Humans are complex animals, and there are driving factors behind every motivation. And to be yourself is to build a trustworthy framework for your choice by developing yourself.
We live in a complicated society, and it is easy to suppress our true nature and compromise under the shackles of so-called responsibilities and obligations. Or blindly pursue qualities that do not match one's own and deviate from oneself.
Oscar Wilde famously said: Be yourself, everyone else has already been done.
Being yourself means conscious self-awareness. By understanding your own characteristics, you can balance the pros and cons of life and control the right to choose.
Being yourself does not mean being self-centered, but respecting your own choices and judgments based on differences. He will not deliberately cater to others, nor will he ignore the outside world and go his own way.
When you gradually understand yourself through reflection, you can make the most appropriate choices and judgments. Only this kind of spiritual independence can make you feel the freedom and happiness of life.