickly put her arms around them. But Ceng Zi went straight to the pigsty. The wife asked inexplicably, "What are you doing in the pigsty with a kitchen knife?" Ceng Zi replied without thinking: "Kill the pig". The wife listened to a sloped smile: "But what pig should I kill in the New Year?" Ceng Zi said seriously, "Didn't you promise your child to kill pigs for him? Since you promised, you should do it. " The wife said, "I'm just lying to the children." Why should I talk to them seriously? " Ceng Zi said: "It is more important for children to keep their promises. Otherwise, isn't it obvious that children should lie like their parents? " ? Adults don't keep their words. What qualifications do you have to educate your children in the future? "

Sages or historical celebrities rule families-Cao Cao

In A.D. 196, Cao Cao moved Emperor Xian of Han Dynasty from Luoyang, the capital, to Xu (now Xuchang, Henan) and appointed Man Chong as Xu Ling. Cao Cao's cousin, Cao Hong's subordinates, broke the law many times in Manchong area, and Manchong arrested him according to law. Cao Hong wrote to Man Chong to intercede, but Man Chong ignored him. Cao Hong turned to Cao Cao again, trying to force Man Chong to release people with Cao Cao's will. Man Chong estimated that the prisoner was still alive and killed him at once. Cao Cao not only failed to investigate this, but praised Man Chong for his determination. Don't protect your loved ones.

Sages or Historical Celebrities Ruling the Family-Sima Guang

Sima Guang, a famous official and historian in the Northern Song Dynasty, regarded frugality as beauty all his life and hated extravagance. He also influenced his children with his cautious words and deeds, always warning them to understand the truth that "frugality means long time, long time means security, and security means stability." In the article "Training Thrift and Thrift", Sima Guang told his sons the truth of frugality. He put forward that "frugality is easy, luxury is difficult", which is a famous saying of governing the country.

Is Zhang a saint or a famous historian?

Zhang, the prime minister of the Qing Dynasty, and Ye, the assistant minister, were both from Tongcheng, Anhui. The two families live next door and both want to build a house. There is an argument about land. Mrs. Zhang wrote in Beijing, asking Prime Minister Zhang to intervene. Unexpectedly, after reading the letter, the prime minister immediately wrote a poem to persuade the old lady: "It's just for the wall to pick a book a thousand miles away. Why not let it walk three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "Mrs. Zhang saw that the book was right and immediately took the initiative to retreat the wall by three feet. Ye Jia was deeply ashamed to see this scene, and immediately put the wall back three feet. In this way, a six-foot-wide roadway was formed between Zhang Ye's house and the courtyard wall of Zhang Ye's house, which became a famous six-foot alley. This story shows that if neighbors give and take, there is no problem that cannot be solved.

Famous sayings-housekeeping, frugality, brains

People don't have to talk about wealth, but they have the best reading voice. -(Ming) Tang Yin

Look at the sages and families in the past, some frugal and some extravagant. -(Tang) Li Shangyin

Those who are not angry and arrogant, have no family decay. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

When an official takes anger as a warning, he is modest at home. —— (Yuan) Wu Liang

Those who have no harmony and are unhappy at home. -book excerpts

Correct mentality, cultivate one's morality, cultivate one's morality, and put one's family in order. -(Spring and Autumn Period) Zeng Shen

Those who live in it prosper at home, while those who live outside are thrifty. -(Song) Lin Bu

I have a regular business at home, although I am hungry. -(Warring States) Han Fei

There will be no disaster in the house of virtue -(Han) Lu Jia

Although Chengdu is happy, it is better to go home early. -(Tang) Li Bai

Live the world well, don't talk about home and health. -Luo Xuezan

Furniture, regardless of grade. -(Ming) Feng Menglong

Solve problems fundamentally in agriculture and grow good crops. I am Xiaomi, I am Xiaomi. -"Thousand Characters"

Cold comes and summer goes, autumn harvest and winter storage. Striding into adulthood, rhythm and temperament adjust Yang. -"Thousand Characters"

The spring rain shakes the spring and clears the valley, and the summer is full of mountains and summers. Autumn dew, autumn cold frost, winter snow cold. The two festivals remain unchanged every month, with a maximum difference of one or two days. Six 21s in the first half of the year and eight 23s in the second half. -Agricultural proverbs

Sages know the importance of governing the country, so they return people to agriculture. -(Warring States) Shang Yang

Bread is the staff of life. -(Korea) Sima Qian

Happy-go-lucky: it's hard to find fame and fortune in life, and it's hard to find a good mood, and it's even harder to have fun in a good mood. Whatever you do, don't ruin your good mood by pursuing fame and fortune excessively. -from the newspaper

Contentment is the normal state of the world, and wealth and splendor are like passing clouds. The attitude of true philosophy should be to be prepared for danger in times of peace and to be prepared for danger in times of peace. -from the newspaper

Career is endless, what's so high about promotion? There is no top in Jinshan, so what is the accumulation of wealth? Desire is bottomless, what is enough to satisfy sensuality? If you give up the fun of life and spend your whole life running around and working hard, it is still difficult to realize your dream. Won't you hate it for life? -from the newspaper

It is infinitely useful to see through more than half of the people; Half a year's leisure, half a mile to dry Kunpu; A hundred years of hard work and half the participation can only get half the benefits. -Shi Mian

The state of mind should be cultivated to be quiet and leisurely, and reject the merits of foreign things. It is best to be like running water all the time, but not tired. -Tao Jue

People around the city want to escape, and people standing outside the city want to rush in. Whether it is marriage or career, most of the desires in life are like this. Yang Jiang

If you want to have a bad day, treat; If you want to be restless for a year, build a house; If you want to live a quiet life, marry your aunt. -Liang Shiqiu

A big belly can hold things that are hard to hold in the world. Open your mouth and laugh at the ridiculous people in the world. -"Ursa Major Alliance"

When you treat yourself, never ask for anything from your mistakes. If you don't pursue virtue alone, you won't suffer. When dealing with people, we should seek forgiveness from what has happened, not only be generous, but also settle grievances. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

Modesty is the first way to protect yourself; Peace is the first step in doing things. Self-cultivation is the first way to treat others; Free and easy is the first method of nourishing the heart. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

When you are in the wild, you shouldn't look down on this body. Don't underestimate this body on the day you live in the temple gallery. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

Not too bright, all insults and slanders should be acceptable. Don't be too clear with others, all good and evil, virtuous and foolish should be tolerated. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

It's boring at home, and I want to eat hard. If the rank is not up to standard, there are still talented people. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

People who can kiss my ass will definitely hurt me, so it is advisable to plan ahead. He who can discipline me will help me, so he should listen wholeheartedly. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

There is no wave in the heart, and everything is calm. There is education in the sky of sex, the fish jumps and the kite flies at the touch. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

If everything is clear, you will be more refined and sincere. Concentrate, and everything will flow more and more. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

Heat can't be removed, but heat annoyance can be removed. Autumn is on a cool platform. Poverty can't be eliminated, but poverty can be eliminated. Spring is in a comfortable nest. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

Enough is enough, and contentment is always happy. Seek leisure, not leisure. If you are idle, you are idle. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

Doing things slowly and urgently is sensitive and meritorious. Urgent things delay, busy things make many mistakes. -"aphorisms are interlocking"

It is the style of a saint to hide the wise and expose the stupid. It is a fool's style to hide stupidity and reveal wisdom. -book excerpts

People laugh at jokes, and I wake people up with jokes. Although the game has three flavors, it can be called a golden lily. -(Qing) Shi Tianqi

As the old saying goes, you can't say everything, don't do everything, don't be full of wind, always leave your place and turn around. If Gonta is full, you will lose, and if the moon is too full, you will lose. You can enlighten me! -(Qing) turning stone into gold

The world is windy and frosty, and our hearts are exquisite; The world is cold and warm, and we are patient. -(Qing) turning stone into gold

It is difficult to be smart, but difficult to be confused. It's even harder to change from smart to confused. Let nature take its course, to say the least, I feel at ease now, not for good luck in the future. -(Qing) Zheng Xie

The best way to do things is to think slowly. If you think carefully, you will feel it. If you slow down, you will feel it. —— (Ming) Xue Xuan

Seek fame and reputation, dazzle the world and dazzle the vulgar, and the gentleman will not take it. -(Ming) Fang Xiaoru

Not surprisingly, it is omni-directional and unstable. -(Ming) Lv Kun

As long as people are humble, as long as they live and work in peace and contentment, as long as the godson studies well and has enough food and clothing, as long as the house is solid and useful, weddings and funerals are reasonable. -(Ming) Lv Kun

Endless feelings, endless blessings; Cheap is inexhaustible, and smart is inexhaustible. -(Ming) Feng Menglong

Worry is empty, I go to the cool world. The camp strives for perfection and the heart is at home. -(Ming) Chen Jiru

Life, one step higher, retrogression is the foundation of progress. Forgiving others is bliss, and benefiting others is the foundation of self-interest. -(Ming) Hong Yingming

Living in the mountains is a victory, a little attached, and also in the market; Appreciating calligraphy and painting is an elegant thing, and a little greed is also a businessman; Poetry and wine are a kind of enjoyment, and a little music is also hell; Hospitality is an open-minded thing, and if it is disturbed by vulgar people, it will also suffer. -(Ming) Chen Jiru

Feel that people's deception is not in words; Being insulted, quietly. There are infinite meanings and benefits in this. -(Ming) Hong Yingming

Those who strive for the first place have a narrow road, so take a step back and wait for it. Rich and colorful, short taste, one minute light, one minute long. -(Ming) Hong Yingming

It's better to be negative than negative. This is the way to treat yourself. -(yuan) Zhang

Gold is empty and silver is empty. Have you ever had it in your hands after death? The power is empty, the name is empty, and in a blink of an eye, there is a letter in the wilderness. -(Ming) Wukong

Worry is a virtue, and you can't be comfortable if you are too bitter. Indifference is a high wind, which is too dry to help people and things. -(Ming) Hong Yingming

Don't lose face, just watch the flowers bloom in front of the court. Going or staying is unintentional, and it is easy to follow the clouds. -(Ming) Hong Yingming

You still have room to go further. When the money is relaxed, there will be a aftertaste. -(Song) Gao Zongxian

Being in a turbulent world and showing glory is not what I want; Better be poor than poor in name only. (Warring States) Song Yu was in trouble and took the lead; You are positive, right behind you. -(Three Kingdoms) Zhuge Liang

If you are not me, you are my teacher; It's me, my friend; Those who flatter me are thieves. -(Warring States) Xun Kuang

Do to others what you don't want them to do to you; Take advantage of others and be kind to others; Happiness is lifelong, and sadness is lifelong. -(Warring States) Monk

Smart and wise, keep its stupidity; Work is the world, keep it. Face the world bravely and keep it with fear; Rich all over the world, remain modest. -(Spring and Autumn Period) Kong Qiu

Bodhi trees have no trees, and the mirror platform is not a platform. There is nothing, so there is no dust. -(Tang) Huineng

I am a bodhi tree, and my heart is like a mirror platform. Always work hard and don't create dust. —— (Tang)

The past harvest is not enough to make people feel pity; The day after tomorrow, you can't limit yourself. -book excerpts

Small profits do not dispute, small profits do not earn; Comfort words and warm relatives can be shared with others. -(Ming) Qian Qi

I don't know what I want, but I don't want to do it; Don't say anything if you don't want others to smell it. -(Tang) Jason Wu

Wandering in the light, combining with the gas in the desert; Everything is natural, and the world is governed. -(Warring States) Zhuang Zhou

Skilled, not in labor; The advantage lies in the situation, not in cultivation. -"On Salt and Iron"

Happiness lies in contentment, and life is not humiliating; Be brave after knowing shame. -(Spring and Autumn Period) Kong Qiu

Cheap with * * *, can't make money, suspicious with * * *, can't do it. -(Qing) Shen Hanguang

The thicker people are in trouble, the slower things are in a hurry. -(Qing) Li Shutong

Set the line everywhere and consider everything. -(Qing) Lu

Obedience is resigned to fate, and life is close. -(Qing) Zhu Yongchun

The little things that are not confused are called abilities, and the big things that are not confused are called talents. -(Song) Sima Guang

Insulting others is humiliating, and hurting others is hurting others. -(Qing) Jin Ying

Things have changed, and the heart of the sea flies in dreams. -Liang Qichao

There is no omnipotent talent in the world, and people are self-aware. -Zou Taofen

Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. -"Augmented Sage"

People in Dont Ask For Help are generally flat, but if someone asks for help, they will be three points shorter.