However, if you pay a little attention, you will find that most of the applicants are young people who have just joined the company for a long time, especially singles.
For them, giving up may be just a simple decision. They don't like it, have no future or have a better place. The obvious focus is on it, and there is no need to think about it.
On the contrary, for the old employees who have been employed for many years, especially those with families and children, resignation is a big event. We should not only consider personal feelings, but also weigh giving up and persisting, which is more beneficial to future development and family interests and which is more sure.
These people who are still insisting on it are not that everything is going well at the moment, not to mention that they have no ideas. Some of them complain about the status quo, or that their pay is low or their intensity is high or their pressure is high. Some of them are dissatisfied with their income, or they can't make ends meet or make no progress or are disappointed.
why do you persist when you clearly want to give up?
1. I really love it and don't want to let it go.
"Do a job, love a job" is not a slogan. Some people really love their jobs. They can live for more than ten years or decades, such as the old teachers at the grass-roots level. No matter how earth-shaking the campus is, they still stick to the mission of teaching and educating people, with a piece of chalk, a clean hand, a three-foot platform and four seasons of hard work. I was reluctant to leave until I retired.
It is precisely because of this love that persistence is not bitter, but just sweet. The responsibility and cognition of being a teacher give him the strength to persist, and he is willing to be a ladder and a silkworm.
even if you encounter difficulties, temptations and the idea of giving up comes up, you can adjust it in time and stick to it.
2. Encouragement of successful precedents.
"Persistence is victory". Since childhood, I have heard too many cases in which someone succeeded because of persistence, so I have become more and more firm in the belief that "persistence can lead to success".
In China, 15, startups are born every day, and thousands of them close down. Many young people hope to change their destiny through entrepreneurship.
The market is cruel and the competition is fierce. This road is not smooth sailing. As a result, they often motivate themselves with the hardships of their predecessors in the industry.
For example, Jack Ma, a big coffee merchant, started his business four times and succeeded at the last time. In the most difficult time of Alibaba, there were only 2 yuan left in the company's bank account.
When you want to give up, these godlike characters, their inspirational quotes and stories, are particularly powerful and inspiring, which can make you bite your teeth, stand up and believe that you can succeed. The process is nothing more than a protracted war, and the setbacks are temporary, just to hone and test people.
3. success is close at hand.
when you are only one step away from the goal you set, you often choose to stick to it. The visible results make us think that success is just around the corner and within reach. As long as we keep taking one step forward, driven by this idea, you will continue to take the second step, the third step and the hundredth step ... < P > In an experiment, the brain of people playing slot machines was monitored. The researchers found that when gamblers met a "close victory" and really won money,
It is this reaction that motivates them to continue playing, even if they lose money, they will not give up.
4. It's hard to get out of the comfort zone
Our skilled working style and familiar colleagues at * * * have made us the most accustomed and comfortable state. Even if there is some friction on weekdays, I am willing to bear it.
once you want to walk out of this area, you will feel awkward and flustered. For example, a person who is used to brushing his teeth with his right hand will feel uncomfortable if he is asked to brush his teeth with his left hand.
Giving up means changing, starting over and getting out of the comfort zone, which requires courage and determination.
Many people don't want to break this calm. They would rather endure it than consider "giving up" and make any attempt.
5. Not the way
Opportunities and choices are not everywhere at any time. For mortals, nothing remains unchanged, which may be the normal state of life.
There have been several times when you were full of confidence and high morale and thought about how to change and how to explore, but suddenly you thought about all kinds of things in front of you.
with limited money, limited contacts and poor ability, they have never been tempered, so they stifled these lofty aspirations one by one in their imagination and left them all behind.
Perseverance may be a life-saving move and a maintenance work; Or wait for the opportunity.
giving up a job, a relationship and a dream is not only giving up everything you have, but giving up your unsatisfied self.
There are too many insights about persistence:
"Some things don't persist until you see hope, but only when you persist can you see hope. Ten deadly sins of the spider
Don't give yourself too many reasons to give up, because people who are better than you are still insisting. And all persistence in this world is because of love. -Zhang Haochen's You Are the Best Yourself "
" Life will get better if it is bad to a certain extent, because it can't get worse. I didn't know many things until I worked hard. I persisted and came over. -Miyazaki Hayao My Neighbor Totoro "
" Persistence "has become an excellent quality and the only way to success.
Sticking to one thing is sometimes just like going downstream, which is caused by inertia. In the face of difficulties, persistence has become the most stable and comfortable choice, as long as you are willing to continue to be patient.
On the surface, not all persistence will have results, but as long as persistence, the frozen land can also produce roses in full bloom.
in fact, what you call "persistence" is not the correct decision without deviation. It may lead you to a "dead end" and make you waste your energy.
single-minded persistence is never the only way out, and neither is giving up.
Giving up is not failure. Don't be afraid to give up for fear of failure.
No matter which way you choose, it is the most important thing to know what you want, what you want, and whether you will regret it in the future.
Previous studies have shown that although people will regret what they have done, as time goes by, they will regret what they have not done. Because of what you have done, you can find various rationalization explanations for yourself, but what you have not done has no basis and no explanation.
in the long night, if you can't sleep, it's better to ask your heart what you want to do.
Everything follows your heart, and it is no longer a bitter insistence or a painful abandonment.