Message from parents on coming-of-age ceremony

1. You must be mentally prepared. There are too many things in this world that you cannot get, so you must have a correct and good attitude. You can calmly read philosophy and Buddhism and truly learn the dialectical relationship between success and failure. Temporary failures are inevitable on your way forward. We will not blame you or put too much burden and pressure on you. No matter how many or how big the troubles are in your heart, you should have a tolerant heart and always face life and others with a smile. You must know that there are too many people in this world who are poorer and more miserable than you, so there is no need to look for trouble.

2. Parents can give you life, but they cannot live for you; parents can pass on knowledge to you, but they cannot guarantee your academic excellence; parents can point you in the direction, but they cannot lead you there; parents Parents allow you to have freedom, but cannot be responsible for your freedom; parents can teach you to distinguish right from wrong, but they cannot make decisions for you; parents can buy you beautiful clothes, but they cannot guarantee that you have a heart that loves beauty; parents Parents can give you love, but they cannot guarantee that you can feel it; parents can teach you how to share, but they cannot guarantee that you will not be selfish; parents can teach you how to make friends, but they cannot choose brothers and sisters for you; parents can teach you the knowledge of life. , but they cannot create a reputation for you; parents can teach you to set ambitious goals, but they cannot help you achieve them; parents can teach you kindness and friendship, but they cannot guarantee that you are tolerant and kind; parents can warn you about ugliness and evil, but they cannot There is no guarantee that you will be morally noble; parents want you to be happy, but they cannot guarantee that you will be happy all the time!

3. I hope that my daughter will study humbly, learn more where she has strengths and keep improving, and learn more where she is weak. , strive to have noble moral sentiments and good cultural literacy.

4. My dearest child, I am filled with joy and pleasure every day you grow up, and I am surprised and moved by every progress you make, which contains your hard work and the precious things I have brought to you. The ardent hope of the party and the country for the opportunity, and the hard work and sweat of the teachers and classmates who love you. You must be grateful to the people who taught you, cherish the people who accompany you, always be grateful, and be grateful to those who nourish you. Treasure your sincerity and beauty and realize your dreams one after another! The road ahead may be long and winding, but no matter what difficulties you face, you must look at them from an objective and fair perspective. You cannot expect that life will be smooth sailing. , how can there be a beautiful rainbow without going through wind and rain? As long as you are a serious person and work down-to-earth, life will never let down your giving and gifts! Don’t be afraid of hardship, don’t be afraid of suffering losses, and know “how steel is made” ?" The truth!

5. Watching you grow up, your mother and family will take better care of you, letting you learn to walk with your own feet, eat with your own hands, and eat with your own mouth. Express. The journey of life has already begun for you. But don’t worry, we will accompany you through it all. But the final road requires you to walk with your own feet, and no one can replace it. Go forward steadily step by step and firmly believe in yourself: there is no road longer than your feet, and there is no mountain higher than yourself.

6. Son, please remember: Father and mother will always be your most loyal brothers and sisters. No matter what setbacks and ups and downs you encounter on the road to growth, we will be your strong backing.

7. At the age of eighteen, you must be healthy and happy. Health is the capital of study and work. Pleasure is the expression of pleasure and the emotion after success. These insights have become more and more widely known and deeply rooted in the hearts of the people in recent years, but not many people actually implement them. Therefore, I put health and happiness in the first article to communicate with you. This is an eternal topic. Remember her, and you will benefit from it throughout your life. During your senior year of high school, you are reluctant to let every minute slip away from you, but while studying hard, you must not forget to take some time to exercise every day. Good health will help you better improve your study. Efficiency, realize your ideals, and make greater contributions to society.

8. When you are eighteen years old, you should be sunny. Next year is your college entrance examination, and I firmly believe that you will be fully prepared intellectually, physically, and mentally to face this major test in life. At the same time, remember that the college entrance examination is just a step in life. Once you reach this step, there are more steps waiting for you. You also need to use your youth and responsibility to take every step of life well.

You have to go through many ups and downs on the road of life, but as long as you work hard for your ideals, no matter what the result is, your life will be bright and sunny. Another point is, as long as you try your best, work hard, and do it with your heart in everything you do, you will have a clear conscience and no regrets! Welcome every day happily and sunnyly!

9. Opportunities are equal to everyone, but they are only reserved for those who are brave enough to endure hardships, fight hard, and be good at giving up. They are reserved for those who are ready. Only by working hard can you get rewards. Therefore, from now on, you must learn and understand to grasp and let go. What you put down are weeds and strange scenery, and what you grasp is your own future. Letting go is only temporary, and you will gain something and lose something. In short, it is not good to do something that makes you regret.

10. Whether you are ready or not, your year has arrived. Accompanying your coming-of-age ceremony is the most important test in your life. Before you assume responsibilities to others and society, you must first assume responsibilities for yourself. You have to work tirelessly, we are looking forward to it.

11. Son, thank you to fate for blessing us with you who is as warm and kind as the sun; thank you to every teacher who has given guidance on your growth path; thank you to every boy who has gone through childhood with you *** Brothers and sisters of the same age entering young adulthood. Thank you, my baby, for giving us the opportunity to relive the growth of life and share all the joys, sorrows and joys of your growth. Our lives are also full of joy.

12. You have been a well-behaved, sensible, diligent and studious child since you were a child, and never admit defeat. Although you have not reached the age of adulthood, many words and actions are better than the words and deeds of adults. For this reason, teachers affirm you, classmates praise you, army leaders praise you, parents and colleagues envy you, and tobacco reporters follow you Interviewing you...you have become the pride and joy of my parents. In recent years, many colleagues have almost asked us the same question, how did your parents educate and train you? Their envy is not because of how successful you have been, but because you are well-behaved, sensible, and diligent, so that your father can succeed. Mom is free from worry, relieved and not worried, happy but not sad. In fact, this issue is also a concern of all parents in the world. Our answer is: communication, equality and democracy; doing things, believing in your daughter; loving in moderation, the key is to cultivate your good understanding and living habits.

13. At the age of eighteen, you must learn and understand gratitude. Be grateful to the teachers who have contributed to your growth and the classmates who have accompanied you along the way. Be grateful to all the truth, goodness and beauty in the world for nourishing you. Use such gratitude to realize your ideals. The road of life is tortuous and long, and life cannot always be smooth sailing. No matter what kind of setbacks and difficulties you encounter, your parents hope that you will treat them correctly and judge them objectively; no matter where you go in the future, you must do things seriously. , be a down-to-earth person, be a sincere, kind, loving, responsible, polite and sensible person.

14. When you are about to enter the ranks of adults, when you are entering your senior year of high school and about to face the college entrance examination, Dad has a few words from his heart that he wants to say to you: "When you grow up, you start to With self-thinking, you also have self-awareness and understanding of the surrounding society. No matter whether your thinking and understanding are correct and mature, your parents will fully respect you and will not force you to do anything. "Finally, Dad said. Let’s have a heart-to-heart communication with you, and also sincerely send my father and mother’s most sincere blessings and expectations for you.

15. The age of eighteen also means growing up and taking on responsibilities from now on: to the country, to society, to family, and to oneself.

16. Before the age of 16, you belong to us. After you become an adult at the age of 18, you will belong to yourself.

17. At the age of eighteen, you have to work hard. After entering the senior year of high school, you will feel the fiercer competition and pressure than society. My parents firmly believe that you will use your greatest efforts and best condition to face next year's college entrance examination. Parents feel: There is no guarantee that dedication and hard work will be rewarded, but there will definitely be no reward if you don’t pay or work hard. You understand the truth, so let’s just encourage you. This is a critical period for you, and it is also the countdown stage for the college entrance examination. It is your character to go all out and work hard, and practice it every day! On this issue, most parents are putting pressure on their children, and you I have always been motivated without raising my whip. My parents still say the same thing - I believe in you! You will always be the best!

18. The age of eighteen is the expectation, the longing, and the future.

19. In more than two months, you will be a real adult. What does it mean to be an adult? It means that you will no longer be a willful child who can hide under the wings of your parents. It means that you will bid farewell to childishness and move towards maturity, overcome dependence and move towards independence. It means that you will have relative independence and autonomy while having the right to do so. , but also the obligations and responsibilities that adults should fulfill. From a novel perspective, this responsibility is for oneself, for parents, and for the family; from a broad perspective, it is for the country, for the people, and for the world in which we are too lazy to survive.

20. It seems to be a watershed. It really begins when you stay away from your hometown, your parents, and go out alone to study, study, find a job, and start a business. You no longer have the constant company of your relatives, and you can no longer rely on the meticulous care your parents give you. Your independent life has begun! Remember, everything depends on yourself.

21. At the age of eighteen, you should relax your emotions and take steady steps towards the goal in your heart! The future belongs to you! Your father and mother will cheer you and encourage you! They will always be your strongest backing. !

22 years old, a new starting point in life. After crossing this threshold, you will shoulder too many responsibilities: be responsible for yourself, create a perfect future, and create a happy and healthy life; be responsible for your parents, share their worries; be responsible for your future lover, *** Enjoy a beautiful life; be responsible for your future children and give him or her pleasure and joy; be responsible for society and build a harmonious and perfect society. . . . . .

23. You will be glad that you are our son, and we are also glad that we can give you a healthy life. We know that this life is the best reason for our existence in this world.

24. Eighteen years old, what a perfect time!

25. It’s time to set sail. You must be mentally prepared and remember the three pieces of advice from wise men about life: first, it is never good to take shortcuts, convenient and unfamiliar roads may kill you; second, it is never right to take shortcuts. Be curious about bad things, otherwise it may kill you; thirdly, it is never good to make decisions when you are filled with hatred and pain, otherwise you will regret it later.

26. As you are about to bid farewell to your boyhood and enter the ranks of adulthood, your father and mother, as brothers, sisters and elders, sincerely wish you to grow up strong and healthy!

27 , how will you cope with so many responsibilities? - Strengthen your beliefs, learn from the rich experience of your predecessors, build a strong body, use your profound knowledge and talent, perseverance and self-confidence to realize your unregretful promise!

28. Finally, I would like to use Paul Korchagin’s famous saying as the end of our New Year’s message to you: When he looks back on the past, he will not regret for wasting his years, nor for doing nothing. And shame.

29. When it comes to the age of 19, Dad has more profound and unforgettable memories. When my father was just one year old, he joined the army and joined the army. As soon as he puts on the military uniform, he becomes an uncle of the People's Liberation Army in people's minds. Wearing the military uniform, Dad feels like he has held a coming-of-age ceremony in advance. Since then, I have had one responsibility after another on my shoulders. Far away from home, alone, with neither relatives, friends nor any acquaintances around, Dad has only one choice for these responsibilities - "fight". Over the years, you have paid a lot, gained a lot, harvested a lot, and matured a lot. Only then did you have the opportunity to study in a prestigious school in Beijing.

30. At this moment, my parents can’t help but think of your past years. When you were growing up, your parents put a lot of effort into cultivating your healthy growth as the most important thing in the family. But at this time, what we think about more is not the hard work and fatigue, but what you brought to your parents after you were born. The joy and pleasure you feel, as well as the surprises and touches you bring to us time and time again as you continue to work hard and mature as you grow. To the classmates who have accompanied you through this journey, I am grateful for all the truth, goodness and beauty in the world, and for the nourishment that things have given you. Use this kind of gratitude to realize your ideals one after another.