No matter whether I look for a job or not in the future, I will try to find a sideline. I have done WeChat business and feel that it is not suitable for me. Anyway, this is a precious experience in life. I found something I love to write, and I have been recording my feelings in my circle of friends for years, which has given me a basic accumulation of writing, so that I can write my feelings and thoughts as long as I have ideas.
Seeing many excellent writers has really influenced me, which can be said to be a beacon for my direction and guide me to have a correct direction.
I have made the following plans for myself, so that I can form good habits, let my writing go deep into my bone marrow, be strict and self-disciplined, put forward better requirements for myself and constantly meet new challenges.
People are lazy, this is nature. However, people who are demanding of themselves and self-disciplined are not allowed to live a comfortable life. They are always pursuing new life challenges and making their limited lives meaningful. As Xu Sanduo said in Soldier Assault, people can't be too comfortable. Too comfortable will cause problems.
Usually, doing exercise at a fixed place and time will make people form a habit, and once the habit is formed, you will stick to what you want to do.
I have insisted on getting up at five o'clock every day for a month, and I have gained a lot this month. Although I didn't go to work, I restrained my growth with a standard, which is incomparable with going to work. Going to work is passive, while I am active. Because I take the initiative, face the problem positively, will not complain, and will not treat it negatively.
I have updated an article almost every day this month, and I have no requirements for myself. I don't think so.
The premise of writing is that there is something in your stomach and capacity in your head, so input is very important.
Since you are studying, you must first learn the most basic reading skills, learn how to read as you did when you were a student, and read in the most correct way. Don't waste the resources of a book, absorb the essence of the book, absorb the knowledge in the book, and maximize the benefits. Only by learning to walk can you run further.
Choosing a good book to study is to enable us to communicate with outstanding people in the world. Of course, our ideological level is definitely lower than that of the author of the book. It is precisely because of this unequal state that we can learn knowledge from them and make a leap in our thinking. The process of reading is also the process of our brain thinking. Only by thinking constantly can the brain be smart and witty.
Besides reading, read five excellent articles every day, and learn how excellent writers make the theme, structure, layout, language, argument and discussion of the articles.
Only by insisting on reading every day, so that the capacity of the brain is huge and our knowledge reserves are much more, can we write like a god, and the waves are turbulent and the supply of writing is endless.
Like reading, first learn how to write and then write, how to set a theme and then write. How to draw the outline? How to demonstrate and discuss your own views? Laying a solid foundation is like building a house and laying a foundation. If the foundation is laid firmly, the house will not collapse. Writing articles is logical, clear and well-organized.
Write a reading note every day to record what you read. Sometimes we say that I read the book, but I can't say. In fact, we are deceiving ourselves. Only when you say it can you really remember it in your heart. So we should write out our daily reading, so that we can deepen our memory and store it in our brain system. When the time is right, the opportunity will automatically jump out.
In the process of writing reading notes, you should ask questions about the book, then find the answers from the book and write them all down. What is this book about? What does the author elaborate? Does it make sense? What's the effect on you? To write all this out, only by relying on your own cognition and judgment can you complete a perfect reading journey.
Record the classic language and touching parts in the book, record the stories and famous sayings of excellent articles, record what you see and hear in life, record hot news events, record touching places in movies and television, use our eyes to discover the bits and pieces in life and become the writing material in the future.
Stick to an article every day, even an idea. Writing, writing, and constantly writing will run through a part of life, and words can also represent themselves, becoming the same label symbol as the name and going deep into the bone marrow.
People who have made achievements, outstanding people, or people who have made great contributions to society all have a quality, that is, the quality of perseverance, that is, they all rush to their destinations until the end.
Perhaps our intelligence is limited, but we can exercise our persistence and perseverance in our bones, so that when we encounter difficulties, we can face up to the bleak life, be positive and brave, and meet one new challenge after another.
In any field except writing, as long as you find the right direction, what you need to do is persistence. Only by persisting, persisting, persisting again and sharpening a sword for ten years can we sharpen our perseverance. Maybe those talented people can't compare with you in this respect. Their perseverance is far from yours. Perseverance helps you finally surpass them, and you may finally have your own runway.
What is even more frightening is that sometimes people who are better than you work harder than you. So what reason do we have not to work hard? There is no shortcut to success, only hard work, hard work and hard work.
If you don't know how to rest for a long time, you will suffer internal friction. The cells in our body sometimes need to relax properly and not stretch a thread too tightly. Life is like a rubber band. If you pull it too long, it will break.
This is especially true for the mental work of writing, and the cells in the brain also need rest and proper relaxation. It should be for quality and efficiency, not for internal friction. After a long time, our body, mind and spirit will not persist.
The same is true in other fields. Busy work makes people fidgety, angry, impetuous, anxious and depressed.
At this time, we can choose an afternoon, drinking tea, listening to music, walking and blowing a breeze, and have a thorough rest, which is not only a physical rest, but also a complete relaxation of mind and spirit, so as to slow down life.
Then you will find that if you write later, you will have a lot of inspiration, your brain will be more agile and you will write a lot. This time shows the importance of relaxation to efficiency.
Other aspects are the same, the work is very heavy, and proper rest and relaxation will release our emotions and relieve the pressure of work.
Sometimes I feel grateful to my two babies. It is this pressure that makes me strict with myself and work hard for my life. Without this pressure, I don't think I have this kind of consciousness anyway. If I use this knowledge to plan the future, life will be chaotic and at a loss.
An old pioneer lost his horse-a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. Everything has two sides. It looks like a bad thing, but it actually plays a positive role. Since when is stress not the driving force of my life?
In the future, I will abide by these rules, plan my life well, be self-disciplined, be strict with myself, and work hard to make my future as a second-born treasure mother more exciting!