As the saying goes, the old don't go, the new don't come. If you want to forget a past relationship, I think the most effective medicine in the world is to start a new relationship. This is actually a natural law, and new memories in people's brains will always slowly cover up the scars of the past.

However, such an unforgettable predecessor had to make up his mind and do the following:

First, throw away the personal belongings left by your ex in the room, no matter how expensive you like. Now everyone is talking about breaking up. In fact, emotional breakup is particularly important. If you really want to forget the old man, don't leave anything behind. Everyone says: it's a wise saying to see things and think about people. The clothes left by my predecessor all smell like the owner. The doll books left by my predecessors all have their deep personal traces. These things affect your mood all the time. On a cold rainy night, it's easy for you to think of your lover and the dribs and drabs with her and him. If you go on like this, you will only be more and more immersed in the past, unable to get out of the emotional swamp, let alone start a new chapter in your life.

Second, don't go to any restaurants and attractions that you and your ex have been to. If you go to these places often, it is easy to inspire the loving scenes that stay in the depths of your memory. The details of being very much in love, as the saying goes, are affectionate but ruthless. Why not take a trip out of sight, out of mind, instead of struggling in pain, it is better to find a new restaurant, try a new food, or make an appointment with three or five friends, embark on a new journey, meet different people and experience a fresh, relaxed and pleasant feeling.

Third, abandon all social relations with your predecessor. It is best not to have the other person's phone number in the phone address book, or delete the other person's WeChat, or close the other person's circle of friends to update, turn off his Weibo, cut off his phone number and delete his WeChat. Only in this way can your world truly belong to you, otherwise, you will be deeply concerned about each other's love, their occasional patients and their boring feelings. You know, all these emotional ripples are still in your heart.

Spring goes and spring comes, and there are plenty of fragrant grass in the sea. To achieve the above three points, and then root in some positive and optimistic attitude towards life, believe me, it is not difficult to start a new chapter in life under the lovelorn mode!