As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. This is a proverb handed down from ancient times to the present. At that time, with the development of the times, men and women are becoming more and more equal now. It can be said that this sentence should also change with the development of the times.
In modern society, both men and women are afraid of getting into the wrong business and finding the wrong person. Therefore, for men and women, work and partners are the two most important things in life. No matter what is not handled well, it may bring you a lot of trouble and pain.
When looking for a partner, you must choose someone who is suitable for you, trustworthy and accompanied. For men, when looking for long-term partners, don't lust after these three women.
1. Beautiful but luxurious woman
For ordinary men, finding the other half, no matter how beautiful the other person is, should also pay attention to whether the other person is profligate. Some women may not have high income, but their consumption concept is biased and it is difficult to control when shopping.
In the past Double Eleven, there were two social news stories, both of which were extreme events caused by the husband's despair of his wife's double eleven shopping spree. Couples just want to live. Once you meet such a woman, they can't afford it even if they earn more money.
There is a movie in Hong Kong called Natural Shoppers, which describes a woman who can't control beautiful and favorite goods and has to buy countless pieces to move home. In modern psychology, shopaholism is even a manifestation of mental illness, and sometimes it really needs adjustment and cure.
Of course, there is no problem with women's normal consumption desire, but extravagant, unrestrained and completely unplanned women will definitely make your life make ends meet.
2. A greedy woman
Today's society, about? Gold digger? Everyone may have seen and heard of such a woman. The desire for money can be said to be the greatest pursuit of such women. For the sake of money, they can throw away the principle of being a man and don't care whether there are feelings in marriage. Everything is measured by money.
So, almost all men will not be willing to find it? Gold digger? Be the other half of yourself, because you can't find the emotional foundation with her, and you can almost never meet her material needs and desires. In addition to men who are willing to make money transactions, rich and powerful men will also avoid such women when choosing a spouse.
In the TV series "Revelation of Life" a few years ago, Hugh played the actor's ex-girlfriend Dudu, who was a flight attendant and earned a lot of money. She disdained Hugh's frugality and poverty, turned to pursue her rich second generation, but finally divorced. Marriage for the purpose of money is doomed to a tragic end.
3.? Bitch? Types of women
There is an old saying that a lion growls, that is, there is a fierce wife at home who often makes a hullabaloo about, as the saying goes? Bitch? . Such women are not uncommon in real life or film and television dramas.
Bitch? Type-women will use rolling in search as their own weapon, thinking that searching in search will make the other party yield and achieve their goals. Nowadays, the mobile phone media is more and more developed, and some provocative behaviors have been photographed by netizens and posted on the Internet, which has become a negative example of ridiculous generosity.
And this type of women, at home, are often unreasonable, easily lose their temper, swear, and criticize their husbands and treat the elderly, which is often very unfilial. Once you have such a wife at home, your husband, relatives and friends may have headaches, and naturally there will be countless contradictions and disputes, making it difficult to live quietly.
Therefore, when choosing a partner, male friends must pay attention to observation and never find such trouble for themselves.
Choose the other half, don't look at too many external conditions, the inner quality and personality are actually the most important. If you find a really kind and gentle wife, you can say that you have won more than half of your life.